Unsure...
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...
A. 24 February 2008: Tell you what I'll do there's this bridge called the Golden Gate, that I own, And I will sell it to you for only one dollar,now we know that is a bunch of bull,don't we? Well love without a commitment isn't love,it's called being sexually used. Now ... (read in full...)
Unsure...
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...
A. 24 February 2008: Tell you what I'll do there's this bridge called the Golden Gate, that I own, And I will sell it to you for only one dollar,now we know that is a bunch of bull,don't we? Well love without a commitment isn't love,it's called being sexually used. Now ... (read in full...)
Any tips for getting over being messed over by a guy?
Q. Hi, Has anybody got any tips for getting over being messed about by a guy. I keep thinking about him all the time. Sometimes I'm angry at what he did, sometimes I remember the chemistry we had and I'm hoping he will call me, other times I'm trying...
A. 17 February 2008: Me like AskEve would like to know more about how he messed you up.... (read in full...)
Should I cry out when I orgasm?
Q. I've recently started to orgasm during intercourse and sometimes feel like calling out with the pleasure.I'm a bit shy though and wonder if the people in the bedroom next door might hear-especially when it's so quiet at night.My man says if ...
A. 17 February 2008: Yes, Go for it and if the people next doors hears your cries of sexual joy,it just might help them to increase their sexual togetherness. Any way they'll know why you have that wonderful smile upon your face when they see you the next day.... (read in full...)
Why do men stray into the arms of another??
Q. This question isn't actually about my relationship, but I do have a general curiosity about infidelity. It seems as though I am surrounded by hundreds of women, whose husbands/boyfriends have cheated. I'm not baiting anyone, I really have a geniune ...
A. 17 February 2008: Why do men stray? Guess you will get many reasons from many men,as to why they cheat. But in many cases,There is only a Physical-Bond between a man and a woman. And our love often is just sex,not love at all. Whereas a woman's love is more of an ... (read in full...)
Why do men stray into the arms of another??
Q. This question isn't actually about my relationship, but I do have a general curiosity about infidelity. It seems as though I am surrounded by hundreds of women, whose husbands/boyfriends have cheated. I'm not baiting anyone, I really have a geniune ...
A. 17 February 2008: Why do men stray? Guess you will get many reasons from many men,as to why they cheat. But in many cases,There is only a Physical-Bond between a man and a woman. And our love often is just sex,not love at all. Whereas a woman's love is more of an ... (read in full...)
Unsure...
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...
A. 17 February 2008: I"m think that what you ended with," What's in it for me"? pretty well sums up your awareness that there is not much in that relationship for you, but you just haven't decided as of yet,to cut-and- run. Please move on with your life,as you don't ... (read in full...)
Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?
Q. Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?...
A. 17 February 2008: Laura1318:
Is right we don't know how to communicate with the opposite gender. And yes that is how us men are brought up in all cultures. Forget about women using all of their brains,as I have also met lots of women who only use what's below ther... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 17 February 2008: Tell all the wonderful people who visit other Web Sites to put in a plug for Dearcupid.org That's what I do on other Answers Sites... (read in full...)
How can I help him last longer?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend about 5 months and recentely started having sex, one problem he doesn't last even 5 minutes, he said it never happened with his ex so he doesn't know what he is doing wrong. He's been trying to get with me since secondary ...
A. 10 February 2008: There is great Info on the Web that deals with his problem,but do look it up as a team,so you both can work on the problem. And even if in his other relationship there wasn't this Problem,it can and does happen to all men in theie relationships ... (read in full...)
Why does he treat me so badly?
Q. My boyfriend has been treating me really bad and I don't know how to tell him how he's been treating me because whenever I try to tell him he gets mad. He never wants to talk unless we're having sex. If we're not having sex and I try to talk to him ...
A. 10 February 2008: You love him,but he doesn't love you or he wouldn't treat you like a piece of s***. Find you some one else who know how to love a woman... (read in full...)
Long Term Relationship Ended Abruptly.
Q. For 20 years, I have carried on an on and off relationshp to a man I was engaged to in 1987. It didn't work out at the time but we always seem to come back together... Well, mostly for sex... which was very good, but then I would not hear from him...
A. 10 February 2008: I think that if you were me,that I would look at all of those wonderful years of togetherness that the two of you have shared,and count them as a blessing,but them I would get lost in an other relationship with some one else where I could share what ... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on internet porn?
Q. I am asking all of you Agony Aunts how you feel about Men watching Porn on The Web. You men out there, Please, let the women have their say. Who knows,Together we may learn how they feel about Web Porn. And you Ladies, please, feel free to speak ...
