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anonymous
writes: I orgasm very quickly whenever me and boyfriend are fooling around. Any tips to stay in the game longer? I'm presuming this is not common among females.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (22 June 2006):
 I know the ticklish thing you describe, and i have to tell my man to stop... for a bit, lol well during foreplay sometimes anyway.. but after like 2 minutes you calm down a bit and carry on lol... I think im just greedy... But as Dr Psych describes, if you get to the build up then stop, start stop, its mindblowing.. my man does this alot for me as it totally enhances it but sometimes its just to tease me so that i beg him to let me have it lol!! Maybe have your orgasm then relax for a couple of minutes and then get your man to go again... if you do this a couple of times you kind of get used to it type thing and you can get turned on again and its much more fun!! Sometimes when its penetrative sex, I can let him carry on after a couple as it feels like a different kind of orgasm, and I often get multiples this way and its way stronger than the first orgasm... Thing is my man says he only has to look at me and I orgasm anyway lol So it doesnt matter how many I had that day the feeling doesnt die down, and it doesnt take longer in between, but then sometimes i just sooo cant be touched as its way too sensitive lol But try a couple of times relaxing in between and you will then be able to let yourself orgasm then carry on, etc..
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, all for the wonderful tips... now as enticing as multiple orgasms sound like, my only problem is that once i reached the top, it's hard for me to stay interested with the rest of the game... i get too ticklish, or too sensitive to be touched again... and so i try to have my boyfriend climax first then me... so......
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): i orgasm quickly as well but then i go for another one straight away.....once u martial the orgasm technique...u could have multiple...which is very satisfying. So i guess just like somebody else said before why stop after 1
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2006): Why stop at the first, try and see if you can have another.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (16 June 2006):
 It is common for women particularly in the hands of a good lover. However, what you should do is to wait for the build up before the orgasm (the tingling) is about to happen and get your BF to back off before he tips you over the edge, and you just have to tell him when to stop what he is doing and focus on another part of your anatomy for a while. It is the standard treatment for men who suffer premature ejaculation too, but it definitely works for women. If you do that a couple of times (the build up...)
, delay
the inevitable and the end result will be a mind-blowing orgasm that leaves you collapsed on the floor in need of gas and air :-)
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Hey huni,Why dont you try to climax your self a few hours before hand useing a toy or your fingers and then cuz youve already had one when you have sex later on it wont come as quickly. Good LuckHelen x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2006): Well about 2 years ago I was in the same situation as you. I always finished before my boyfriend did. But that was before we had a lot of sex. I would say have sex more often or at least just a lot of fore play & no sex.
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