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I'm a girl, and I like my friend(girl) but I don't know how to tell if she likes me back

Q.   Ok, Im not too young, but im pretty young..... im about to go in high school (graduating on the 24th of June) but i think ive fallen for one of my female friends..... i never felt this way before! we just have so much in common: we both draw, were ...

A.   16 June 2011: why want you make some jokes like :"if you're sick of boys you can have me i can make you happy" ....and see where things can go ....i don't know if you girls struggle because struggling does magic .....tell her that she has beautiful lips and wish ... (read in full...)

Does she likes me? If yes then why does she talks to other boys and not me?

Q.   I am a very shy guy and really love a girl. The girl is very shy and i have noticed many times that she is looking at me but as look at her, she quickly moves away ( When we both are quite, otherwise if with friends, she keeps looking at me even if ...

A.   15 June 2011: man girls are hard to understand just lesten you want her right? whenever she tries to walk away just stop her and start a simple conversation don't worry i am sure she won't run away ...maybe ask her if you make her uncomfortable why not!! ... (read in full...)

Is it bad for my guy to come to my place everyday?

Q.   This may sound funny and stupid,but you need to help me out. Am in university and i stay in off campus,but my guy which i met stays in hostels,he don't know how to cook so he bought all the things for cooking and brought it to my lodge. So i do the ...

A.   15 June 2011: it's not bad for your boy friend to come i mean that's so normal just have fun and enjoy his company ( with limits) and if people bother you why won't you guys meet in an other place where no one will disturb ....and tell that guy to keep his nose ... (read in full...)

My sister won't even talk to me now!

Q.   Hey, well here's the deal, I'm 26 and a few days ago, me and my sister were home, told her I was gonna leave with my friend for some work. After I left, me and my friend were halfway on the road I noticed we had totally forgot a piece of hardware we ...

A.   2 September 2010: HELLO she's the one who has to apologize shame on her and she dares not to talk to you how funny is that you were trying to protect her and i don't think your parents would be proud of it she's only 16 man i mean what happened is from the past now ... (read in full...)

I wonder if there is a future for me with this man

Q.   i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have ...

A.   29 August 2010: you have a futur with this man just be patient .....good luck... (read in full...)

Whats a good time to stop breast feeding?

Q.   Hi i was just curious about whats the oldest the baby should be when you stop breast feeding it? I read some where that you continue to do it till they dont want it any more but what if they still want it like when there two? Thanks....

A.   24 August 2010: they say 2 years the most if you want to make sure his health is ok the mother's milk is way better than any thing else so plz feed your baby and don't care about your breast if it will be ugly and stuff it's not always when you work out it will ... (read in full...)

Is there any chance my straight best friend will fall for me, a teen gay?

Q.   I know this question has been asked by many a gay guy, but i was hoping for a more specific answer. My friendship with this guy started rather oddly (he is the same age as me and we have actually been at school together for the past 5 years). He was ...

A.   22 August 2010: hey bro i am in the same situation fell for him told him freacked out but said we could be just friends and now he's kissing his gf more often only in front of me it like he's trying to say "hello there i am straight"...da** it i am so jealous any ... (read in full...)

He says I'm cute but does it mean anything?

Q.   There's a new guy at my school. I find him immensely cute. The thing is I just met him but I feel so comfortable around him. He makes me smile every time I see him. I don't know if he even feels the same way or I mean if he sees me as that way. I ...

A.   21 August 2010: maybe he's being just friendly but who knows maybe he's giving you signals that he likes you .....any way why don't you invite him over your place or for a movie any thing as long as you're gonna be just the two of you and give him all the ... (read in full...)

I think he used me! why do boys do this?

Q.   there is this boy who i really liked, ive liked him for 5months now, we snuck out, one night and we has sexual intercourse, and then the next day he ignored me and he keeps ignoring me, and i feel very used, i really love him, why do boys do that to ...

A.   18 August 2010: why don't you tell him why he's acting in this way and what happened to the kiss and all that flirt cause if you don't you'll feel so bad about your self for not telling him and don't show him that you still care about him sweety you have to fight ... (read in full...)

Gay? Or just a teen?

Q.   i'm worried. i like to watch gay porn, i get arroused by men's penis's. i've joined gay chats and talk, jacked off to the dirty talk, watched tehm on web cam, wanted to do things, but i dont real slightly attracted to them at all, in the way like ...

A.   12 August 2010: hey mate i am 16 i am gay i love kissing boys but sleeping with them makes me sick and watching gay porn makes me even sicker ......you are mini-gay means you like to have fun and fool around cause if you were a real gay you'd care more about the ... (read in full...)

Married with 2 kids but interested in men

Q.   I am a married man with two kids, but I think I'm atleast bi curious. I have strong urges to find out what it's like to be with another man....

