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No replies yet... 28 October 2007: I've heard this saying a million times but what does it really mean? Live life to the max!!! You never know what will be threw at you next, so make each day count!! If you want to visit somewhere...go there!!! If you hate your job and want ...
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I won't give up my unborn child - should I go and live with my mother?
Q. Ok I'm kind of young-ish and I missed my period, I've been puking, mood swingy, I was crying hysterically last night for hours on end, anyway so I think that I might maybe be pregnant and my boyfriend says he doesn't want a kid "right now". My fat...
A. 24 November 2007: hi,
Just writing to ask how things are =D I hope you've told your parents, and the father!! And I was just wondering how things have went.
Mail me if you want to
love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
How do you make out with a boy?
Q. help me!! i need 2 no how 2 make out with a guy!! plz help me!! ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, Well, all you have to do is kiss -- make sure you floss ;D lol -- and if you feel his tongue pressing forward on your lips, it means he wants to get off with you, if you want to, part your lips but if you don't, keep them firmly closed!!... (read in full...)
Anatomically correct? - the bit of skin of vaginal structure...
Q. ive allways had a really big bit of skin on my vagina and is bout 5 cm and hangs out of the middle its awful and its putting me off been confident around boys does anyone know of what it s and how to maybe get rid of it?...
A. 22 November 2007: I have that too, inbetween the two lips? I used to think it was really gross and I wrote to an advice columnist and she said that everyones vagina is different and there's nothing to worry about. It doesn't put off my boyfriend, well, fiancee, need ... (read in full...)
Why can't he invite me too when he goes out with his friends? Am I being unfair?
Q. hiy, i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and he has started going out with his friends in the evening once in a while, it annoys me because i dont ever go out with any friends of mine, and he didnt go out for the first 7-8 months .. it bot...
A. 22 November 2007: It's not silly, maybe he just wants to be a guy without any worries because there's a female there. Guys are like that!! =D I suggest that you have a night with 'the girls' and also a night with all of your friends and his friends too, even if it's ... (read in full...)
Do people who are in love have things in common?
Q. Do people who are in love with each other have anything in common. Some people have told me that opposites attract but I have seen that it is not the true in some cases. The same could be refered to couples who have a lot in common. Can someone ...
A. 28 October 2007: Well, as I've said, when you're in love you just...know. You want to be with that person all the time and you get butterflies when you see them, it just feels different from other relationships. As for knowing if she loves you there's no way of ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I like her?
Q. ok her i go i realy like the girl im going out with and i cant get my mind off her she has said to me previously that she likes me to and wants to be with me and wants things to wotk out but she wants to make mates but i want it to be more than mat...
A. 28 October 2007: Okay, hey again. Have yot told her yet?
I'm assuming not. Well, how about you tell send her flowers with something like,
(her name) I want you to know,
that I love you so,
We're great friends,
But it depends,
Do you love me?
And sign y... (read in full...)
Love affairs from afar, circumcision, and masturbation.
Q. First, I'm in a distant relationship and love my gal too much. This is what's causing da problem. I think about her to the extent of my head aching. I miss her so much that it really hurts. Sometimes i feel she doesn't love me as i do because ...
A. 26 October 2007: Well, hi :) Look, I know that when I had a long distance relationship with my fiancee last year, he masturbated, and I was fine with that :D and your gf should be to. And if I was your gf, I would support your choice of getting circumcised, after ... (read in full...)
What are the signs a girl wants you to ask her out?
Q. can anyone tell me what the signs are that a girl would like you to ask her out? everytime we meet she smiles at me and once she said to me that she was going swimming as if it was an invite. ...
A. 26 October 2007: Well, pretty much everything lovehate said! She will act differently around you, so take a chance and ask her out!... (read in full...)
How long is it normal to still be hung on your ex?
Q. hello everyone! i have a question that most of you will probably think is dumb but oh well here it goes...how long do you think it is normal to still be hung on your ex? I want to be able to move on so badly but I just think about what we had and ...
