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writes:my husband can not control his get and gets irretated for the least things and starts to insult me and threaten me to leave and my daughter how should i behave when he has this rage? Reply to this Question
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reader, penta  +, writes (13 September 2007):
 His behavior is unreasonable. He needs counseling (anger management therapy) desperately. When he acts like that, take your daughter and leave.I don't know much about the customs in your country, but can you find some kind of women's shelter that can take you in? If not, can you go to someone in your family and stay for a while?What you tolerate becomes your standard. Don't let him yell at you. Even just taking a walk around the neighborhood to give him a chance to cool down would be helpful.
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reader, kindone +, writes (13 September 2007):
 get counsuling or leave before something bad happens
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (13 September 2007):
You shoudlnt be putting up with it. You should be somehow letting him know that you wont accept such bad behaviour.
He shodulnt be treating you like this and you shoudlnt be staying in a relationship with someone who is abusive like that. Tell him how it makes you feel when he gets like that and that if he continues to do it you wont be putting up with it. Either he will take it as a wakeup call and realise that he needs to take steps to changing or he will continue to do it- and thats your sign to leave.
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