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When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?

Q.   Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...

A.   12 June 2009: Thanks for all your answers so far =) The thing is, I have had about 10 boyfriends between the age of 11 and 14 (haven't had one for a year) but they wernt propper boyfriends. I never went out with them, just hung about in school. My ex best frie... (read in full...)

How do I get put into care?

Q.   MOD NOTE: USER SAYS HE IS 15 AND NOT THE AGE STATED. I want to go into foster care but i'm not sure how to go about it.. i've told my mum i want to and she seems angry but says if thats what i really want she's going to take me to some place in...

A.   22 May 2009: Heyy!! I kind of understand u! I don't get on with any of my family but they don't physically abuse me! When I told a friend that I wanted to go into fostering for a while she laughed, but she hadn't realized how difficult I was finding life!! ... (read in full...)

I need someone to talk to

Q.   Hi... Is there anyone I can talk to about stuff? I'm a teenager, don't have many issues, but I do really need someone to talk to, because my family doesn't really care how I feel as long as I do well.. Thanks :)...

A.   22 May 2009: heyy!! I have been upset all day because of my family. My friends at school asked me whats wrong but I partly didnt want to say, and partly didn't know how to say it! I need someone to talk with too! Please message me and I'm sure I could help u an... (read in full...)

Am I weird because I'm at virgin?

Q.   Iv'e just turned sixteen and im still a virgin most of my friends arent. Does this make me weird? help!...

A.   18 May 2009: You should be proud!! I'm 15, and the friends I know who have lost their virginity are classed as sluts! Just think, your more likely to get an std!! Anyway I agree with what the other two put!! You should keep your virginity until you feel is right ... (read in full...)

I think I'm having a breakdown! What's wrong with me?

Q.   Last night was very odd and I think I had some sort of breakdown - I'll explain a few things first. I've just turned 17 and I've not had an easy life - I had precocious puberty (I started my periods and basic puberty at the age of 6/7. I've been w...

A.   14 May 2009: Omg!!!! I can relate to what you've been saying so well!! Not getting along with my father, self harming, no confidence/friends, non-stop crying, happy/depressed I feel like I'm sorting myself out atm but at least once every day my parents make me ... (read in full...)

Am I too young to give him a handjob?

Q.   So I am 13 and I have a boyfriend who I absolutely adore and I really want to take it to the next level with him. Am I too young to give him a handjob? And if not how do I do so?...

A.   14 May 2009: Heyy!! I'm 15 and when I was your age I gave this boy a hand job. Anyway, I really regret it now, however I do kind of think it was good experience. Just make sure the relationship is for love and not just sex, keep him on his toes and don't do it ... (read in full...)

Average bedtime for 14/15 year old?

Q.   Heyy!! I was just wondering what the average bedtime for a 14/15 year old is?because it's school holidays at the moment and my bedtime is 9.30 and because it's the holidays, I thought that I could go to bed later than that. But no!! Blatentl...

A.   11 April 2009: Yeh it is lights out for me when they send me to bed. But the sad thing is they all go to bed at that time too!!!!!!!! It's like they think I'm like them but I'm totally different and it really gets on my nerves!!!!!... (read in full...)

Should I get the mole removed?

Q.   Heyy!! This question has nothing to do with sex/relationships/love, but I'm sure someone could help me! I have a mole on my face and it's really obvious. I'm 14 and for my birthday next month my parents are letting me get it removed if I want...

A.   11 April 2009: Thanks!! You've all been really helpful!! I still haven't decided what I'm going to do yet, but I'm nearer to my decision than I was before! Thanks =)... (read in full...)

Average bedtime for 14/15 year old?

Q.   Heyy!! I was just wondering what the average bedtime for a 14/15 year old is?because it's school holidays at the moment and my bedtime is 9.30 and because it's the holidays, I thought that I could go to bed later than that. But no!! Blatentl...

A.   11 April 2009: Thanks for all your posts so far! They've been really helpful! Oldguy: I don't think it's good how they are treating me, because I am shy anyway and now I don't have much confidence. They don't give me and responsibility for myselfe which I comple... (read in full...)

How can I get my parents to give me a little more freedom?

Q.   POSTER AGE INCORRECT: 13 I believe I have found the love of my life. But, a few weeks ago, I found out we might be moving. I'm only 13 but I couldn't stand having to be away from my boyfriend. And, my parents are being bitches about it. My dad i...

A.   11 April 2009: This is in response to what 'satindesire' said: True love is possible at her age. Just because it didn't happen for you doesn't mean it's impossible!! I have some friends (14 and 16) and their parents had been together since they were 14. And I c... (read in full...)

Problems with sex, could I get some advice?

Q.   me and my boyfriend of 5 months decided to have sex. we were both virgin and i am on the pill so we didn't use a condom. we had a couple problems the first time. first he wasnt getting hard enough, does he have a problem? once he got a bit harder he ...

A.   11 April 2009: Heyy!! To make him harder and you less tight, you should do a lot of foreplay. If you are both relaxed then it shouldn't be too difficult. And if the problems persist speak to a local doctor! AuntAnya xxx... (read in full...)

He likes me but says he's not ready to date yet

Q.   Okay so basically I really really like this guy and Im not sure if he likes me even though my friend said he does. He shows moody signs, at one point he acts all flirty and the next he acts as if he doesnt care. My friend wanted us to get together ...

A.   11 April 2009: If you "really really really like him" then you would wait for him as long as he takes. And I don't think your friends shoul force you or be controlling you in any way towards what happens with you and him. I also personally think that you should ... (read in full...)

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