A. 13 October 2007: Your question isn't dumb, and I'm sorry but the only answer I can give is: It's different.
Everyone takes longer to move on but you will eventually, I would say that you would never forget your first love and hun, you sound like you have him! I'm... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)
Q. Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. ...
A. 13 October 2007: woo hoo :) everyone that is on this site deserves it, it's great and it was well earned!!!! Well done :)... (read in full...)
I think my female friends don't like me for me.
Q. I have a really really long penis and I get made fun of because it looks like im hard, but im soft. The girls who im friends with only like me because i have such a long penis and i really want to be friends with them also because we're friends. ...
A. 8 October 2007: I think you would be better of without them, find some friends that aren't impressed - or they don't say so - by your penis. :) reply if you want to, love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
Is sex REALLY like this?
Q. Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and have just began high school a few months ago. I have viewed porn a few times and now that I have seen people engage in sex, I wonder... is this what sex is really like? Because I think it seems way too extreme for ...
A. 7 October 2007: Don't worry...porn exxagerates a lot :) And when you're older and ready, you'll find you want to sex :) reply if you want to, love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
I'm a 24 year old virgin. How do I get close to girls?
Q. Like the title says im a 24 year old male virgin with next to no experiance with girls. I mean really none, not even kissing etc, also not big into partys and disco's, prefer meeting up, hanging out, going to cinema, renting dvd just chating ...
A. 7 October 2007: Ok, well...losing your virginity is not the very most important thing! Finding someone special is. That's the best advice I can give you. As for getting close to girls, a lot o guys have that problem, just talk about something like...movies or ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my feelings towards my friend?
Q. I've fallen for my best friend but she has a boy friend. She is currently in a long distance relationship with him but she tells me about her feelings more than she does with him. I love her very much, much to the point where I care about her more...
A. 7 October 2007: And the answer is: no.
You can't stop loving her, I tried to do that once and it just makes you realise how much more you love them, sorry, I would tell her when you are both sober then wait for her reaction, then don't try to interfer with her... (read in full...)
I'm athletic and confident but I'm still a virgin. Please help!
Q. I'm 22 years of age and have never really been in a long-term relationship. Up until a couple of years ago, I had no self-confidence and could never understand how anyone would want to be with me, let alone how they could find me remotely attract...
A. 7 October 2007: Don't worry :) Your first time is a special time and it shouldn't be with some drunk you found :) If a girl likes you, she won't worry if you're a virgin, some women even like it.
I remember my first time (well obviously) and it was...we... (read in full...)
How do I go about contacting the boy I fancy?
Q. I like this guy and I've been told he likes me and wants to get to know me. He's my friend's brother but that isn't the problem. The problem is I don't know how to get into contact with him beacuse he doesn't live near me. I would ask his sister ...
A. 7 October 2007: My bf is my best friends brother too :) and my big brothers friend too...I talked to him on msn all the time.
You should talk to your friend, I did and just ask for his address. (email or msn) and then you can talk on that, I know it's hard to ... (read in full...)
Whose responsibility is it to introduce my boyfriend to my father?
Q. My relationship with my bf is not yet formally known and he's not yet been introduced to my father, for the reason that I'm afraid of my father's reaction. What's the best thing for me to do? I told my bf about this situation and he told me that ...
A. 7 October 2007: I don't think so, if it was serious, your father would realise that by you willing to introduce them. Your bf is willing so all you have to do now is...introduce them :) reply if you want to, love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
Should I stay if he won't be here for us?
Q. I have been dating this guy for 2and 1/2 years, we have been living together for over a year. We are both 22, and he keeps getting mad at me for alot of things, we try to talk but we fight. Its like if its not his way or his thing then hes mad or ...
A. 7 October 2007: A lot of couples row but if he gets mad a lot, I would leave, especially if he becomes controlling, reply if you want to :) love, just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
My husband masturbates to porn sites - should I feel betrayed?
