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Hiya everybody! Well, I'm called Jade and I live in Newcastle, I try my hardest at answering your questions, I may not always give good advice but I try and I would love it even if I made a difference for one person, it would all be worthwhile :). I've had a lot of experiences with relationships so I know a lot of stuff :) I'll try so, fire away!!! :) love, just-ask-xx Oh, p.s. I really like it when you reply to my attempt of advice, either to say it did help or it didn't, whichever :) thanks love just-ask-xx

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28 October 2007: I've heard this saying a million times but what does it really mean? Live life to the max!!! You never know what will be threw at you next, so make each day count!! If you want to visit somewhere...go there!!! If you hate your job and want ...

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I dunno- do I dump my girlfriendfor the hot girl or not???

Q.   ive been with my girl for like 3 yrs and i have been having a serious affair with a much hotter girl that i met on the train (randomly) for about 2.5 of those years (almost the whole time) my girl has absolutely no idea at all bcuz i am very ver...

A.   11 January 2008: Okay, I was thinking about what I said and I realised, maybe I was a bit harsh. I guess. Anyways, I was wondering what has happened since then? Reply and I promise I won't be nasty =] But you have to admit, cheating isn't right!... (read in full...)

I dunno- do I dump my girlfriendfor the hot girl or not???

Q.   ive been with my girl for like 3 yrs and i have been having a serious affair with a much hotter girl that i met on the train (randomly) for about 2.5 of those years (almost the whole time) my girl has absolutely no idea at all bcuz i am very ver...

A.   24 November 2007: Wait!!!!! Everybody that has been saying dump your girlfriend, I don't think he should do that, I think that he should tell his gf so then SHE can dump him!!!!!!!! Much better plan.... (read in full...)

Do people who are in love have things in common?

Q.   Do people who are in love with each other have anything in common. Some people have told me that opposites attract but I have seen that it is not the true in some cases. The same could be refered to couples who have a lot in common. Can someone ...

A.   28 October 2007: Well, as I've said, when you're in love you just...know. You want to be with that person all the time and you get butterflies when you see them, it just feels different from other relationships. As for knowing if she loves you there's no way of ... (read in full...)

How do I tell her I like her?

Q.   ok her i go i realy like the girl im going out with and i cant get my mind off her she has said to me previously that she likes me to and wants to be with me and wants things to wotk out but she wants to make mates but i want it to be more than mat...

A.   28 October 2007: Okay, hey again. Have yot told her yet? I'm assuming not. Well, how about you tell send her flowers with something like, (her name) I want you to know, that I love you so, We're great friends, But it depends, Do you love me? And sign y... (read in full...)

I am torn between two loves.

Q.   Hi, i have 2 problems really. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 15 months now and in the last 6 months it has had to be long distance, but we still see each other each weekend as its only an hour away. The thing is i am finding that whe...

A.   6 October 2007: When I said 'Of course you're not a person' I meant to say You're not a BAD person! Sorry for any confusion! love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)

Curvy v Skinny?

Q.   Do guys like 'curvy' girls or 'skinny' girls ?...

A.   6 October 2007: Every guy has a different view, but don't diet just for a boy, if he doesn't like you for who you are, the forget him, he's not worth it and your looks aren't the most important things, a guy should be more interested in what's in your mind, not on ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to tell her I love her; I can't focus on my work or social life thinking about her. Help?

Q.   i love this girl and i know she loves me too the same way, i wana tell her how i feel about her but at the same time i'm afraid of losing her,i think of her all day and all night sometimes i cant sleep due to it, i cant focus on my work or my social ...

A.   6 October 2007: Wow, you honestly love her huh? I feel the exact same way about my bf. Tell her, and carefully, you don't want to freak her out :) If you're sure she likes you back she should say yes and if she doesn't, accept her decision and don't act different ... (read in full...)

I try to flirt over text or msn and end up feeling stupid! How do you flirt, what nicknames do you use?

Q.   How can you flirt online or text? I try to, but end up feeling totally stupid sometimes... And what can you call a guy (a nickname) when he's not a boyfriend, but flirting with him. Thank you x...

A.   6 October 2007: Hmmm....how about hunni, then if he is weirded out, say you got the wrong convo or that you call everyone that. Hope it's some help :) love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)

Do people who are in love have things in common?

Q.   Do people who are in love with each other have anything in common. Some people have told me that opposites attract but I have seen that it is not the true in some cases. The same could be refered to couples who have a lot in common. Can someone ...

A.   6 October 2007: Lets see, me and my partner have been together since I was 14 (I'm now 19) and we have things that bug eachother and things that we love in eachother. But everyone is different, you might like a sense of humour, someone that gets you, (that is one ... (read in full...)

I am torn between two loves.

Q.   Hi, i have 2 problems really. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 15 months now and in the last 6 months it has had to be long distance, but we still see each other each weekend as its only an hour away. The thing is i am finding that whe...

A.   6 October 2007: Of course you're not a person, once I was in love with two guys for completely different reasons and I will probably always love both of them, I didn't go out with either and I think I made the right choice because then I found a guy that had the ... (read in full...)

I dunno- do I dump my girlfriendfor the hot girl or not???

Q.   ive been with my girl for like 3 yrs and i have been having a serious affair with a much hotter girl that i met on the train (randomly) for about 2.5 of those years (almost the whole time) my girl has absolutely no idea at all bcuz i am very ver...

A.   5 October 2007: So you've been going out with them both for al this time? Wow, you must be a pro, and don't take that as a compliment. I feel soo sorry for your gf. She thinks she's in love with a lying, cheating rat. I honestly feel sorry for her, so here is what ... (read in full...)

My friend and I like the same guy, but I pretended not to - what should I do?

Q.   Me and my friend both like the same guy. I liked him first and my friend told me to go out with him but i couldn't since he was already going out with another girl. When he became single my friend all of sudden starts liking him . just to make my ...

A.   5 October 2007: I was in the exact same problem a couple years ago, what I did was come clean to my friend and tell her the whole truth - that I never stopped liking him - and my friend was angry at me for a while but then she realised something and we're still ... (read in full...)

Really need advice on which girl to choose!

Q.   Hi there guys, just need some advice for a slightly sticky situation i've gotten myself into. Last weekend, I met a woman that I really liked at a 21st and although she left early, she added me on facebook. This being the only form of communic...

A.   5 October 2007: Look, dude, you have seriously messed up prodlems! :) But we'll fix that, the girl you met at the party: Do you know her all that well? And I understand why you didn't want to entangle yourself in a mass of problems with the girl at the club but if ... (read in full...)

How do I tell her I like her?

Q.   ok her i go i realy like the girl im going out with and i cant get my mind off her she has said to me previously that she likes me to and wants to be with me and wants things to wotk out but she wants to make mates but i want it to be more than mat...

A.   5 October 2007: Follw your heart, tell her that nomatter what happens between you, you still want to be friends, then tell her, but don't just blurt it out, say it carefully. If she returns your feelings, good for you, if she just wants to be friends, accept her ... (read in full...)

Is being a gay/bi dad such a harsh thing for a kid?

Q.   Hmmm. I'll be straight to the point. I'm male 17. I'm bisexual and obviously i like both men and women. I'm keeping an open mind to marry a guy or a girl in the future. I'd like to know how people would react to having a gay father or being ma...

A.   5 October 2007: The answer is, listen to your heart, wether you're straight, gay or bi, people will accept you as who you are, I know two men that I grew up with have adopted and they are so happy and their kid loves them both, after all, he has two daddys!! ... (read in full...)

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