I don't know what to talk about
Q. Im in high school and i have a girl in my class that i really like and I don't know if she likes me. I use to talk to her a lot because we sat right across from another, but now she's far away and i have trouble finding something to talk about. What ...
A. 28 January 2009: What did you used to talk about? Well talk about whatever it was.... Or how about u talk about how u used to talk a lot together but now you don't, it would also be a good way of finding out if she does like you wouldn't it? If she used... (read in full...)
How do I, a man, lose my virginity?
Q. i am a virgin and i need to look a girl to have sex but i don't know how to ask. ...
A. 28 January 2009: You don't need to look for a girl for sex, seriously, once you start on the 'project' then it will become an issue for you and then it becomes a major issue for you. Start dating, hang out with friends, go to night school etc etc, talk to peo... (read in full...)
My cousin died, my boyfriend showed me no compassion, should I be concerned?
Q. Tonight I found out there was a death in my family. I called my boyfriend about 20 mins after our last text (i got the news in between the two) and he didnt answer... then i sent a text asking if he was sleeping, no reply but my phone said he got it ...
A. 28 January 2009: Lets look at this without the vitriol. There are maybe a couple of reasons that he gave the response he did, Maybe he is unsure how to respond to this situation, death makes people uncomfortable and generally people go through what they cons... (read in full...)
Could someone give me a crash course on men?
Q. Why would a guy not want to date someone who they are attracted to, someone who they have a lot in common with and always have a conversation about anything with? Why is he willing to sleep with a girl and not date her and is so afraid to commit? ...
A. 28 January 2009: Depends on the age of the guy for one thing.... maybe he's just working ot this dating thing and isn't prepared to commit for fear of making a mistake? Could be he thinks he's ok with the sex but no commitment angle??? Even though there is ... (read in full...)
Bi-sexual, very open about sex, I am different, but told I am too much, what gives?
Q. So I'm 17, bisexual, and a very open person sexually. When I say that I mean when I have partner or potential partner, I don't play those mind games most girls my age (that I know) seem to play about having sex. I lay all the cards out on the table. ...
A. 28 January 2009: Nothing wrong with it, but maybe you are a little too demanding or you come on too strong? I mean, do you gradually let your feelings/desires etc out, or is it a case of BAM where in bed (for the first time?) and "here is how its gonna be...." you ... (read in full...)
I want to date, but worry about my weight, should I be?
Q. I love being single but I think Im tired of being single I want someone but im scared because two or three years ago people talked about my weight what should I do?...
A. 28 January 2009: Hey...... listen, firstly, weight isn't an issue OK? (unless it is causing a medical condition) You are saying two or three years ago people talked about your weight, things change, you're growing up, things happen to your body and weight gets ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just joined the Marines, how can I feel better about this new situation?
Q. My boyfriend of 3.5 years just came home today with big news. He enlisted. He's a Marine. We have been talking about this for about 10 days, but he's been thinking about it for a long time. We're both liberal minded folks, me definitely more of a ...
A. 27 January 2009: its interesting that your boyfriend joined after discussing it with you for only ten days,and for him to simply come home and declare he's enlisted, well, strange......
A military career, especially these days is different and certainly with the... (read in full...)
I look at bad pictures on the internet
Q. I need some serious help. I'm not sure how to put this so i'll just come out and say it. I look at bad pictures on the internet. I've never meant to start looking at them, it's just there's certain images, and i can't believe what i'm seeing, that i ...
A. 27 January 2009: You are growing up, we have all gone through it and worried about what is happening, but don't worry, its just your bodies way of waking up... as you start to develop sexual feelings, urges, interest, because they are so new to you they feel ... (read in full...)
Why do girls think I am looking at them?
Q. The problem is every time I am around a girl they always think that I'm looking at them. Now, I don't know if it is just curtain girls being really vain, or if it is something that I am doing to make girls think that I am looking at them. Sometimes...
A. 27 January 2009: Hey as long as you're not staring at them with psycho killer eyes there is nothing wrong with looking at people.....its just that some people are more comfortable with looking and maybe glance for longer than the average person, this of course means ... (read in full...)
Should I stay? OR should I go? I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop!
Q. I am a single mom of a 17 year old who's father passed away when he was 3 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend on and off for about 4 years now. I spend most of my free time with both my son and my boyfriend. My boyfriend says I am close to ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hmmmmmm, there does seem to be a LOT of justification going on there doesn't there, and I mean on YOUR part.... this thing abot not going with him.......all because you didn't pack sneakers?!?!?!?! really?? lets be honest, with past experience of ... (read in full...)
Why am I not considered girlfriend material?
Q. Every single guy that I have been with treated me badly and I dotn knwo why. Im smart, fun, tall and pretty (people tell me I look like a model) but not like fake tanned blonde bimbos, I harldy wear any make up. Im also interesting to talk to (I ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hey :)
Serious realtionships don't start from day one, they form over time as two people get more comfortable with each other and create a common bond, so don't expect to rush headlong into something like that.... at your age you should be datin... (read in full...)