Q. I have been married for 30 years and I have caught my husband viewing porn sites and selecting a person that he obviously likes the look of. Once selected he starts to masturbate. I do not agree with this and I have also caught him doing this to ...
A. 7 October 2007: A lot of men watch porn, a lot of my previous bf watched it and I was betrayed at first but then I realised, it's a man thing :) I would tell him that you don't feel comfortable about it and hopefully he will accept your choice :) men will be men :) ... (read in full...)
How can I share my feelings with her?
Q. hi i am 13 and i need help, there is a girl in one of my classes and has been annoying me for over a year and i am madly in love with her but i don't know if she has feelings for me the same way i have feelings for her and i get nervous around her ...
A. 7 October 2007: Talk to her and if she talks back, ask her out, then, if she accepts, good for you, if she rejects, don't bother if people make fun of you, anyways, they usually don't, and keep your head held high :) reply if you want to, love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
I don't think he loves me enough - should I let him get me pregnant?
Q. dear cupid\ I'm in a distance relationship with this guy, he is working and I am student, I'm 19 he is 24. At times he is all caring and loving, but when he is angry he calls me names and yet he says he loves me, he even wants to inpregnate me...
A. 7 October 2007: So do you actually want a baby? I'm 19 too and I want to do things in my life before that huge responsibility. Don't you? Is it a long distance relationship because if it is...will the baby see his father enough? A baby is a big step and you need to ... (read in full...)
How long should I spend on MSN getting to know him?
Q. I met a guy four weeks ago and met up with him again a week later. Since then, we have been talking on MSN alot and texting a bit. He has not made any attempt to meet up again. He did mention something about getting to know me on MSN first. I know ...
A. 7 October 2007: If you're having a relationship, or you want to have a relationship, then do not 'cheat on him on msn' and if you don't want to easte your weekends, arrange to go out with friends shopping or something :) reply if you want to love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
How many times do working couples have sex when they're married?
Q. How many times can couple have sex when they're married? Assuming both are working and they meet in the house at night only after job....
A. 7 October 2007: It's different for everyone, some people all the time and some people only every so often, ask yourself how often do you and your partner want to?... (read in full...)
How can I "get it up" and keep my cool?
Q. I get really nervous. How can i "get it up" and keep my cool?...
A. 7 October 2007: I used to always get nervous, especially around men :) what I did was sit and think, why am I getting so nervous, they're just women without t*** and have d**** lol :) it helped but also you can imagine whoever you are talking to is someone else. ... (read in full...)
I hate feeling like the fat ugly one next to all my gorgeous friends!
Q. I hate feeling like the fat ugly one next to all my gorgeous friends. Every guy that I ever like ends up with one of my two best friends. Last night I was at a party and my "best friend" got off with the guy that I was interested in. I always ...
A. 7 October 2007: Your 'rambling' is good, at least you're telling people you're problems. My advice might not seem very good but here: You're only ugly if you think you're ugly, I once knew a girl in high school and she was really unhappy about her weight so she ... (read in full...)
Is my depression preventing me from starting a new relationship?
Q. I suffered from depression with psychosis when I had a relationship with a Sudanese guy. He forced me to have sex. I decided to break up with him. Now I'm still single and already 28. I'm afraid to enter in a new relationship because I feel tha...
A. 7 October 2007: I know it is hard to trust men when they force you into things and I know it's not easy but you need to move on, know what you want in life and it'll happen :) reply if you want to, love, just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
My ex is all I want, and can't have her, and my social life feels dead in the water. What can I do to stop the negative thoughts?
Q. Hello everyone. My girlfriend has left me after our long distance relationship became too much to bear for her. She's gone away to University and I gather is having a damn good time. Myself on the other hand is very bad just now: It's ove...
A. 7 October 2007: Aww you poor thing, listen, it sounds like you really like her, I'm not so sure you love her but you really care for her. It's normal for you to feel down in the dumps, if she has ended it because of the long distance thing, then you can't mean that ... (read in full...)
