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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, throughout these 2 years he has only been able to ejaculate once a day. Sometimes if we've had sex multiple days in a row he needs a break, and can't even get hard, in fact sometimes I will just stand in front of him naked and he's not interested. On top of all this, he is at the ripe age of 20 and we started dating when he was 18. So I am curious as to why his sex drive is so low at a young age? He can't even masturbate, because it would take away from his sex drive, resulting in a unsatisfied girlfriend. I love him to death but I want sex more often, something he isn't able to do, and so I've heard , it only slows down from here. So I'm slightly concerned seeing as sex is a big part of a healthy relationship for me. I guess I just want to know if it's normal so young, and if it can be changed.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (27 June 2011):
 Some men have a lower stamina than others. Once a day is still not what I'd call a low libido, maybe lower half side of average on a bell-curve. However if you need it more than he does, that's a problem you may need to think about.
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reader, lost.dreamer  +, writes (26 June 2011):
I had similiar issues with my boyfreind, but it had been that way with his last girlfriends, so he told me it's normal. I've only been with a handful of guys so I'm no expert, but he has been able to have many multiple pleasure sessions since, on a regular basis. He stressed and worried about it so much that he seemed to have a barrier, the more you stress the situation the worse it becomes. Relax, allow him to play, regardless of the outcome, make sure he knows you enjoyed the time, as long as it was time you spent together... find alternate ways together to satisfy each other. When the pressure is off, you may be back here asking, how to shut the thing off, you can't keep up ggl (giggle)
oh yeah things like alcohol and drugs, over tired... that can also cause issues - but be cautious on how you try to correct things without causing added pressure
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (26 June 2011):
At 20 I had to do a lot of talking very sternly to My More Powerful Brain and thinking about highly revolting things like sewage vats and 90 year old having oral sex to get the damn thing to behave. So yes, I do think that at his age this is somewhat abnormal performance, and that he should see a doctor. If there's nothing wrong physically, he may be gay. Sorry to be so blunt.
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