What is my next step?
Q. I like this boy and i think he likes me coz he chose to sit next to me in two lessons and chose his locker next to mine and he always smiles at me and his friends are always telling me he likes me but a few weeks ago we had this convo: me:hi ...
A. 14 September 2010: Well,at that age,some boys are too shy and don't like being chased....i myself was like that when i was around your age,i would like you but due to shyness,i would never like talk about it. Try to be as natural as possible and let your friendship ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy suddenly ask his friend if she's on the pill?
Q. Its just a very quick question really but id appreciate answers all the same :) I was talking to one of my friends last night via text and we talking about a holiday we've just booked together with some other friends. We're both in our mid twent...
A. 11 September 2010: Well my dear,he is thinking of getting into your pants without rubbers once you go on that holiday.
According to the way he asked this question,he wants to have sex with you but would not want you to get pregnant.....have it and get away with it..... (read in full...)
Took pill, got sick, now pregnant?
Q. I'm worried im pregnant,made love a few times this month,was a day behind with my pill so last day took was weds rather than tues usually i get period on the friday but havent had it yet. the night after i had sex i went out got drunk and threw ...
A. 11 September 2010: Drinking too much can makes one throw up.
Rather than guess or assume you are pregnant,i suggest you take a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 10 September 2010: Where there is a mutual agreement,there is no say of one being used.
However if i tell you how much i love you in order to find my way into your pants and after getting into them and knowing you i tell you i don't need you or say it was all a farc... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 9 September 2010: She must have told you this because 1) You wanted to know and 2) Felt she could count on you to understand.
If you were to ask every woman you meet or date how many men they have been with,trust me,you would get sick to the stomach all the time... (read in full...)
I think I'm attractive but I don't get looked at or hit on!
Q. I have this strange issue. I feel that I am very attractive however, I think I must be the only one as I never get hit on, no one asks me out and no one stares at me in the street. Whenever, I walk into a room I don't even get a glance from one guy, ...
A. 9 September 2010: Sorry to hear that.
You did talk about your beauty but did not talk about the way you dress.
Could it be that the way you dress or the clothes that you wear do not bring out the beauty that you possess?
Try to change your wardrobe,look for s... (read in full...)
Daughter's breakup is effecting the entire family
Q. Please help my 16 year old daughter has just split up from her boyfriend. It was a serious relationship very quickly they were together 7 months she is devestated it is effecting the entire family what can i do?...
A. 9 September 2010: Poor girl.
I appreciate your concern as a parent and your readiness to help your 16 year old daughter to cope with the break up.
Be there for her and give her all the support she needs.
Also try to make her understand that love is not a bed of... (read in full...)
He found out I lied and now he won't respond
Q. I recently met this guy through mutual friends during a dinner. That same night he invited my friends and me to a party..that we decided to attend. Both me and this guy hit it off..we danced the night away, talking, getting to know each other, etc. ...
A. 9 September 2010: You did a very bad thing to lie and probably that made him lose trust in you.
If i were in his shoes,i would probably do the same thing because lies are not good.
A healthy relationship should be built on honesty trust and telling a lie doesn't ... (read in full...)
Dating a couple of months and want to marry soon. Rushing things?
Q. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a couple months. We are very much in love and we have great chemistry, both sexual and emotional. We have spent so much time together this summer, because we have lived together at his parents ...
A. 9 September 2010: Do not rush into things.
Since he is determined to complete his newly set goals,let him complete some of these....finish graduating from High School and getting a job first because marriage is a responsibility,to be a man,you have to be in a bett... (read in full...)
My 14 year old daughter is having sex with a 19 year old. How to handle this?
Q. i walked into my 14 year old step daughters room and found her having sex with her boyfriend who i later found out is 19 the age gap is really worryin me i dont think 14 year old girls would went to have sex do u think he couldve made her do it or ...
A. 9 September 2010: Well,it is us the big boys who talk the little girls into sex and sometimes it is not just the talk but we get them into compromising situations where there are only two people (boy and girl) and there will be little or no resistance.