Is it Love or not? My "best friend".
Q. How does one know that he or she is in love? I think I might be, but I'm not sure. I've fallen for my best friend(see previous post) and I have feelings for him that I've never felt before. I don't really even know how to explain it. And is it true ...
A. 7 October 2007: It's different for everyone :) Some people know when they're in love straight away and some don't. I fell for my big brother's best friend who is also my best friends big brother (complicated :) i know) Look at how different your relationship witht ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16 and have never kissed a girl, what's wrong with me?
Q. hi im 15 years old nearly 16 and i have never kissed a girl what's wrong with me? i am goin out with this girl this is only like my first girlfriend and i am scerd of kissing her because she has kissed alot of people so she will think im a rubbish ...
A. 7 October 2007: :) look, if you really like her, kiss her, I know it's scary. I remember my first kiss, me and my bf were standing and when we went to kiss eachother, we banged heads :) but don't worry, it turned out to be so funny and now we've been together for 5 ... (read in full...)
I won't give up my unborn child - should I go and live with my mother?
Q. Ok I'm kind of young-ish and I missed my period, I've been puking, mood swingy, I was crying hysterically last night for hours on end, anyway so I think that I might maybe be pregnant and my boyfriend says he doesn't want a kid "right now". My fat...
A. 7 October 2007: Make sure if you are pregnant first because that kind of changes everything :) If you are, I would say that you should tell the father, if he loves you, he'll try and if he says he doesn't want it, ask if he will still be a part of their life, no ... (read in full...)
I saw the boy I like kissing another girl. If she is his gf I won't do anything, but if she isn't?
Q. im confused again!!i saw the boy i like with another girl and he kissed her.if she is his girlfriend,i won't do anything but if she is not??........
A. 7 October 2007: I would find out if they are in a relationship or not before you do anything else! :) love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
Do you think it's possible to REstart a long distance relationship even though it was the cause of us falling apart? What to do to remind her of the good times?
Q. Hello everyone, he's my question. My exgirlfriend and I began dating in highschool when I was a senior and she was a junior. After only 10 months of being together before I had to leave for college, we became extremely close. We both admitted to ...
A. 7 October 2007: Nobody ever said true love was going to be easy :) If you really love her, you can get through anything :) If you are both willing to make it work, everything will work out, have faith and as for driving up as a suprise, I think that would be really ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity recently to the girl I love but I didn't make her orgasm. Am I bad at sex? How do I prevent myself from ejaculating so quickly?
Q. I suck at sex!!! I lost my virginity a week ago to this girl I love!!! It was brilliant! But... I didn't make her orgasm. I couldn't last long enough to anyway. Is this really bad? She's NEVER had an orgasm before in her life, not even made by ...
A. 6 October 2007: You do nt suck at sex, sometimes it takes a few tries to hit the right spot and I'm sure she had a good enough time without having an orgasm! ;) So don't be so hard on yourself!!! :) reply if you want to, love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
I need someone to tell me I'm not a slut for having sex at 11. And how do I tell my mum about the pregnancy?
Q. When i was 11 i had sex for the first time and got pregnant i just need someone to tell me im not a slut, am i ?? i am 11 and pregnant how do i tell my mum and what do i do??...
A. 6 October 2007: You do realise it is illegal for you to have underage sex? Whoever the father is, he could go to prison for it! I'm sorry but there is only one way to tell your mum, come straight out and tell her, she will decide what to do, either to keep it or ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose - the 16 year-old or the 24-year old?
Q. I have a problem..I am 20 yrs old and have two boys who are very interested in me and I can't decide which of them I like more. On the one hand, there is a 24 year old who is very sweet, a little full of himself, who pays me a lot of attentio...
A. 6 October 2007: I would say neither, if the 16 year old is trying to be a 'bad boy' then I wouldn't really say he was mature and I agree with 'hugs2muchgal' he is probably just trying to pull an older woman to impress people and the 24 year old isn't ready for a ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian?