A. 9 February 2008: Thank You Thank You:
All of you wonderful Agony Aunts and Uncles for opening my eyes and mind on how you feel about Porn. I have looked at it as a good way to spice up a hoohum sexual relationship,but also am aware that like anything else it too ... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 9 February 2008: I couldn't put it any better than jaasmine. So be a fool if you want to,but we make our own beds and we have to lie in them. You are asking what you should do,but you already know the answer,so forget your heart and go with your head for a change.... (read in full...)
Why do guys think its so hott to make a girl have an orgasm?
Q. When me and my boyfriend have sex he tries so hard to make me orgasm, it feels so good and I want to be able to Orgasm so bad but I dont know why I cant? Is it the fact I'm afraid we'll have to clean up my mess? Whats wrong? I know alot of girls ...
A. 9 February 2008: You said that you never have an orgasm,if I am correct. It has been stated that only one woman out of three can have an orgasm by vaginal-intercourse,guess you are one of the other two who can't have an orgasm with intercourse. Here is the reason. ... (read in full...)
I'm playing a "dangerous game" with a married man. Do I stop this BEFORE anyone gets hurt?
Q. Im playing a dangerous game, thats how he put it. Flirting (its both sided) with a married man. we talk about sex all the time and get on well generally. last night he text me saying "do you think we're playing a dangerous game?" i replied with...
A. 9 February 2008: Most married men don't leave their wives,but they do use women just for sex. Do you want to get used? Well,That's what is going to happen in your relationship. And perhaps, He'll leave his calling-card,a baby for you to care for,I'm sure that he ... (read in full...)
I want them to have great lives.
Q. Hello again, My name is Faith and i previously posted a question about my childrens grandmother wanting to take custody of them. First of all thankyou for all your help but i have another question. Ive been thinking alot, and im just wonde...
A. 8 February 2008: Their having a great life without you just won't happen,as you are a part of them and they are very much a part of you.And no truly, heart felt love is going to give up their own flesh and blood,and call that love. I couldn't do that,but I know ... (read in full...)
My sex drive is gone.
Q. i can just take it or leave it, but even when i take it, i never have an orgasm or come with my partner. i never have with any partner. im 37 and i realise it must be a mental thing but i love and trust this guy im with so what the hell is my ...
A. 8 February 2008: When a man's penis is stroking your vagina, his glans of penis, the head of his penis, is directly being stimulated by the vaginal walls, whereas his penis may only be indirectly stimulating your Love-Button, your clitoris. And just as his head of ... (read in full...)
What's your opinion about porn?
Q. Ok every time I write that i have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn i always get this answer that all guys do it and to expect it. I just want to see more peoples thoughts on it cause if its so harmless, why am I getting so hurt by it? Ill ...
A. 8 February 2008: Porn was born when God made a naked woman,Eve. I doubt that there was any wedding ceremony either, so they would of been living in what we call today,as an unmarried state. And their children married each other,who else was there to marry?. And we ... (read in full...)
Porn is somewhat ruining our relationship, as he enjoys watching it whereas I think it's a sin! How to convince him?...
Q. Hi, I have a boyfriend who likes to watch girl on girl porn, but unlike him I hate it, it's wrong and version of porn and I know it's a sin. How do I help him understand how I feel about it and why it's so wrong because he seems to think it's per...
A. 8 February 2008: There is a misunderstanding that I would like to clear-up,when it comes to Porn. Adam's first Porn was a naked Eve,and I am sure that God didn't have to show Adam what to do with that naked woman,nor any of us men,as a matter of fact. As for getting ... (read in full...)
How can I masturbate properly??
Q. When it comes to masturbating, everyone says you should just experiment and see what you like. And I can find SOME things that I like, but I just don't seem to enjoy it that much. I'd love to be able to masturbate (I know it sounds strange) ...
A. 7 February 2008: Why don't you research the Web as it can give you lots of good pointers on how to Masturbate.... (read in full...)
A good position for our first intimate encounter? (we are both not virgins)
Q. i've been friends with this girl for a while now but i think we are ready to get intimate now. i want this to be comfortable, she's definitly not a virgin and i'm not either but what would be a good position to start off with. ladies any help would ...
A. 31 January 2008: Hey! Have you ever heard of foreplay? "No", It has nothing to do with football. It's when a man really gets to know a woman's whole,sexy body. He just doesn't jump her bones right off,only an ignoramus does that. Think of your car,don't you first ... (read in full...)
My ex could never get over the fact I dated somebody else during a break: please help me put my family back together.
Q. my ex and i have were together over 4 years. we have a beautiful little girl, an engagement, 2 dogs, a house, joint bank accounts, etc. things were rough about 2 1/2 years in, we fought constantly and i split up with her, then dated another wo...
A. 31 January 2008: How would I handle what you two are going through? Both of you are in the wrong,as two wrongs,your and hers, don't make a right.You split from her and dated another woman for a while,no sex. Well, I beg to differ with you,any togetherness with ... (read in full...)