Forbi... (read in full...)
Husband says I must accept that he has a small penis but I never have an orgasm during sex!
Q. hi every1.i have a problem with my husband when we make love he doesnt want to do foreplay unless i complain and if i do so he says i complain too much.for the past seven years of my marriage never had an orgasm the last time i had it it was with ...
A. 9 September 2010: Sorry to hear that. You husband should know that size has nothing to do with satisfying a woman rather what matters most is how he uses his tool.
It also seems to me that he isn't bothered about your needs and the problem at hand...after all he c... (read in full...)
Dad walked in on us having sex!
Q. last week when i fort my mum and step dad was asleep me and my boyfriend had sex but my step dad walked in on us and went mad and said that im too young to be having sex he didnt tell my mum but now his tryin to stop me seeing my bf how can i tell ...
A. 9 September 2010: You sure ain't a child no more but you and your boyfriend are acting like kids.
You can not have sex in your parent's house.
Say you are sorry and do not bring your boyfriend to have sex in your parent's house. Have some respect for them.
You... (read in full...)
Torn between my parents and my now ex boyfriend... help!
Q. ok i'm going through some seriouse hard times right now, i'm a muslim but i'm in love with a christian we, secretly dated each other for six months then i told my parents, before i told my parents i told my boyfreind that my parents were never going ...
A. 9 September 2010: It is very selfish of your parents to ask you to choose between them and your boyfriend.
I should also add that love is not about religion but rather mutual love,trust ,understanding and happiness.
We should not be marrying religion but rat... (read in full...)
How to ask a girl if she wants to be in a threesome?
Q. My girlfriend is very open-minded sexually and said that we could have a threesome if I wanted. I said I did but I didn't know how we could find a partner. Fast forward a couple weeks, I met a girl who was flirty and obviously into me. Invited...
A. 9 September 2010: Ask her out on a date and while out there,introduce the topic in a friendly manner,not intended towards her but rather as a story and see what she thinks of it. Ask her if she has ever tried that sort of thing...that is depending on her response to ... (read in full...)
He wants to give it another try!
Q. I was recently in a four year relationship and it ended and for good this time. I wasn't happy but 3 of the years I cheated with this one guy and everytime me and my ex split I ran to him cuz he made me feel good and I really care for him. My past ...
A. 8 September 2010: 3 years in a unhappy relationship and you broke up.
Before getting back together with him,look into the reasons why you two broke up,why you used to cheat with this other guy....do you think it is worth going back to a relationship where you were... (read in full...)
Is this question too personal? did I screw up and say something wrong?
Q. My personality is that I'm pretty open. I have no problems sharing information about myself because I have nothing to hide. Ask and I will answer. But not everyone is like this and I get that, but it's hard to remember what is and is not OK around ...
A. 8 September 2010: You did not screw up,i guess he does have personality issues.
However since you still want to see him,try talking to him and find out if he was upset with your question and if he was,say you are sorry since you will lose nothing.
You are now gett... (read in full...)
Am I just a huge fool???
Q. My husband and I have been married for 10 years. During this time he has done horrible things to me from abusing me sexually, beating me, and causing us to loose everything we own twice. This didn't happen until 3 years into our marriage after he ...
A. 7 September 2010: If this guy is addicted to crap and won't treat you like a lady,yells at you then are are slowly committing suicide.
Before you know it,he will get violent and you end up with some really bad scars not only on your heart but your body as well... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to go over there and meet this guy?
Q. I'm 17, 18 in a few months, I have been talking to this guy in Washington since around April, he is 20. Anyway he wants me to come over to see him, hes in college and drinks a lot he says, my life is pretty bad at home right now and I see it as the ...
A. 7 September 2010: I think he has given you all the signals that he wants you for only one thing so you better think twice before catching that flight to Washington.
Even if he offers to pay for your flights,that is not going to take away the problems you are havi... (read in full...)
Magic Number - 5 too many?
Q. I told a close (male) friend of mine my magic number the other day (5). He seemed to think it was pretty high. I can account for these: 1. first time 2. 3 yr relationship 3. short relationship 4. 1 night stand 5. current relationship. I hav...
