Gave an ultimatum and he counter offered?
Q. I told my husband that I do not like that he text other girls and flirts with them thru texting. He claims that he understands and that the flirting is wrong and will no longer do that. However he is not going to stop texting them and he deletes ...
A. 14 December 2010: Red flag on the field! Why is he texting other women?? That's just a problem in the making. No, you are not wrong. In my opinion this idea of male/female platonic relationships is mostly used as a cover for people who have the hots for their ... (read in full...)
My husband and best friend had sex and blame it on the drink!
Q. SO, in need of some advice- my husband, who've I've been for 6 years and have a son with, has slept with my best friend. After a long night of partying she stayed over at our house. My husband, who was totally drunk, decided to go into her bedroom ...
A. 12 December 2010: As hurtful and incredibly stupid as your husband was for allowing this to happen, I wouldn't be so quick to view your marriage to him as over. Men are horndogs, and I could see how a guy who is drunk off his ass can end up the way your husband did. ... (read in full...)
Oh no, it's all gone horribly wrong!
Q. This is it, this is the big one, what i have feared for a while now. Background, my ex and i broke up 6 months ago and he was with another girl days after we split. I have had interest from other guys, but nothing ever really came from them. Ju...
A. 9 December 2010: Some people are just gluttons for punishment. You sound like one of them. My advice: tell old BF to hit the road, that you got yourself a real man. Otherwise, you will end up dumping the dude who's doing you right (and who you like), taking back the ... (read in full...)
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!
Q. I am divorced with 3 children but for almost 3 years I have been with "Joseph". We took the first year fairly slow despite very strong feelings on both ends. It did not take long for us to fall completely in love and he has since become a part of ...
A. 6 December 2010: A lot of people follow their heart right into the quicksand of misery. You clearly recognize this by writing what you wrote. He swears he loves you. That's nice. But, true love is not made up of empty protestations of love. Love is an action. It ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: Interesting that you say you "respect" your friendship with Larry Lips. Does he respect your friendship? Does he respect his wife? Does he respect your husband? Does he respect the bond created between his family and yours? It doesn't seem so. I ... (read in full...)
Married for three years and tempted to stray with my co-worker... Help!
Q. I could really do with some advice. I am happily married - or thought I was- until I met this guy at work. He is all I can think about. I have never been tempted to stray at all in my three years of marriage but I am so tempted. I know that if i ...
A. 1 November 2008: Oh yeah ... been there ... done that. Sorry I ever even tapped into those feelings. What a painful and psychically exhausting experience! Run the other way is the best advice I can give. Look deep within you and find out what it is that is making ... (read in full...)
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