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Well for years n years ive sat back watched my mates and their relationships and learnt alot im the one they always come to for help even the boys so I think that im preddy gd at this n I just want to be able to help other people like I help my friends.
I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of two years and 2 months and I often use my experiences that ive had with my boyfriend as help for other people who have had problems that ive experienced in the past with my bf.
Anyways I hope I can do alot of gd on here and if anyone has anything they would like to ask me feel free to email me.
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I want to be independent but can't seem to get a job. Help!!
Q. I am 17 years old and i don't understand what i am doing wrong! Every time I apply for a part time job, the place never gets back to me and people with less qualifications than me get the job. I have been trying to earn some extra money for abou...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Huni
Im 17 to and it took me months n months to get a job when i left college finally a friend got me a job at her place so why dont u ask you friends see if theres anything goin.
Good Luck
Helen x... (read in full...)
Why do I just stop fancying my girlfriends?
Q. Why do I stop fancying my girlfriends? I have just ended a 2.5 yr relationship with my GF. Almost everything about it was fabulous, we made a great couple, loads of stuff in common. We're now both pretty devastated, and I feel so guilty about it....
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Huni
No offence but what are you gods gift? if you love someone it shouldnt matter what they look like you should love them for who they are. Its better when you are physically attracted to them and if you once thought they were i cant see why ... (read in full...)
Why is his tongue cold!!?
Q. Weird question: Every guy I have kissed so far has had a warm tongue but recently I made out with a guy whose tongue was cold!!What's that all about?...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Huni,
Every1s different n have different things up with them maybe this is jus his, maybe he eats alot of ice creams lol sorry just dont worry bout it and if u dnt like it make him have a warm drink or hot food before hand.
Helen x... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid or is my boyfriend still obsessed with his ex.
Q. Hello, I'm in a relationship with a guy who i really really like. I've known him for ages and we get on really well. The only problem is before we got together he was really in love with this girl who always sent him mixed signals, during this tim...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Huni
its understanderble that you feel like that i know i would but he has you now, does he love you? if he ses he does then he probably means it and wont jus leave u like that. He perhaps just wants to stay friend with her, talk to him tell... (read in full...)
Could my partner of 5 years be getting his pleasure elsewhere!!
Q. Hi there! I need help with my relationship and need to know if I am being taken for a fool?? My partner of 5 yrs has been logging onto chatrooms looking up personal ads and calling chat lines he also has a large collection of porn on his phon...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Huni,
Sounds to me like if hes gettin his kicks from so many different things like porn or chatlines then hes not cheatin on you because if he was cheatin on you he'd b gettin his kicks from the other girl n not porn or chatlines. so i thin... (read in full...)
Help! It's be a year and i'm still not over him.
Q. Hi, I went out with this lad 3 times and I really thought I liked him but he messed me around, so I was the one who always broke us up. He keeps asking my friends out just to spite me and he's even told my other friends that he was messing arou...
A. 18 June 2006: hey huni
He sounds like a right prune to me leave him be show him ur not interested in him any more even if u r lol try and find sum1 new to concentrate on n when you have someone new make sure you rub it in this lads face n show him he cant both... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend are fighting, help!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for one and a half years now, he is 21 and im 19. when i was 17 i had a bad relationship for about a year and after that ended,i have a few casual relationships. so at 17,i had slept with 7 people, my boyfriend ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni, I know how your bfs feeling because my bf has slept with just one more person than me he was my first n he had someone else b4 me score 2-1 and i get mad bout it sometimes it makes me feel insucure i wonder all the time if she was better t... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do about my ex
Q. Hey Ppl. My b/f, well kinda ex b/f is confusing me. We have been together for almost a yr now but we have experienced so much that it feels like at least 3yrs. We broke up because I coudnt handle the many girls who are present. But now I feel like I ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni, Perhaps hes testing you sayin that you can do things with other lads then if you dont he knows you still care for him and if you do then he'll think you want jus tell him that you dont want to you want to be with him and if u trust hi... (read in full...)
Is it normal that when we have sex it's so messy?
Q. 'Everytime' I have sex with my girlfriend when I ejaculate pretty much all my cum floods back out of her as soon as I pull out which as you could imagine is messy.. Is this normal and what does it mean!?!? How much is meant to stay in her? This is ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni, Sex isnt always wat it seems to be and its nothing like the movies its messy and sticky lol dont worry theres nothing wrong with you or her at all tht very same thing happends to me you just have to have the tissues on stand by lol Good... (read in full...)