My neighbor thinks I still like her and I don't
Q. About a month ago my neighbor found out that I liked her. I have moved on and an completely over her by now. But sadly she still has this crazy notion that I still like her. She has a boyfriend that lives with her, and they constantly talk rea...
A. 27 January 2009: So SHE thinks you like her, sounds like its her problem, just go on about your normal life, maybe bring a girlfriend or two over then she gets the idea that maybe you have other people in your life.
Interesting part of your original post is that ... (read in full...)
Quick solution for love bites?
Q. Is there any quick solusions to getting rid of love bites any help would be greatly appreciated...
A. 27 January 2009: makeup or time..... they are bruises mate, so u have to let them stay the natural course, of if ur that bothered about em, strict rules... ie No Biting... (read in full...)
Oral sex question
Q. Hi I really need help on this. I am not very experienced and I just gave oral sex for the first time, he begged me for it. I dont know if I was doing a good job and only did it for about a couple minutes before he came. I asked him how it was and he ...
A. 26 January 2009: Hey, if he came quickly then it was a job very well done, he's probably pissed at himslef for not being able to hold on :)... (read in full...)
I shut my g/f out can I make things right?
Q. I am currently in the U.S. Navy and have several things going on all at the same time. I have a girlfriend who is extremely upset with me. I've tried calling her and get no answer. The story is that, I went up to Dallas to see her for the weekend ...
A. 26 January 2009: Ok, the first thing is being 'mopey' hasn't screwed things up, but beating yourself up over it is most likely making it worse for both of you. We all like sharing our bed with our loved ones, but there are times when either one of the party wil... (read in full...)
My partner slapped me on the arm--and now I'm worried
Q. My partner and I have been together for a year and living together for 7 months. We are going to have a child. Just before, I was a little stressed about something and he was asking me questions, trying to help me and I started to raise my voice. I...
A. 26 January 2009: Physical contact like that is not acceptable, ok, maybe he was so frustrated that he slapped your arm to get you to react, but maybe its the start of a continuing situation and it may get out of control.
You are trying to justify his actions,... (read in full...)
How to get over ex-girlfriend
Q. Hello, I know this question has been asked a million times, but I want to know how to get over my ex-girlfriend. After being in a rocky relationship with her for nearly a year, she one day decided she wanted to stop being physical with me. This w...
A. 26 January 2009: The one thing that I found to help me get over my recent split was to get back into my work and develop some hobbies, I'm at the gym every day, and not only has it helped me get the frustration out of my system but its also toned my body :)
Keepi... (read in full...)
Why would she start an affair with me if she was happily married?
Q. Hello, I'm an 18 year old female that had just ended a two year emotional affair with my ex-teacher. This is how it began.... It was my junior year; I was 16 and she was 26 and hadn't been married for a month. At first she started coming o...
A. 19 January 2009: Hmmmmm, ok, was this a relationship as you see it, you said you only spent time together if it was school related, so truly, can you have a relationship when all you are doing is talking on the phone or emails?
Maybe you have become attached... (read in full...)
Can we get back together for good?
Q. I am a 39 year old divorcee. In May this year I met and fell in love with the most wonderful woman of 32. We had so much in common and spent a lot of time together. We travelled a lot and were making plans to move in before Christmas. She built a ...
A. 19 January 2009: I think what we have to accept here is that this will be a continuous cycle in your relatinship with her if she did respond. I can understand your pain as I have and am going thru a similar situation.
It takes courage and strength to accept t... (read in full...)
I've never done this before! How do I let him down easy?
Q. I just found out my boyfriend of 3 months has full custody of his 2 small children from a previous marriage. How he kept this from me I have no idea. I have chosen not to have children of my own because I simply do not want to deal with them. ...
A. 19 January 2009: Simply tell him the truth, explain that you are surprised to find that he has children and that at this stage in your life you had no plans for this kind of responsibility, his children wiill come first and I am sure he will accept it. Many single ... (read in full...)
I think my parents are hiding things from me
Q. Okay, I am worried my parents are hiding something from me. I don't know what it is, but I have asked my mum before but she said no, however that was when i was 10. I think I am older now and she might tell me if there is anything. I have this ...
A. 19 January 2009: You should talk with both of your parents together, tell them of your feelings and ask them if there are any grounds to them.
I an say that during growing up we all go through similar thoughts and it can be quite upsetting, but if you don't de... (read in full...)
How am I to survive the next 9 days...???
Q. I'm going thru a bit of an emotional rolleroaster at the moment, my girlfriend of six months has just flown off to vegas to see her ex, she needs to find out if she still has feelings or if he will now commit to her in a way that she wants ...
