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My partner of 20 years and father to my children has fallen in love with a prostitute! He's also slept w/ several others!

Q.   Am I mad or what??? I've been with my partner 20 years, we're not married. We have two kids, 18 and 16. Anyway, three or four months ago, he was ill suffering from anxiety. Turns out he has been seeing another women - well, girl actually. She's ...

A.   20 September 2007: all i can say is two things kick his butt out and get checked for stds... (read in full...)

Do you think my boyfriend purposely planned his vacation, knowing that I wouldn't be able to go?

Q.   Hey guys n gals I need your views, please!!! I'm currently 5 months pregnant and overheard my boyfriend and his mates talking the other night to find out that they are all off to Amsterdam in November when i'll be 7 months pregnant! My ...

A.   20 September 2007: don't trust him men do stupid things when there together. and he should waste his money he could make sure you have enough diapers and things for that baby. and also even if he smokes and drinks it makes you do things he wouldn't normaly do. more so ... (read in full...)

I want the man I can't have and don't want the man I married!

Q.   My husband and I have pretty much had problems since day one. In fact, probably since before we were even married. Right now he's off in Iraq (don't worry, his job isn't anything remotely dangerous), and I feel like I like my life better without him ...

A.   18 September 2007: follow your heart do it for you do it or him don't string him along. divorce him and start fresh just make sure you heart is truly in it with the new man before you get remarried.... (read in full...)

How do I ask my sisters boyfriends brother out without them knowing?

Q.   I really like this guy that happens to be my sisters boyfriends brother and i don't know if he likes me but i want to ask him out... without my sister or his brother finding out???...

A.   18 September 2007: have a friend right a note for you so its not in your hand writing. tell him your interested and i he wants to get to now you better to let you know. then give him your phone number. don't put your name on the not so if it back fires on you you can ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated when he was drunk. Should I believe that he cant remember it?

Q.   my boyfriend cheated on me when he was drunk and he cant remember anything, but she does. he cant remember finishing the deed and he usualy cant, so should i believe that he cant remember anything and cant remember finishing?...

A.   14 September 2007: i know he was drunk and i know he cant remember. he drinks on occasion here and most times he can remember the next morning even talking to me. i do forgive him but i will never orget and hes got alot of making up to do i got rid of any numbers or ... (read in full...)

He sent me a text about another woman by accident! I'm gutted.

Q.   Hi. im 24 and have been with my boyfriend 2 years. last sat night he had a boys night out. i was at home alone when i got a text message from him saying "she can't be more unreal than you..ha. are you settin me up. ha". He obviously meant to send it ...

A.   14 September 2007: if he sent her a message and is not talking to you even though you said it was over if he truly loves you and wanted to be with your he'd fight for you' so be happy that you got that message and take it as a sign that it wasnt meant to be and if he ... (read in full...)

Why do cheaters always come up with the same excuses? Why can't they just be honest?

Q.   Hi everyone, I have a couple questions that someone can answer. I was wondering when people cheat why do they all have about the same answer, it's any of these most of the time, " I didn't intend on it," "It just happened", " I wasn't lo...

A.   14 September 2007: my boyfriend of 2 years got drunk one night and took our friend home. he was so drunk that he couldn't remember what he did or why but the girl remembered everything. apparenly she kissed him first and then he kissed he back and they went to her ... (read in full...)

Sometimes I sing her to sleep on the phone at night but lately I've been hearing noises of moaning, groaning and what sounds like sucking or kissing. Very confusing.

Q.   Ok well this we'll be the first time i've truly ever asked anyone for help, especially online in a situation like this but i just can't help this feeling.it's driveing me crazy.I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl that i truly ...

A.   13 September 2007: i really dont know what to say is it possible thats shes having a wet dream or its the tv. can you travel and catch he doing it it might be worth it to see it or yourself... (read in full...)

My husband rages!

Q.   my husband can not control his get and gets irretated for the least things and starts to insult me and threaten me to leave and my daughter how should i behave when he has this rage?...

A.   13 September 2007: get counsuling or leave before something bad happens... (read in full...)

She says she wants time alone and if we ever get back it wont be for ages. Advice?

Q.   My partner and i have split up recently and i dont know how to win her back, in the end our relationship fell apart, felt like we couldn't trust each other even tho there has been no infidelity on either side, i know she cares and so do i, bu...

A.   13 September 2007: if she want space give her some try taking her out to a nice suite like a hot tub fantisy, and dinner, movies do things she likes send her flowers.... (read in full...)

I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??

Q.   okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...

A.   13 September 2007: tell him the truth if he really likes you he will except it and if not find someone your age... (read in full...)

My life

Q.   hello ladies and gentlemen i met this wonderful guy named Will Baety from Utah over a month and a half ago on Inklink we are going to meet this Christmas since he coming down to visit me and have a New Year with me we are in love. But he says he is ...

A.   13 September 2007: your to young to get married. date or a couple o years then i its going well get engaged. then marrage there is no rush your only 16 enjoy your younger years please im 29 with two kids when they say they want to marry you don't until you know or ... (read in full...)

He always likes me to make the 1st move in intimacy so when I didn't the sex stopped. How can I show he's not playing fair?

Q.   I need some advice My guy and I have been together a few years,he always likes me to make the 1st move in sex.....Ive had enough of this ,this dawned on me that he liked this just a few months ago when I didnt make the 1st move and sex stopped?...

A.   13 September 2007: hold out till he can't take it any more and then he'll be so horny that he'll "take it" we shouldn"t always have to make the first move they can also makes them feel good to.... (read in full...)

I left my bf of over 7 years after finding out he was member of a sex chat and hsi net profiles were stated single. Overreacting?

Q.   Im 23. I left my boyfriend of 7 years just 3 weeks ago, because i found out he was looking at porn, was a member of a sex chat site (1 that i know of), and he was chatting to many girls and his profiles were stated SINGLE. I only found out due to...

A.   13 September 2007: as long as he comes home to you thats all that matters. i hes not cheating on you and he'd tell you i he was i wouldn't worry about it. he's just talking. talking doesn't hurt anything. you could take him back and just chat with someone yourself and ... (read in full...)

Some tips to help me orgasm from penetratiev sex?

Q.   Hi, I need tips to help me orgasm from penatrive sex. I have never had an orgasm. My boyfriends penis size is fine, we have plenty of fore play too. I always orgasm during cunnilingus, am I too used to the thrill of oral sex maybe? Can you sugg...

A.   13 September 2007: masterbate and have him use a toy on you i cant orgasm either during sex good luck.... (read in full...)

Is there a possibility that I might be pregnant again?

Q.   I had my abortion 8/21/07 I started having unprotected sex AGAIN 8/28 through 9/6/ so is there a possibility that I might be pregnant again? ...

A.   10 September 2007: have u had your period if so than yes if not than no... (read in full...)

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