I come too quickly... and I'm a woman! Any tips on lasting longer?
Q. I orgasm very quickly whenever me and boyfriend are fooling around. Any tips to stay in the game longer? I'm presuming this is not common among females. ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey huni, Why dont you try to climax your self a few hours before hand useing a toy or your fingers and then cuz youve already had one when you have sex later on it wont come as quickly. Good Luck Helen x ... (read in full...)
How do I approach him with looking desperate or scaring him off? Any advice appreciated
Q. I am a catholic girl and really like a guy who attends the church I go to. I know he likes me, but it is so hard to try and really get to know him properly. I beleive that the man should make the first move, I would never like to approach him, I ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni,
Ya know when it comes to askin people out men can be just as terrified as women all you have to do if u really like him is pluck up some courage walk over to him start a conversation off find something u have in common and then some... (read in full...)
She won't go out until she trusts someone, but how long will that take?
Q. How do I build up trust with a girl I like because we hardly even know each other, but I still care for her. I'm 16 and she is 14, and trust is a big thing to her - as well as me. She said she has to have known someone for a long time to trust th...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni,
No one knows how long its goin to take for her to fully trust you not even her knows that, if you really like her as much as you say you do then you can wait just build up a really good friendship let her know that you are always ther... (read in full...)
Is he too good to be true or am I setting myself up for more pain?
Q. For once in my life ive met a lovely man who texts me and rings me all the time, ive met him 6 times now over the last couple of months, we have got closer and both really feel for one another, but he has only been split up from his wife since begin ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni,
He may want his children back in his life but he certainly wouldnt leave you for them hes excited tht there talking again but he doesnt have the same love for them as he does a women thats a fartherly love not a realationship love he'l... (read in full...)
I just want friends, but it isn't happening.... I need advice please!
Q. in skool i am always alone n i neva have any1 to talk 2 but when i do talk to this one girl called lucy her 'friend' victoria says im tryin 2 steal her. But all i wanna do is make friends. also i am being bullied by victoria and a girl called s...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni,
Ya no i have never had that problem so heres my advic ya need to speak up girl im always cheery and outgoin i say whats on my mind even if it outrageous jus to make ppl laugh i think thts y i have always had ppl wanting to be around me c... (read in full...)
How should I get this boy?
Q. I like a boy and i think that he likes me but he wnt go out with me because we live so far away frm each other and i realy want to be with him what shuld i do?...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni,
Sorry to say this but i think you should just leave it be i no you cant help how you feel for someone and its hard to get over them but think about it anyways if its long distance hes not gunna b there for you 24/7 if u need to chat or f... (read in full...)
Why is everything so awkward between us all of a sudden?
Q. I have been talking to this girl for about 5 months now, and at first everything was great, I liked her, she liked me, but he everything became very awkward all of a sudden. I am still completely in love with her and i finally asked her how she ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey huni,
Maybe there is another guy or maybe she jus got scared and thought she was gettin to close to you wen she wasnt ready for a relationship i used to date guys n then when things got serious run for the hills, try askin her whats happend if i... (read in full...)
Which of the two guys I like should I go for? And how do I avoid getting my heart broken?
Q. I like two lads at the same time. I like a lad that lives a long way away from me and I also like a lad that lives in the town next to mine. I really like both of them and I don't know how to stop my heart out, cuz it will end up getting broken (...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey huni,
i cant exactly tell you who to choose just follow your heart and no matter who you go with in a relationship there is always a chance of gettin you heart broken doesnt matter who it is if u luv them theres a chance they could break your... (read in full...)
How do I maintain a long distance relationship?
Q. im in a long distance relationship with a man i am totally in love with (and when I say long distance im talking LONG distance we only get to see each other every 2 months) and since he is a guy its hard for him to not get any sex. He has tried to ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Huni,
I never think long distance relationships are going to work but im hoping u prove me wrong. i think that u should try n participate in the web cam stuff perhaps jus for his sake to make him happy relationships are about giv and take so s... (read in full...)
I have Post Abortion Syndrome, Im scared and dont know what to do!
Q. i have PAS. i have just been told that i have PAS which is post-abortion-syndrome and i am so scared. it just seems to get worse and my mother doesnt know about the abortion so i cant go to her. emotionally, i feel like im falling apart... ...
A. 15 June 2006: Hey Huni,
Its perfectly normal to be scared when in this situation,
do you not have the farther or a friend to talk to about this. can you really not tell your mother because all though she might b mad im sure that she'll be there for you cuz you ... (read in full...)