A.   12 August 2010: why you're doing this do you have any idea how much it will hurt your wife and how about your kids have you thought about them you're their idol their hero do you want them to be like you do you want to disappoint them sir have a life i beleive that... (read in full...)

Is it weird I'm in love with someone four times my age?

Q.   Dear Cupid I was wondering if this is weird or not. Well I just started a new job at my local convienence store. My boss is really nice and I started to like him about 3 weeks ago. But now I have fallen in love with him. The weird part is that he ...

A.   12 August 2010: that's not normal he's like your grandfather wake up girl i don't think your parents will be so happy with it why don't you get some one from your age ....he lived his life and about to die and you your life just started so young fresh and you'll ... (read in full...)

Our first kiss was not anything like I imagined it would be!

Q.   me and my long distance boyfriend kissed for the first time today,it is the first kiss ever for both of us. i didnt feel anything although i love him so much,actually the kiss was terrible,it is nothing like i imagined ..he was so nervous and just ...

A.   12 August 2010: man of course it will get better with time i think you guys should practice a lot with each other you're so cute both of you (wish i'll try my first kiss soon )....so enjoy each other and trust me you'll make from it such a great fun later......good ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mum I am pregnant at 13 by a 17 year old guy?

Q.   Hey, I am 13 and pregnant. :| My boyfriend is 17. I want to keep the baby. But, my parents would never allow it. How do I tell my parents I am pregnant. I know automatically my mom would call me a slut. I just found out today. But, I was thin...

A.   3 August 2010: my god you're only 13 and pregnant what were you thinking! why didn't you wait till you'll be old enough so the best thing to do is to tell your mom cause sooner or later she'll find out about it and your bf has to be responsible .....do not have an ... (read in full...)

She thinks I'm too protective...

Q.   My girlfriend and I got in a huge fight. We've been going out for over a year. She really wants to go to this dance thing, where guys and girls are grindin' up on each other. I told how I felt about it and she started cussing me out, yelling, sa...

A.   3 August 2010: man i was so going to tell you to break up with her but instead i can say that your girlfriend is a bi*** (i am so sorry)....dude you love her and respect her you're a gentle man and she has to know that you want her own good many girls went to this ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is not interested in sex, does this mean she wants to break up with me?

Q.   i have done an a intercourse with my girlfriend i realize that she is not interested in sex, what i do she is know intersted in talking with other person's what i she i response me and ignore me suggest me is she want to break the relationship ...

A.   28 July 2010: maybe she's scared of having it maybe she's not ready yet or you're moving quickly in this relationship give her some time and the ignoring you part it's because she's affraid you're going to talk about it again ......so please don't freak her out ... (read in full...)

Why has he asked me out when I always thought he hated me?

Q.   ( Sorry if my English is bad ) Well there is a guy I know since I was a child I don't remember every thing but I remember that he used to tease me . He sometime say to my best friend that she is pretty in front of me . I got jealous and beca...

A.   28 July 2010: that's the way that we the boys say "i like you a lot" let me tell you this story..."my dad knew my mom since they were teenagers and he used to make fun of her the whole time he used to do a lot of crazy stuff to her and one time he did something ... (read in full...)

I've not had sex, so why don't I have my period?

Q.   hello , I am 13 and im worried because my period has not come on at all this whole month. I havent had sex so I know im not pregnant. Someone please help im worried .!...

A.   28 July 2010: i am not an expert in this but i think it didn't come because you're under pressure or you're not eating very well you know mal nutrition can do it and if none of those are happening to you then you should tell your mom or an older sister cause it ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to want to know the relationship history of the person you are dating?

Q.   Mod Note: OP's own title: I would think that it is normal to want to know about the relationship history of the person you are dating. Especially as you are getting closer to them and more committed. Some folks seem to disagree with me...but I c...

A.   28 July 2010: of course it's not normal you HAVE TO KNOW HIS PAST ....you should know every thing about him he could be a killer a theif an alcoholic got a girl pregnant or even a spy ....ect (sorry but sometimes we have to be carefull)...miss i think you really ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for my online BFF, should I tell her?

Q.   So I met this girl online and she doesn't live to terribly far from me, a few hours. We've been talking for literally about a year and a half. I really like her, and I get the feeling she feels the same. However, she is a really good friend, one of ...

A.   28 July 2010: don't tell her cause you might mess up the friendship between you and she won't trust you any more you need more time to know how she really feels about you ......all what you can do is sending her some signals....tell her to imagine how things ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a teacher at my school!!

Q.   MOD NOTE: OP's own title: I'm a 15 year old student, When I was in year 8 a new member of English staff joined the school (Mr T)and was trained, I didn't really care and I didn't take much notice of him. However later that year my English teac...

