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How do you make out with a boy?

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Question - (23 November 2007) 18 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2011)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

help me!! i need 2 no how 2 make out with a guy!! plz help me!!

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A female reader, wer United States +, writes (14 February 2011):

Listen its really not that hard at all. This is how it's done you and ur bf are at his house and you are use to the kissing whenever you want to. You know when u lean over randomly and kiss him and he knows right away to kiss you back. Well after doing that a couple times, you have to be in control or else it wont feel right. You have to be like do you want to make out and if he says no, well the world isn't over you just have to wait alittle. But if he says yes dont freak out pretend like you knew he was gonna say yes. then you lean in slowly and first you give a quick couple kisses like 2 or 3, then slowly open ur lips but no toung yet. after 5 to 7 seconds gradually let ur toung get a taste. Now you can keep ur eyes open or closed which ever is comfortable for you, but it is kind of awkward with ur eyes open but you can peek after a 1 minute or 2 to see wat it feels like. then its sorta like back and forth take turns shoving ur toung down eachothers throat. after u start you get the hang of it.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010):

Listen its really not that hard at all. This is how it's done you and ur bf are at his house and you are use to the kissing whenever you want to. You know when u lean over randomly and kiss him and he knows right away to kiss you back. Well after doing that a couple times, you have to be in control or else it wont feel right. You have to be like do you want to make out and if he says no, well the world isn't over you just have to wait alittle. But if he says yes dont freak out pretend like you knew he was gonna say yes. then you lean in slowly and first you give a quick couple kisses like 2 or 3, then slowly open ur lips but no toung yet. after 5 to 7 seconds gradually let ur toung get a taste. Now you can keep ur eyes open or closed which ever is comfortable for you, but it is kind of awkward with ur eyes open but you can peek after a 1 minute or 2 to see wat it feels like. then its sorta like back and forth take turns shoving ur toung down eachothers throat. after u start you get the hang of it.

Good luck!

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A female reader, ask cupid xxx United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2010):

Believe me honey this is coming from someone that was searching all sorts of stuff on the internet bout how to makeout but honestly it comes naturally. Once you start kissing just open your mouth a little and ugh! its so easy you just do it. Its natural you dont even have to think bout it xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

Well it depends on the situation..... just follow the 90% rule which is u lean in 90%, and if he wants to kiss u he will. dont pull away and dont let him pull away either. to do that, if and when he pulls away, keep your lips attached and open your mouth a few times and thats how u make out with a boy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010):

how do you makeout with a guy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

i need help! me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a week and a half and we r going to see our first movie as a couple. we are really close and he wants to makeout during the movie. But the thing is... my dad will be there and it is a horror movie. should i let him, or should i just wait till we have been going out longer?

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A female reader, Megz 1107 Canada +, writes (7 June 2010):

My first kiss was just a little pic but he got me thinkin bout it all day then later we kissed again n again and after a little bit we started makin out just make sure u don't have bad breath and he'll lead u into it all u have to do is follow along but don't flinck or creek out when he touches u cause then he will think u don't want him to n then ur left to lead it

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A female reader, 152965baby United States +, writes (21 May 2010):

My first kiss was weird...he was showin me how...the socond which was like 1 minute l8r...he bit my tongue cuz he thought there as a spider on his leg but it was soft i kinda like it lol...but if u wanna make out and ur a girl...the boy will do most of the work...if he has kissed...he is 2 years older it was fun but i think a group of canoers saw us lol ok im done

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010):

all you got to do is take 3 deep breathes lean in but let the bot lean in first then you lean in and you kiss first then makeout

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

makeing out with a guy should just be special. dont think if you think it will feel awkward. take a deep breath and relax

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A female reader, hey ask me United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

OMG...my first kiss really sucked but my second one was a little better it all comes naturally before i kissed my bf I asked my bff(A guy)for help which really helped ,but we kept it a secret...my bf woulda freaked

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A female reader, Lady-Rawr-x United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2009):

Lady-Rawr-x agony auntI'm pretty sure I'm about your age. And trust me I went through the same thing. Just because you feel like your doing bad doesnt mean you should stop, just keep trying.

At first try just cuddling, hugging, nuzzling, or pecking each other.

When your comfortable and feel like the anxiousness has died down, then just look at his lips, then kiss his cheek if hes turned away from you. When he responds he should just be doing closed mouth kissing so basically just a long peck on the lips. Make sure your comfortable first, and that you are ready to move on.