Q. I'm just 15.. Not in a serious relationship.. But urgghh.. I have this confusing and hurting obsession towards my teacher, who happens to be a woman. She's aged 40, married..there's no sexual attraction duh..however, I love her so much, like my ...
A. 6 October 2007: Well, if you're only 15, you won't really know, you might just feel close to her because, as you said, you love her like a mother. And if there isn't any sexual attraction at all? I wouldn't say you love her, well it's not likely anyways :) reply if ... (read in full...)
I am torn between two loves.
Q. Hi, i have 2 problems really. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 15 months now and in the last 6 months it has had to be long distance, but we still see each other each weekend as its only an hour away. The thing is i am finding that whe...
A. 6 October 2007: When I said 'Of course you're not a person' I meant to say You're not a BAD person! Sorry for any confusion! love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
Will this man ever leave his wife for me?
Q. I too am married and dating a married man for more than 2 years. It all started with small conversations which grew into daily conversations. Eventually, our spouses found out (now they have become friends) however, we can't leave each other ...
A. 6 October 2007: I don't think he's going to leave her, you haven't said if he has any kids but you have mentioned you do...do you want them to leave their dad? I know that isn't the only reason you should be with your partner but if you love your kids, it will be ... (read in full...)
How socially acceptable is a 6 year age difference?
Q. I recently went to help on a school trip (yr 7s) for a couple of days and whilst I was there I met a guy who was 22 and has just finished his teacher training and maths degree. Although we didn't get to talk much because of being on separate acti...
A. 6 October 2007: Well, I don't know about illegal but he may find it a bit weird, and do you know if he has a girlfriend? I mean you're what? 16? Me and my bf have a two year age gap and we're fine but I'm not so sure about 6 years: I'm trying to be a help but, I'm ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to talk about a future with me.
Q. me and myboyfriend were together for 1year and i love him so much. i used to be playa but i stopped doing that! i wanna spent rest of my life with him but he's not that crazy about me. he said he love me but when ever i talk about future he get mad ...
A. 6 October 2007: STOP!!!! It sounds like you're rushing things, some people are scared of the future, of tying themselves down, if you are forever asking him about the future, you are probably scaring him more, okay, how about you take about a month and don't think ... (read in full...)
Curvy v Skinny?
Q. Do guys like 'curvy' girls or 'skinny' girls ?...
A. 6 October 2007: Every guy has a different view, but don't diet just for a boy, if he doesn't like you for who you are, the forget him, he's not worth it and your looks aren't the most important things, a guy should be more interested in what's in your mind, not on ... (read in full...)
Do people who are in love have things in common?
Q. Do people who are in love with each other have anything in common. Some people have told me that opposites attract but I have seen that it is not the true in some cases. The same could be refered to couples who have a lot in common. Can someone ...
A. 6 October 2007: Lets see, me and my partner have been together since I was 14 (I'm now 19) and we have things that bug eachother and things that we love in eachother. But everyone is different, you might like a sense of humour, someone that gets you, (that is one ... (read in full...)
I am torn between two loves.
Q. Hi, i have 2 problems really. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 15 months now and in the last 6 months it has had to be long distance, but we still see each other each weekend as its only an hour away. The thing is i am finding that whe...
A. 6 October 2007: Of course you're not a person, once I was in love with two guys for completely different reasons and I will probably always love both of them, I didn't go out with either and I think I made the right choice because then I found a guy that had the ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I like her?
Q. ok her i go i realy like the girl im going out with and i cant get my mind off her she has said to me previously that she likes me to and wants to be with me and wants things to wotk out but she wants to make mates but i want it to be more than mat...
A. 5 October 2007: Follw your heart, tell her that nomatter what happens between you, you still want to be friends, then tell her, but don't just blurt it out, say it carefully. If she returns your feelings, good for you, if she just wants to be friends, accept her ... (read in full...)
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