I like this guy but I'm secretly jealous that he looks at other girls.
Q. Hi ok i really need your help, i'm not the type to actually want a bf but i seriously like this lad at college, Although we don't have an awful lot in common we are the same personality wise, i do talk to him abit but why do i get so jealous when he ...
A. 31 January 2008: Hey! I am a man. And when I quite looking at other women will be the day that I am either blind,or dead,that is what us men do,but most of us don't make it quite so obvious. So don't let Jealousy,the Green-Eyed Monster mess up your relationship.... (read in full...)
Am I really gay? I can't decide if I want to be with men or women!!!
Q. I wrote in before about being in a gay relationship and wasn't sure if that lifestyle was for me. I have now ended the relationship and i am gutted.... My ex g/f has been great, i've hurt her really badly but she understands my dilema about being wi...
A. 31 January 2008: I think that often we are conditionally gay,by that I mean we have a relationship with same gender,and we really enjoy like bodies and like minds,and sex after all is sex regardless of who we are sharing our bodies with. If You were Bi-Sexual you ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that I made out with his best friend?
Q. okay me and my boyfriend have not been dating very long..and i now like his best friend..and he likes me and...well...at my boyfriends basketball game i kinda made out with his friend..and i now know that i dont like him and i really really like my ...
A. 31 January 2008: Yes, by all means you need to tell your BF,as he will sooner or later find out,so it should come from you... (read in full...)
Are my friends being mean about me?
Q. me and my freinds have had some convasations about what was being said on a school bus.there is a boy i like who catches it and he simply asked what do i look like? these 2 girls both are my freinds but we dont hang around together. they burst out...
A. 31 January 2008: To be a bitch is also to be a mean person,perhaps it's time to really look at your so called friends.... (read in full...)
How do I let my girlfriend know I'm not comfortable with her smoking Marijuana?
Q. Personally I choose not to smoke marijuana, but my girlfriend does it and she knows i wont do it so she does it behind my back. She does it once every couple of weeks, and although most argue there is nothing wrong with the substance itself, i just ...
A. 31 January 2008: You really want an answer to your question? "Tell her it goes or she go". So she can make up her mind which of the two she wants in her life.... (read in full...)
Little things he does seem to annoy me lately. I think this is a probelm with me. Can anyone help me out?
Q. I've been in a relationship for around a year now with a boy I go to school with. We're past the boyfriend/girlfriend stage - I class him as my partner. We've been sleeping together for about seven months, first time for both of us. Lately though, ...
A. 31 January 2008: Perhaps You are going through a biological change within your body chemistry,and being PG will always affect how a woman feels and acts,not saying that is what is going on with you,but then if our hormones are out of balance,This can also bring ... (read in full...)
Me and my guy are ready for sex. Will it hurt?
Q. Me and my bf have been together a long time, and he and I both feel we are ready to have sex. But.. Im scared it will hurt. I was just wondering.. is the pain realy bad? I have been horse riding for 13 years now and I heard that can break your hym...
A. 31 January 2008: Being a man leaves me out,but then there will be lots of women who are better able to answer your question. Do grow in your togetherness.
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Is it normal for people to go cold towards their partner at times?
Q. I have been going out with this guy for over two months. It has been a wonderful relationship. Started out magically and everything. I see him every day. About two days ago, I noticed he was acting strangely and asked him what happened. He said ...
A. 31 January 2008: You got some very good answers,and they say what I would also say about your relationship. We all need our space now and then.... (read in full...)
Am I being played for a fool? Should I even talk to her?
Q. Ok. I was with this girl for 2years. We broke up in August of 2007. We had an on going relationship, even having sex until October. Around mid November i cut it off, and didn't speak to her again until a bit before New years. Since we broke up we ...
A. 30 January 2008: Hey! You got all feminine view points,but they're all right on .So keep right on playing the fool.... (read in full...)
Would you allow your wife to have sex with another man?
Q. If you were unable to satisfy your wife sexually due to health problems, would it be ok to allow her to have sex with a person of your choice?...
A. 30 January 2008: This answer will not set well with a lot of people,but then I never was a people pleaser either. I am going on 80,years young,so unless viagra can help me to improve my sexual performance,Yes I would not only encourage my wife to have another ... (read in full...)
Do I chose my family or the love of my life?
Q. i am a hindu girl.i am in love with a christian boy.my family is against this affair.they want me to marry a hindu .but i cant.we love each other so much.he is very sincere and loving.but then i dont want to hurt my parents.what will i do.i want my ...
A. 30 January 2008: There come a time when you must put first things first in your life,and you will have to go with your heart,or with your parents. Me I would go with my heart and find happiness or you'll live to regret your parents plans for your life,plans that ... (read in full...)
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