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I have a boyfriend we've been together 6 months now. I like to help people or at least try to becuase it makes me feel good and i know i would like people to help me. I also thinks its good to read about problems i may face in the future and help others with things i've been through myself. |
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Can a seven year age gap work, is it worth taking the risk ?
Q. Very longwinded, so sit tight. I am a 14 year old girl. I have always ran with an older crowd, most friends being 17+, no reason behind it just for some reason the people I meet and get along with are a few more years than I am. So here is my pre...
A. 6 August 2006: if you both like eachother go for it just make sure he isnt just after sex make sure things are clear. gd luck ... (read in full...)
Not sure how to interpret his text, does he mean we are over ?
Q. Have been going out with a lad on/off for the last three months. For the last week I've really busy and have been unable to return his msgs. Then yesterday he sent me this text here it is word for word "Deep heartfelt msg take1, sorry4annoying y...
A. 6 August 2006: i think this guy wants another chance he's tried to make out he's finishes it to see ur reaction and to see if u will come running back.... (read in full...)
Aged 14 and I don't know if I should have sex...
Q. I'm 14 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for months and he wants to have sex. I would but I don't know if I will ruin my 1st time. Also there all negative points and I don't know what to do. ...
A. 6 August 2006: i know everyone is gonna have ago about the age thing but i went thru the same thing and we ended up breaking up because he wanted sex n all the pressure was making me stressed. if you have any doubts dont, im glad i didnt.... (read in full...)
I get nervous talking to my BF on the phone!
Q. I am 12, almost 13, and I am have been going out with my very first boyfriend for about four months now. It is summer vacation now and my boyfriend and I have been calling each other. I am not the type of person who enjoys talking on the phone, but ...
A. 1 August 2006: i have the same problem and im not entirely sure myself how u can overcome this but i find writting down a few notes u wanna tell him before he calls on a piece of paper often helps to relax abit. Dont pace up and down maybe try siting on ur bed.... (read in full...)
Why do guys say im a good girl and they are bad guys ? Is it so they can break up easily ?
Q. Should I tell a guy I recently dated how I feel? I dated a guy for about a month, and then he left for vacation, then he never called me when he got back. When I saw him at a club he acted like nothing was wrong and asked me to dance. I told him ...
A. 28 July 2006: omg you sure this isnt the same guy i went out with lol. The guy i went out with had already lost his virginity, drunk did drugs n everything. he ended up cheating on me n claimed it wouldnt of worked as im too innocent. I just think he was embarras... (read in full...)
I feel left out, everyone else has boyfriends except me!!
Q. Im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend. All my friends have and i feel really embarrassed. When i see them hugging or kissing their boyfriends i feel sad and lonely. How can i get a boyfriend? Im not a slut, it just i feel left out. Plese help!...
A. 25 July 2006: trust me you dont want a bf its not all its cracked up to be im nearly 15 it just complicates things i dont have a bf and after having one for a few weeks i often find myself wishes i was single.
Dont just go for anyone find a guy you like, flir... (read in full...)
What do people think about meeting someone online?
Q. I just want to know some people's opinions on meeting up with someone you met online. I know sometimes it's dengerous meeting someone you only know online. We've been e-mailing back and forth for a few weeks, he lives in my town, and he has not ...
A. 24 July 2006: my mum met her recently made hustband over the internet they met at a pub first of all just for a drink. They have now been together 5 years. I think it can be affective long as your careful and dont go off alone with them till u have met them ... (read in full...)
I am experiencing the angst of the dating game
Q. im only 14 and im blonde and pretty (im not being big) and i fancy some people and i think they fancy me but im scared if they ask me to do something with them and i wont know what to do....
A. 24 July 2006: im also 14 and scared of this too so i usual talk about it on msn or something and let them know that im not prepared to do any of this kinda stuff. If they like you they normally stick around.... (read in full...)
I think I love him, but not sure if im sooooo in love with im confused ?
Q. I don't think i'm SOOOO in love with my boyfriend but i think i do love him. Sometimes like once in awhile i feel like i'm asking myself if i love him or not. He is a GREAT guy and i don't want to leave him. He's one of the few good ones. In the ...
A. 23 July 2006: why bother asking urself if u truely love him long as u both r happy n u have some feeling for him u have nothing 2 worry about.... (read in full...)
A teacher is letting me get away with a lot of offenses. He winks and stares at me and I'm getting freaked!
Q. I am very confused by the behaviour of one of my teachers towards me. He is a very strict teacher who never smiles and always seems annoyed and a lot of people find him scary. The problem is he behaves completely differently towards me. His face lig...
A. 23 July 2006: possibly my old drama teacher was a pervert and recently got charged with having under age sex with two pupils. he too was quite stern but u would see him growl n wink at certain students. Just be careful try not 2 worry about it. if things ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a love-triangle with a guy who doesn't know I fancy him!
Q. I have fancied this lad for near enough three years and I can't get over him because he's really good-looking and funny and he's really sweet to me. A few days ago, I was talking to this girl in the year beneath me at school and she really likes hi...
A. 23 July 2006: well first of all this is a very hard position for ur mate to be in. I know she upset u but she didnt mean to. you cant always think of other people and this kinda thing happens all the time nearly everyone goes thru it. As for the guy i think ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has trust issues and I validated his concerns
Q. I got drunk at a friends birthday party and ended up cheating-kissing one of my friends, the guy didnt tell anyone, the next day i couldnt really remember, but i told my boyfriend what happened. He has not really ever trusted me that much and this ...
A. 22 July 2006: im in the same position as ur bf u need to prove to him somehow that he can trust u and show him that u rele care about him n wouldnt b stupid enough 2 do it again as u dont wanna loose him.
i think u may need 2 try and talk about the jealousy... (read in full...)
Shall I tell her that her bf always sleep with other girls?
Q. Shall I tell her that her bf always sleep with other girls? She is a nice girl,travelling a lot because of work. Her bf is my bf's classmate.Everybody except her knows that her bf sleeps around, he goes out with other days during the week day and...
A. 22 July 2006: yes i think u should tell her a similar thing happened to me and im glad i was told.
It may be hard at first and she may not believe u but she will thank u in the end trust me.... (read in full...)
I hang out with the wrong crowd - could this be why I don't get dates?
Q. well . i'm young .. and i guess not that bad looking . but the thing is , when i hang out with all my friends and guys , all the guys pay more attention to my friends because my friends are so outgoing ; but not in a way i would like to be . they ...
A. 22 July 2006: im in the same situation i too hang out in a group sometimes and because im not a slut like most of them and dont do drugs its hard 2 b noticed.
I started talking 2 one guy online 2 get 2 know him better just be urself if they dont notice u then... (read in full...)
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