A.   28 July 2010: you're not in love it's what we call "one of those cases" when you fall for your teacher and think he is the one honey you're so young you still a kid you just like him and want to see him every day and stuff i remember when i was 5 years old i fell ... (read in full...)

Should I pursue her again or just stay friends with her?

Q.   So there is this girl that i have liked for about a year and a half now and i ended up asking her out on valentines day 2010. She said no and she didn't talk to me for 3 months. Then we started talking again and now we are good friends again. But ...

A.   28 July 2010: oh man you reminded me of my self dude i fell for my best freind he rejected me and now we're freinds again(as he thinks) so the best advice is GET OVER HER ....well you know you're always by her side leave her alone for a while i am sure she will ... (read in full...)

Did I mess up our friendship by having sex with him?

Q.   he is single,hes a close family friend and he gave me his house spare keys,so that i can help him,by cleaning and washing when i'm free,cause he cant do it him self.we stay at the same street and i go to his house at any time.last week we had ...

A.   28 July 2010: why don't you talk to him about it you can put it all up in the table just tell him that what happened the other night was a mistake and you didn't know what you were thinking and what happened it's past now and you can over it and still best ... (read in full...)

Do I grit my teeth and go on with it?

Q.   hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and I am proud to be lesbian. Before I moved, my hometown ( london) was very supportive and wasn't homophobic. now we live in Derby and we get bullied and attacked( the police are doing their best ...

A.   27 July 2010: if you really love her i think you should do what your girl freind wants and makes her comfortable she doesn't want to be bugged so i think you should stop asking to move and if she really loves you i think she will ask you to come back (but if ... (read in full...)

I'm in love wth one of my best friends, but she doesn't feel the same way.

Q.   i have been tottaly in love with my one of my best friends (female) for quite a while now but i know she dosent feel the same way about me, what should i do ?...

A.   26 July 2010: man we're in the same boat i fell for my best friend too for ages and it took me a lot of courage to tell him that i loved him and once i did it let's say i lost him as a friend too till now i still love him but he's not treating me like befor and ... (read in full...)

How I can get my boyfriend to respect me more?

Q.   Hey guys I've been struggling with this for a while.. My boyfriend doesnt respect me. Its hard because I moved in with him a while ago and due to some circumstances I have nowhere else to live. The other day he posted about 9 posters of girls...

A.   26 July 2010: you know what they say :"once you respect YOUR SELF others have to respect you " you're not gonna die without him i think you should count on your self a littel bit be a roomate with some body and get a job ....and BREAK UP with him he's so ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants sex and I don't know what to do?

Q.   My boyfriend is 16 coming 17 and he asked me to have sex. But it really wasnt sex cause he licked me and fingered me and we did it in a ass. But he asked me to do it in the vagina and i dont know how to say not yet. i dont want it there yet because ...

A.   26 July 2010: if you feel you're not ready yet then tell him IAM NOT READY AND I DON'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT ....and if he really loves you he'll respect your choise ...well in my opinion you guys are too young for sex ....i think you should wait a littel bit ... (read in full...)

All my friends have lives of their own, but I'm alone! What can I do to get out and about?

Q.   hey, it seems as if all my friends got their own life now and i feel like i have no one. all my friends have boyfriend and jobs and are too busy to do anything latley. im unemployed and dont have a boyfriend and it seems all i do is stay in. ive ...

A.   14 July 2010: i think you need more time you can't have a job and a boyfriend and all what you want just like that i think you should try harder a littel bit and by the way it all starts inside of you cause once you beleive you're great you'll feel better and ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a guys stares at you and smiles, but doesn't talk to you?

Q.   this guy in college I hadn't noticed him before but when I first looked at him he kept staring until I looked away does that mean he's been checking me out for long?anyway a few months after that we have been making eye contact every time we pa...

A.   11 July 2010: i think they are making a game if you go and talk to him about this and what he wants from you he wins lesten to me sister if he realy likes you he'll come and ask you out(you're not gonna kill him ) befor you fly away from his hands cause you're ... (read in full...)

I want to be more popular at college, how can I do this?

Q.   I want to be popular at college and likeable. I don't talk much. I want people to notice me and most importantly like me. I feel like I get pushed around by friends and listen to everything they tell me to do. I want to show them that I am in ...

A.   28 March 2010: just be your self cause trying to please every one around is the key of faillure.......good luck... (read in full...)

Do I fancy my teacher? Does he fancy me? What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I am new to this site but I was wondering if you could answer my question. I have this science teacher let's call him luke. Luke has been my science teacher for 3-4 years now (by the way I'm in secondary school.) He has been my favourite tea...

