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... Send *ittykhaos a private message | | | *ittykhaos's profile:Hay, I live in the south of England but i have lived all over the country. In my 25 years i have had some pretty strange and wonderful experiences. I have been in a long term relationship, ive been in a violent relationship, ive fallen for my best friend, ive been cheated on and ive been the other woman lol so i have picked up some useful tips on the way but other things still baffle me to this day.I am a musician my life revolves around it and so do my love interests usually lol
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Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 12 July 2009: I walked away, I emailed them all and told them I couldn't hang on to the hope that I could go back to being part of there family if no one would speak to me and tell me what was wrong. None of them got back to me at all and I still never found out ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 11 July 2009: so i did it, i emailed them all and said i wanted no part in there life, Im gutted more than gutted. They never replied so i guess this was the right thing to do thanks for your help x ... (read in full...)
I'm scared my boyfriend will object to the dress I've bought.
Q. We are invited to a 4th of July party, and I bought a rather modest (in length) strapless summer frock, which shouldn't be a problem except my bf is very particular about what I wear, and I am afraid he will somehow object to this dress!! He also ...
A. 1 July 2009: is this a relationship or a dictatorship? Please PLEASE wear the dress its YOUR dress and its the 4th of July and my american history is not amazing but im pretty sure thats INDEPENDENCE DAY!! INdependence lol I would never ever go out with someone ... (read in full...)
I think I'm frigid
Q. Im very worried because i think im fridgid. All my life i hate it when people hugged me or touched me and im exteremly stiff, it never realy bothered me but then i relised something is very wrong with me. I dont want a boyfriend like everyone el...
A. 9 June 2009: Have you thought about seeing someone a councillor maybe. You obviously have bad associations with sex and i can understand if this is what is holding you back from physical interaction. You need to get rid of the guilt you feel for not helping this ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex's new girl that he's cheating on her?
Q. ok this is kinda hard for me to write this but i really need advice, Im still good friends with my ex bf and we do still get on great,he has a new gf whos pregnent with his baby and yes i admit i find it really hard sometimes to see them both tog...
A. 9 June 2009: This is a tough one because what is likely to happen is you are going to be made out as the bag guy. I agree she needs to know also if your ex is propositioning you then he is not your "friend". The best thing to do is to stay well clear of this ... (read in full...)
Too skinny to date?
Q. Yeah, that's it. I'm 24 now and if you look at me, you'd think I stopped developing when I was 14. 6ft and only 135-140 lbs which apparently is a huge turn off for girls. I'm not going to say I've tried everything in order to gain weight...
A. 7 June 2009: you should try and improve your confidence. What is annoying is i weigh 10 stone and im 6 foot and people still think im "over weight" for a girl. while to be fair im not particularly into skinny guys im not into fat guys either my x b/f was 6"5 and ... (read in full...)
How can I change my abusive hubbie without involving the police?
Q. I'm 21 y/o and I have been with john for 5 years we got married 3 mos ago and we have 2 daughters (1yr and almost 2 1/2 y/o) but we had an abusive incident about a year ago he hit me, when i was pregnant he was arrested in jail for 4 days and ...
A. 7 June 2009: Im sorry you need to leave him even if you do love him i know it sucks but he wont change with you still being there. My x was abusive and i tried everything but its hard to get anyone to listen. You and your kids need to get out of there. If he ... (read in full...)
He Cheated on me for months & lied about it: Do I end it?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and I cannot continue to be with him. Am I doing the right thing by ending it? We fell in love and lived together for several months, but he had to move for job reasons. Ever since that time, we have been lon...
A. 7 June 2009: "I cannot continue to be with him" There's your answer.
good luck no one deserves to play you and keep you x... (read in full...)
I am seeing a therapist, but the issue is not resolved.
Q. Please give me some perspective! I am a 41 year old recently married male. In my younger days, I led a very very wild life. I have had sex with hundreds of women, been with escorts, done threesomes, dated strippers, etc etc. I always was safe ...
A. 7 June 2009: I have a friend who has this exact problem (he managed a music venue strippers groupies prostitutes etc.) He has never been in a relationship in which he hasn't cheated on his g/f but he is so un happy. Have you thought that maybe you could include ... (read in full...)
