I'm worried my PE is stopping me getting a girlfriend....
Q. Hi there, my friends think I'm too fussy when it comes to girls and they keep telling me that it is the reason as to why I've been single for the last 4 years. This is partly true as I have to admit I am fussy but the main reason that I choose t...
A. 21 September 2009: You know what, sex isn't everything. I mean whats wrong with a cuddle and a kiss? Be honest and they will understand. I have plenty of friends who can't last very long and they find ways round this. Circumcision seems the best one seriously. Don't ... (read in full...)
I think I've really hurt him... what can I do?
Q. Okay... so here is the situation. I work in a small company and I am talking really small. I think we have about 30 employees total. So anyway I made friends with 3 guys, we all hang out together. This is the first time all my friends have bee...
A. 21 September 2009: I've kinda been here before. What you need to do is be cruel to be kind, you did the right thing and you need to tell him you don't want to hurt him but nothing is going to happen he is just wasting his time. Good thing is the sooner its done and he ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my wife while she is trying to make it work... how can I stop?
Q. Hello, I am a 41 years old and have been married for 25 years. My wife and I were High Schools sweethearts. We have two children on in college and one in high school. I love my wife but really haven't told her that enough over the years. Sex for m...
A. 21 September 2009: If the woman doesn't enjoy sex then she isn't getting into the mood, does she feel uncomfortable sexually? If so maybe she can talk to someone about that. I agree with caring guy about the marrage councelling but to stop the cheating, I would ... (read in full...)
How can I be more dominant in my relationship like she wants?
Q. I asked what my girlfriend liked, and she said she wanted a dominating man. I am pretty dominant in my own life, I run it no one else. But I'm not sure how to be dominant in a relationship. I try to initiate the kisses, I lead in the conversat...
A. 21 September 2009: usually lovers complain about the dominance and fight each other for it. To be honest though, you are who you are and theres no point changing it, its just unnatural. Best you can do is to tell her you will lead and protect her but she should take ... (read in full...)
I know I should stay for the best, but I'll be happier with someone else...
Q. I have been with my daughters father for almost 10 years. We never married but we live together and have a happy life together. However, I do not feel attracted to him anymore and I constantly find myself thinking about other men. There is one guy ...
A. 21 September 2009: It sounds to me like your relationship is getting a bit distant and even though there is no friction here. Ask yourself, is the grass always greener on the other side? Do you want to chuck 10 years away for this and if your in love with this guy ... (read in full...)
He disappeared on me and now won't speak to me. What's going on??
Q. The situation is this: I am married (separated), he is not, we were friends,we had a sex a few times,now he never contacts me... ran into him recently, he ignored me but looked uncomfortable, still he stayed close by all night. SO I decided to text ...
A. 21 September 2009: It is possible he was only your friend at the start because he fancied you, finally got in with you and then realised it wasn't what he wanted. He could have been a genuine friend and feels awkard about what hes done. You have done your best telling ... (read in full...)
Cheating with the oposite sex... how to deal with it?
Q. So...My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. I just found out that he cheated on me two weeks ago...with a man. He has had an online relationship with him for the past 4 months. He didn't tell me the truth, I found out on my own. ...
A. 21 September 2009: Ouch that must hurt, cheatings bad enough but with someone of a different sex. Has he told you he is bisexual, gay or straight? If hes lied about his sexuality then he is odviously discovering himself. If it was me i'd tell him to go away and think ... (read in full...)
Too much has happened and I think I'm growing up too fast
Q. So heres the thing i have just won a legal battle so as me and my pregnant girlfriend can live on our own (you wont have heard about it, non of us wanted it to go public). We now live in a flat for 800 rent which the court pays. I LOVE my life, the ...
A. 20 September 2009: I have a lot of respect for a guy who takes on another mans baby, especailly in this situation. Long as your comfortable and don't feel you were pushed into this then its ok. Also your step mum will have to stop calling you gay!... (read in full...)
I'm living like a tenant in my own house and I hate it!
Q. hi everyone! i've known my husband for 6 years and have been married to him for 3 years. when i first met him he had just moved in with his friend and there was no problem with that as we ...
A. 20 September 2009: Do you own this house? if you do i'd advise them to take a trip to the nearest estage agents and you will even help them choose a new place. In the UK you could write them an eviction letter and give it to the local councils housing office. You need ... (read in full...)
I like him as more than a friend, what can I do?
Q. I dated this guy for two months, and then he broke up with me saying that he didn’t fancy me and that he could only be my friend, so now we have been friends for a year. I like him more then a friend and not sure what to do?...
A. 20 September 2009: Where you friends beforehand? if not I would say let it go and just be aquaintainces. It looks like you haven't gotten over him since your relationship with him. The reality is that unless you were friends with someone before you went out with them ... (read in full...)
I want to change my jealous insecure & untrusting ways!
Q. I have been with this girl for about 3 months now. In my previous relationships sometime my actions have got in the way, and pushed my last girlfriend away. I cant decide wether it is a trust, insecurity, jelousy or control issue. The best way for ...
A. 20 September 2009: Well you have taken the first step to solving this problem by admitting you have one. Were you bullied at school? do you feel that this girl is a bit out of your league? If you have been let down a few times in life then I can see why you feel this ... (read in full...)
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