A. 17 January 2009: hey guys, an update....tonight i have texted her in the US and finished the relationship,of course if she came back now who knows....but with input from here and mutual friends i have taken reccomendations and ended it. thanks for impartial input ... (read in full...)
I'm angry and worried-no contact in 2 weeks!
Q. Advice from men required! Am I overreacting or am I right to be upset? My ex-boyfriend has gone away with his friend for a few months to Vietnam. We agreed that this experience would do him good with the idea of us getting back together when he ...
A. 16 January 2009: Hmmmm two weeks isn't a good sign, especially with him being abroad, maybe he can't get in contact cos of phone coverage or maybe something else, have youtried contacting his parents to see if they have heard from him, explain that you have been in ... (read in full...)
I might as well be invisible
Q. He never notice how nice i look.. only the 1st time we met. He told me i look good and that i look after myself.. we i go to see him.. i look my best.. but he doesn’t say i look good or anything... WHY IS THAT? I feel like he doesn’t like how...
A. 16 January 2009: Us guys have a different mindset, unfortunately :) when we say something we feel that this statement is true until we say differently, so words like 'I love you' or 'you look nice' are true until we say otherwise :) However, for women its differ... (read in full...)
When I go pee goop comes out
Q. Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to ...
A. 16 January 2009: Whatever it is, you should go and talk to your doctor... the longer you wait the harder it can become to clear up and it may have repercussions on your ability to have children later in life.
This is not a terrible situation, it may feel that way... (read in full...)
How am I to survive the next 9 days...???
Q. I'm going thru a bit of an emotional rolleroaster at the moment, my girlfriend of six months has just flown off to vegas to see her ex, she needs to find out if she still has feelings or if he will now commit to her in a way that she wants ...
A. 16 January 2009: Thinking of that at the moment :) One more question to add to this, while she is away, should I text her just to say hi, or is it better just to wait for her to text first or leave it till she comes back ?
I know this sounds like two opposite... (read in full...)
How do I win back an ex after 6 months no contact?
Q. is it possible to win back a ex girlfriend after six months of no contact .and how do i go about winningher back ?...
A. 16 January 2009: if its been six months and no contact from either of you, maybe its the signal that its time to move on?... (read in full...)
She is confused..meanwhile I'm waiting
Q. So basically she said she needs time to figure out what she's going to do about her ex which she went out with 3 years for, she still has feelings for him and she needs to straighten them out, those feelings were getting in the way of are ...
A. 16 January 2009: Give her space, but keep in contact, be a good friend, don't be scared to make contact, but just keep it on a platonic level while still showing her that u care, women are strange beasts and they do a lot of thinking, summat us guys cannot even ... (read in full...)
Open mouth insert foot..now what?
Q. Last night I casually asked my gf if when we first started talking and seeing each other 6 months ago, if she was still thinking about getting back together with her ex as they had only just split up. I didn’t mean anything by it as I wasn’t ...
A. 16 January 2009: When u spoke to her about it, was it a casual comment or was there an underlying tone in the question? Apologising can help , but at the same time it can also make the situation look worse because now all u do is say sorry.
Get over it, start to... (read in full...)
I feel she's crossing the line of respect in our relationship
Q. Hey everyone, Im sure my subject line gives you all a good idea of what my post is about, but let me give a couple details. My gf and I have been together about a year and a half now and are living together now about 8 months. Our relationship...
A. 16 January 2009: Mate, I've been going thru a similar situation to the extent that at this moment she has flown off to vegas for ten days to see if she still has feelings for her ex. I have been considering whether to break up with her (and we have on a number of ... (read in full...)
How am I to survive the next 9 days...???
Q. I'm going thru a bit of an emotional rolleroaster at the moment, my girlfriend of six months has just flown off to vegas to see her ex, she needs to find out if she still has feelings or if he will now commit to her in a way that she wants ...
A. 16 January 2009: Thank you for that, I will give this one long hard look and get back to you, again thanks for your thoughts... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think of me as a child because of our age difference...
Q. I am almost 17, and I met a guy at the place I work. I instantly felt a connection with him, and I think I really like him. He's a freshman in college, so he's probably about 19. We were talking a lot and he seemed to be interested but I couldn't ...
A. 16 January 2009: Hey :)
two years is no age difference, honestly, what is more important is that if you go into a relationship with him you both enjoy it.
I've been dating a girl 24 yrs old (I'm 48) we find that we have so much in common and enjoy each other... (read in full...)
20 years old and can't get up for the girl
Q. Ok, im a 20 year old male that can't get errect while with my girl. Ive tried almost everything, I work out everyday, and do keigel exercises. The exercises have helped the hardness but it doesnt matter because I cant get it up when im actually with ...
A. 16 January 2009: I've been thru/going thru a similar situation, the girl I am with is absolutely stunning but I have problems getting erect.. there are a lot of factors involved in this, stress, alchohol, drugs etc.... my advice is go to see a specialist, they won't ... (read in full...)
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