I ran & hid because I don't want to meet his mother! Is he now avoiding me?
Q. Ok so I am in the middle of this relationship and my BF lives in a different town, with his mom. He is not trusted with anything so his mom drives him to this town. But he wants me to meet her! They were driving around today and he pointed ...
A. 15 June 2006: Hey Huni, I think you should just apologise to your boyfriend and tell him that your just not ready to meet her, tell him that your scared and im sure that he'll reassure you that things will be fine i mean you cant just judge her when you havent s... (read in full...)
I fancy an older boy and I want him to notice me
Q. Theres a boy who I really fancy, but I'm 13 and he's 16 and shows no interest in me at all. I'm also too shy to approach him but I really want to get noticed by him somehow. How can I get him to notice me?...
A. 15 June 2006: Hey Huni You wouldnt really want to pretend to be something your not for a lad would you? Hes 16 and your 13 and you no what it is that most 16 year olds want these days and your too young for that and it'd be illeagel so i think you should try and ... (read in full...)
This girl is sending me mixed messages! Help!
Q. Hey Ii was just wondering if u could help me plzzzz Me and this girl have been friendly for about 5 months and the other month she txtd me saying she has has not got a bf and that she still wants to keep in touch with me cos she will miss me. Wh...
A. 15 June 2006: Hey Huni Sounds to me like shes keeping you hangin shes with this other lad and shes telling you hes the one so she obviously isnt feeling much for you sorry, it sounds to me like she wants to be friends with you and mayb that text was just to ... (read in full...)
I have a strange fetish, im now worried I wont find a like minded female.
Q. i have a dirty underwear fetish, not so much the smelling of dirty underwear which seems more common but nothing turns me on more than girlfriends wearing the same underwear for several days and nights on end. I have just split with the first and ...
A. 15 June 2006: Hey Huni, In my opinion not very likely sorry but girls like to be clean and hygeinic what your feeling isnt wrong its just a fettish but to be honest i dont think there are goin to be many girls like your last one because if people wear the same... (read in full...)
I really love my boyfriend, but I don't want to cut the other lad out completely!
Q. Hiya. I have a little problem: before I got with my boyfriend of 1 year, just before I got with him, I kissed another lad just casually. It happened on some occasions but we didn't take it further At this time my now boyfriend we were just kissing ...
A. 15 June 2006: Hey Huni, Well its really upto you in this situation do you think that your boyfriend will go mad if he knew u was textin and emailing this other lad? If he doesnt mind then theres no need to hide it. On the other hand if you think he'll flip its... (read in full...)
Torn between an older women and a girl my age!!
Q. Im 26 and for over a year was seeing a 40 yr old, who was seperated from her husband. They have a 10 yr old boy. She had been in a rotten marriage and we got on really well. However deep down i felt that in the long run the age gap was too big (she ...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Huni U definatly have alot running through your mind right now you should always follow your heart. I think you should definatly be with someone around you age if having a family later on in life is what you really want, i also do not see a re... (read in full...)
Will my personality affect my chances of a long-term relationship??
Q. I'm worried that my personality could affect me from having a long term relationship with a girl. I'll have to explain why. I must admit I hated high school. I was bullied for the entire 5 years I was there by the same person. He would make fun of m...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Huni This isnt something your going to easily forget but instead of thinking about it all the time try and focus on the good things that u have in life like your family, you have a roof over your head, you have friends, you get to eat everyday... (read in full...)
She's 17 and not ready for a relationship yet. I'm 21. Do I wait?
Q. Hi I've been on here before and I'm still confused. I'm 21. There is a girl who is constantly on my mind who I am very much in love with. On the phone and in texts she tells me she loves me too and sends loads of kisses and stuff. For e...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Huni
As im a 17 year old my self i guess i could help u here well at least try, ive bin with my first bf for a year n 3 months now n i felt exactly the same as the girl u like did i was like omg do i really want a bf im only 17 n if i fall in l... (read in full...)
I slept with a man I like from work, help!
Q. there is a guy i work with we have been flirting and emailing all day long.i bumped into him on a night out and we ended up sleeping together and had an amazing night.i really like the guy but i feel that now he doesnt want anything more to do with ...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey huni :)
i think the best way to sort this, as its not as easy to jus walk up and say "hey bout other night what u think" cuz thts jus way to scary lol is jus play it cool n pretend like it didnt happen for a while as much as u may like him he'l... (read in full...)
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