A. 7 September 2010: For someone that is self righteous,5 is high and for an open minded person,the number doesn't matter because in most cases it is not the way you want things to be but that is how life goes.
Men/guys are very jealous in nature and can not stand th... (read in full...)
Help!!! What can I say to ask her out?
Q. I met a girl at a house party 2 weeks ago, we got on really well but I never got her number. However I managed to be added by her on facebook (she even sent me a message before I could). I want to ask her out but I don't kow how to when the only way...
A. 7 September 2010: The fact that you are chat mates on facebook means that she is comfortable talking to you,so i would suggest you ask for her number or make a suggestion through the chat that you would like to meet her over a cup of coffee or a milk shake.
But b... (read in full...)
I wasn't there for my friend and the guilt is consuming me
Q. So my friend was coerced into having sex a couple of months ago and I only found out about it today. When I did, it was probably the angriest I've ever been in my life. Though we're not going out, I tried to think of a way to help her, but I guess ...
A. 7 September 2010: Do you believe in fate?
How about destiny?
What happened to your friend was destined to happen,that is how her destiny was designed and in that design,you were put at the end where you had to learn about it months after it had happened.
... (read in full...)
Should I allow this to happen or throw in the towel and start all over?
Q. I have been married for 14 years. In the beginning my husband was in jail and I cheated on him right after we were married. I did tell him because he asked. He knew about my infedelity early and before we had children. We stayed together and I ...
A. 7 September 2010: Before packing your bags and walking out of your marital home,please talk to him about it,try to get him to tell you the truth and if it is true he has been getting head from someone else other than his wife,then you can decide the next course of ... (read in full...)
Sex goes from once a day to once a week. Why?
Q. Hey all. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and we were best friends before that so we match perfectly. But since the end of the 1st year the sex has decreased from several times everyday to once a week. I have asked her why an...
A. 7 September 2010: My brother,you do have quite a problem there.
I would say she is not sexually attracted to you as much as she might still be emotionality attracted to you.
When you bought the vibrator,little did you know it would take your place in bed and sinc... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted, and find out he's seeing another girl
Q. My ex boyfriend sent me a text sayin that he misses me and that he loves me so i went to see him he told me he wanted to get back together so i ended up staying with him for the night and we had sex now i really wish we hadnt because the next ...
A. 7 September 2010: What he did was really bad and unethical.
He did use you and waste your time as well.
It also looks like you can not trust yourself around him,so i would suggest as much as you love him,if he ever asks to get back together again,avoid meeting ... (read in full...)
In love with my best mate...
Q. hi im in love with my best mate, weve been friends for 3 years now i wood do anything for him im gay and hes confused i fink , once ive got to know him hes told me he had a relashionship with a guy before thats the only one hes been in others w...
A. 6 September 2010: Boy oh boy,he sure does have you right where he wants you to be. Could he be talking about the girls just to see your reaction?
Try talking to him about how you feel when he keeps talking about the girls.
If he really feels for you,he shoul... (read in full...)
I made out with a guy I'm trying to get over!
Q. I made a big mistake yesterday, I made out with a guy I was trying to get over, I realize that he was recording me on his fone then he lied saying he was just texting. He then said to me that his friend wants me too, I said I'm not that type of ...
A. 6 September 2010: He doesn't deserve your love because he is disrespectful and very very selfish.
Do not waste your time and precious love on him because he is not going to reciprocate it and judging by his actions,he is trying to send you a message/signal that he d... (read in full...)
Problems in my relationships....
Q. Am a 23 yr old female who is having problems in my relationship. one is that i have never come during all my sexual encouters with the few guys i have slept with. two is that i feel kind of confused coz i have two guys right now and currently am ...
A. 2 September 2010: Am sorry to hear you have never come during all your sexual encounters.
Could it be that you are not emotionally ready for the encounters every time or the guys you have been having the encounters with are only after satisfying themselves sexu... (read in full...)
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