Then try to move. Hand movement is key to making sure the kiss is still intimate and not boring. The type of hand movement depends on how far you are willing to go. If you just want to make out and not go further then either run your hands through his hair, on his cheek, on the back of his neck, through his belt loops, in his back jean pockets, up or down his chest, or just a mixture which is better to keep the kiss moving and energetic.

While moving, you've got to be watching your lips aswell so don't focus on the hands as much.

If and when your ready try opening your mouth slightly. This is like a signal to the guy for him to enter, which you will be aware of when it happens. Dont be scared or freaked when it does thought cause that could throw you concentration. When you feel his tongue in you mouth, let it roam for a moment or two before trying to touch it with yours. Movement of the outer parts of you lips is good too so try that. Make sure your breaking in between becuase breathing out of your nose isnt exactly easy when its pressed against someone.

Noises can help conjure up the mood. So try moaning or groaning once in a while. Dont be nervous about this either because its totally normal. If you do this, the guy could get turned on by knowing your enjoying it and that keeps the kiss passionate.

Humping occasionally is basically just thrusting your hips up, down, and side to side. This is also great movment.

Finally all this should keep everything going for as long as you want. The obvious next steps are just touching and feeling so again thats easy. After you've made out finish with a nice peck either on the cheek, neck, or lips, softly though just to keep him wanting more..

Hope I helped and contact me if you need anything else.

Lady Rawr at your service x x x

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A female reader, Lady-Rawr-x United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2009):

Lady-Rawr-x agony auntI'm pretty sure I'm about your age. And trust me I went through the same thing. Just because you feel like your doing bad doesnt mean you should stop, just keep trying.

At first try just cuddling, hugging, nuzzling, or pecking each other.

When your comfortable and feel like the anxiousness has died down, then just look at his lips, then kiss his cheek if hes turned away from you. When he responds he should just be doing closed mouth kissing so basically just a long peck on the lips. Make sure your comfortable first, and that you are ready to move on.

Then try to move. Hand movement is key to making sure the kiss is still intimate and not boring. The type of hand movement depends on how far you are willing to go. If you just want to make out and not go further then either run your hands through his hair, on his cheek, on the back of his neck, through his belt loops, in his back jean pockets, up or down his chest, or just a mixture which is better to keep the kiss moving and energetic.

While moving, you've got to be watching your lips aswell so don't focus on the hands as much.

If and when your ready try opening your mouth slightly. This is like a signal to the guy for him to enter, which you will be aware of when it happens. Dont be scared or freaked when it does thought cause that could throw you concentration. When you feel his tongue in you mouth, let it roam for a moment or two before trying to touch it with yours. Movement of the outer parts of you lips is good too so try that. Make sure your breaking in between becuase breathing out of your nose isnt exactly easy when its pressed against someone.

Noises can help conjure up the mood. So try moaning or groaning once in a while. Dont be nervous about this either because its totally normal. If you do this, the guy could get turned on by knowing your enjoying it and that keeps the kiss passionate.

Humping occasionally is basically just thrusting your hips up, down, and side to side. This is also great movment.

Finally all this should keep everything going for as long as you want. The obvious next steps are just touching and feeling so again thats easy. After you've made out finish with a nice peck either on the cheek, neck, or lips, softly though just to keep him wanting more..

Hope I helped and contact me if you need anything else.

Lady Rawr at your service x x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

Just hug him and then start to sit close to him. Then give him a push and start kissin'. Use your tounge and start to hump him if your ready.......i have done it before every guy loves it!

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A female reader, musicfrk15 United States +, writes (2 February 2008):

musicfrk15 agony aunti agree with everything that everyone else said. i know that when i say this it will sound really dumb but it all really just comes naturally. try some different things out. touch tounges. i am a new person to making out, too so im right with you.

i hope that i could help a little

feel free to mail me anytime with questions or whatever

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007):

heya hun Makeing out is easy!

All you have to do is kiss for a while then slowly slip in some tounge and if he likes it keep on goin it will feel just like toungeing basicly but not as 'real' as when you tounge someone just suck on his lips first and folow my steps and it will all be fine :D x

p.s trust me x

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

love-him agony auntHey hon, making out, is basically kissing, with opening your mouth and maybe using tongue, touching each others tongues.. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x

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A female reader, just-ask-xx United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2007):

just-ask-xx agony auntHi,

Well, all you have to do is kiss -- make sure you floss ;D lol -- and if you feel his tongue pressing forward on your lips, it means he wants to get off with you, if you want to, part your lips but if you don't, keep them firmly closed!!

Or you could hug him and when you feel like it, kiss him!!!

And by the way, nerves ae normal!! So DON'T panic!!!

Good luck

just-ask-xx

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