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How do I let my girlfriend know I'm not comfortable with her smoking Marijuana?

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Question - (30 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *olostick23 writes:

Personally I choose not to smoke marijuana, but my girlfriend does it and she knows i wont do it so she does it behind my back. She does it once every couple of weeks, and although most argue there is nothing wrong with the substance itself, i just don't like it (even though i never tried). So my question is, what do i say to convey to her my uncomfortable-ness.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (31 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou could just tell her in a friendly way why you don't like smoking marijuana and leave it like that. You cannot force the issue. She will have to tackle that issue alone.

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A male reader, leonard j. Douglas  +, writes (31 January 2008):

You really want an answer to your question? "Tell her it goes or she go". So she can make up her mind which of the two she wants in her life.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008):

Honestly, something like that should be told straight forward. I think You need to just confront her and basically say you don't approve/feel comfortable. If she doesn't listen to you or doesn't seem to care then maybe you should think possibly about finding someone who will be ok with not smoking.

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