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writes: I don't think i'm SOOOO in love with my boyfriend but i think i do love him. Sometimes like once in awhile i feel like i'm asking myself if i love him or not. He is a GREAT guy and i don't want to leave him. He's one of the few good ones. In the beginning i had mixed feelings but they went away but now i guess i feel like i have to love him because i already say it. It's been a month. I don't want to break up. Alot of girls say it's normal to not ALWAYS have that "spark" every min. you see them. I do with him just not constantly. I just want to know if all this is normal because i don't think i can find any better. I know i must at least love him because i cryed in a sec. when i thought he was saying these things to another girl but turns out he didn't because i was reading inbox instead of sent and he doesn't even reply because it says if you do or not. I know he's in love with me so hopefully this is all normal and you guys give good advice! sorry if this is confusing but to make it less confusing ..sometimes i feel like i'm so in love and sometimes i don't ..THANKS =) Reply to this Question
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reader, kat14  +, writes (23 July 2006):
 why bother asking urself if u truely love him long as u both r happy n u have some feeling for him u have nothing 2 worry about.
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reader, singlemomof1 +, writes (23 July 2006):
 Do you think that maybe you want to experiance love so bad that you are trying to give it a push in the right direction. Falling in love with someone is about learning everything there is about that person. Loving someone and being in love with someone are very different. If that person makes you happy then great you are on the right track but there is no need to rush into anything, take as much time as you need to matter if you have already said the words or not. If you aren't sure you mean them then don't say them
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reader, mjmoonwalker89 +, writes (23 July 2006):
 i know exactly what you mean, i had the same thing when i started with my boyfriend. i had mixed feelings at the start but i thought why not give it a go, now i love him and i dont always have a spark when i see him... it's normal. If you're completely unsure about how you feel take a break for a week and see how you feel - taking a break doesnt mean a break up. when you say it's been a month does that mean you've been together for a month? because i think you should give it more time to see if your emotions will develop.
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