A.   28 March 2010: great job young girl don't answer them back and that's not right that he's texting you the trip is over so what does he want!!...just act like you don't care about him stay away from him and i am sure he'll understand and realize that he's a teacher ... (read in full...)

Do I fancy my teacher? Does he fancy me? What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I am new to this site but I was wondering if you could answer my question. I have this science teacher let's call him luke. Luke has been my science teacher for 3-4 years now (by the way I'm in secondary school.) He has been my favourite tea...

A.   27 March 2010: you know what? i think that you fancy him but he doesn't i think that he likes you as a student because maybe you're the best in his class and he feels comfortable when he talks to you ...in my opinion don't tell him how you feel about him that will ... (read in full...)

I don't want to stay with him if he doesn't want a child in the future, what do you think?

Q.   Well ive been dating my boyfrend for two months and he has a three year old daughter..and the relationship with his baby's mamma sucks, the bitch hardly lets him see her..and im 23 with no kids..and i dont really remember how we got on the topic of ...

A.   26 March 2010: you're not selfish that's your right to have kids try to give him more time but if you feel that he's really serious of not having babies i think you should get worry about that well you know you're getting older and once you miss the train you ... (read in full...)

4 months into his marriage and he started dating me... how do you see my future?

Q.   He asked me out and i said no for a whole year because i thought he wasnt serious. Then he got married but didnt stop, i thought my feelings would disappear but they havent. 4 months into his marriage we started dating and i have never been ...

A.   20 March 2010: you have no future with him girl he's married he has a wife you're making a big mistake lord will never forgive you as long as you know that what you're doing is something wrong you're destroying a family just ask your self a simple question do you ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be gay....what should I do?

Q.   I'm so confused right now. I'm 15, and I know that deep inside, I'm straight, or at least bisexual - I want a relationship with a girl, and I've had sexual experiences with girls in the past. However, several years ago I got caught messing with a ...

A.   20 March 2010: when you put a goal in your head you can reach for it dude you don't want to be gay then don't be a gay and you know deep inside you're straight so why you're making from it a big deal there is one thing you can do just stop all these questions of ... (read in full...)

Am I bi, gay, or transgender? I don't know what I am sexually!

Q.   Am I bi, gay, or tg? Should I try sex with a guy? When I was 10 yrs old I started cross dressing. I just saw my sisters clothes and wondered what it would be like to wear it - turned out I liked it. I stopped for over 6 yrs than started again a few ...

A.   6 March 2010: so man you should try sex with him cause he wanted that and see with whom you feel so good is it girls or boys later you'll find out who you are and if you find out that you like women and regret for sleeping with a boy try to forget it and consider ... (read in full...)

Can I be friends with a girl who is older than I am?

Q.   He cupid, i want to ask some question here. i met a girl on the internet. we shares pictures to each other and also share mobile number. she have a good work and i have a good work too. she was born in 1985 and i was born in 1987. now we are ...

A.   3 March 2010: of course you can be a friend with some one who's older than you well maybe my story is deffrent than yours but just to make it clear for you iam 16 and i am a best friend with my neighbor he's 25 we share stuff i am learning from him "the facts of ... (read in full...)

Uh oh, I have a boyfriend but think I am in love with my best girl friend

Q.   I think I'm in love with my bestfriend. I have a boyfriend of almost two years and I am very confused. She often teases me saying she is gonna rape me and other stuff but I'm not shore if she is flirting or not. She calls me boo baby tells me she ...

A.   1 March 2010: DON'T do it don't make the same mistake that i've done (when i kissed him and told him that i am gay i lost him )....well you the girls can hug and tell each other crazy stuff with out thinking that you're gay not like us when you touch you have to ... (read in full...)

I am gay, and eveytime my male friend kisses his girlfriend I die a little inside

Q.   ok let me introduce my self my name is kevin i am 16 i am a boy and i am gay but no body knows that i fell for this guy damn it he's so hot we're in the same class we're best friends and just my luck he got a girl friend recently and whenever we go ...

A.   1 March 2010: ok guys thanks a lot for you support and i think that i made a decision i am going to tell him how i feel about him tomorow it's crazy but i think i should do it just like you said chances are and let's see what will happen pleaze cross your ... (read in full...)

I am "too large" for my girlfriend

Q.   Alright, well I have a pretty large penis. About 7" and over 3" thick. I never had an issue with my penis size until now. I am seeing a girl that I really like. So far the sex has been amazing, but the other night we did it "doggie-style", and after ...

A.   27 February 2010: well let's say you're lucky to have a large penis girls like it as i hear but the point is sex is not every thing in a relation ship ...if it's a problem just about your penis you're not going to have a brock up guys just because a peace of flesh i ... (read in full...)

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