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Is it really possible she can't remember why she hurt me??

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Question - (19 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

a girl i have been dating (not for so long, 3 months) has been recently breaking our plans at the last minute. this last time, i got tickets to a show and she canceled again with a text msg a few hours before, I called her and she said she just didnt feel well. i didnt believe her and we got into a royal row and we broke up that day.

since then in the last week she emailed me to see how i was doing and we started chatting online again. she asked if i wanted to see her. i told her no, not until she explained why she *really* broke her plans with me. then she tells me 'i dont remember, honestly i dont.'

I replied it was bollux, how could she not recall if it was important to her? she insisted she didnt recall. i told her i could not believe anyone could be that shallow as to not remember a major blow up like that with someone you assumedly care about.

now i ask you, is this possible? can a person really be that shallow?? or is she just lying again....

much appreciation

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A female reader, lost.dreamer Canada +, writes (19 June 2011):

I can't possible know where her head was at, but I would not forget something like that, it would be playing in my head over and over again, but my boyfreind has done many stupid things to me and doesn't have a clue. Maybe she realized how important you were when you were apart, and now sees that she wants you in her life. Best of luck and follow your heart toward the future that is best for you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011):

She is a player, how could that be possible! Does she remember her name?! Just move on, is so difficult to deal with such a personality.

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