I want to give him the space he asked for with this break, but I'm afraid he'll forget about me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now, we met in a very special way and we're honestly so in love, everything is perfect between us, he always tells me how in love with me he is and how i'm the best thing that's ever happened to him, ...
A. 4 June 2009: when you love someone you dont forget them over night. Love doesn't fade in space or time there has to be a real valid reason and a week long break wont cost you your relationship if he loves you. Im in love with someone we fell out 2 months ago and ... (read in full...)
I'm painfully shy. How can I find it easier to talk to the opposite sex?
Q. hi im a 22 year old guy and my problem is that i cant talk to girls, the furthest i ever get is eye contact, i dont remember the last time i had a conversation with a girl. This is especially bad if I'm attracted to the girl. I feel as if its ...
A. 3 June 2009: lol you sound just like my best friend he is 21 and im the only girl he has ever slept with because he just can't talk to girls. The trick is to realise we don't all bite and you maybe good looking but you have to build your confidence. Maybe you ... (read in full...)
I was so upset over him that I cut myself
Q. i'm 16 and in high school. ok so i like this guy. he's amazing and i think i'm in love with him. i just can't stop thinking about him. we're friends and we always talk on the bus cause he's not in any of my classes. i think he might know i like him, ...
A. 3 June 2009: First of all GROW UP!! You don't ask a guy you like "would you care if i died?" what kind of question is that. What do you think you will gain by cutting yourself? All you will gain is a nasty scar as a reminder of an upsetting moment. Also you ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get another girlfriend?
Q. Hi, I'm eighteen, just graduated from high school, and have a full-ride scholarship to Juilliard; I play concert piano. I'm 6'2" and 195 lbs. I've only ever had one girlfriend and we broke up last year after only two months together. We still have ...
A. 3 June 2009: You sound like my perfect man i LOVE musicians!!
No seriously you shouldn't worry, Im a musician too, i live, breathe, eat and sleep music im a classical singer and a guitarist.My ex is a bass player and the last guy i saw was a jazz guitarist. The ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 29 May 2009: Thank you for replying i know that was ALOT to take in lol I have tried to talk to him i called him and said call me when he's free but he hasn't.im waiting for his mum to call me because in her email she said she would probably be best calling ... (read in full...)
First steps as a gay female....
Q. im single. super single. have never been into a relationship before.. have quite a number of male suitors but am not interested in them! i think im gay, and i feel soo trapped. im tall with athletic body, decent looking, but have yet to attract any ...
A. 28 May 2009: Never try and settle you will spend your life miserable. If you don't club i guess you could try web sites i have never tried this but i may work for you :) We all fear we wont find out soul mate but you have to try before you can fail at ... (read in full...)
First steps as a gay female....
Q. im single. super single. have never been into a relationship before.. have quite a number of male suitors but am not interested in them! i think im gay, and i feel soo trapped. im tall with athletic body, decent looking, but have yet to attract any ...
A. 28 May 2009: Hay :) I am a straight girl who gets a lot of female attention. Im 6 foot athletic and feminine. If you want to attract girls, you have to go to the kind of bars lesbians go to. Maybe if you have a good friend to go with to boost your confidence. ... (read in full...)
Fell out of love with my wife, want to move on with a new love
Q. Ive been married for 6 years with a 3 year old. I feel that Im not in love with my wife anymore, although she is a great mother and wife. Shes a stay at home mom. We just went in different directions. Life goals, humor, hobbies, etc. Im a ...
A. 27 May 2009: As bad as you may feel about it you can not fall back in love with your wife because she wishes you too. If you love this other woman, then its unfair to yourself and your wife to even give it ago when your hearts not in it. As someone else stated ... (read in full...)
I love him but he loves her!...I cant win!
Q. I love him so much.He loves her. She loves him. Everybody wins but me. I just can't get over him. He's my best friend and I'm happy for him, on the outside, but on the inside, I'm dealing with the pure agony of it all. I want him so badly but I know ...
A. 27 May 2009: please do yourself a favour and walk away because otherwise you could wait forever for him to leave her and he may never. If he truly loves her. I know this is harsh and My best friend waited for me for 3 years and i was in love with him ( please ... (read in full...)
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