Punishing myself for the sake of my daughter
Q. should i give it a try? i am a divorcee mother w one kid. marriage failure was due to family violence and unreasonable behaviour. as i was e one who initiated the divorce, i feel sorry for my kid extremely. i jus wanna shower her w lots of l...
A. 28 May 2010: OK, who use violence and unreasonable behabior?, you or your ex.
If it was you, you need proffesional help.
If it was your ex, yo have nothing to feel guilty for. Anyway you better go to a psycology.... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't want to be FWB but isn't that what we are??
Q. How do I figure this girl out, before I start I have to say that I am a typical young bloke who is very open and honest. I am very attracted to a girl I work with and we have worked together for about 4 years, we flirt all the time, I was stra...
A. 29 April 2010: OK, you keep enjoying what you have now, you end it up or you take the next step and became her boyfriend. It is like a test drive, they will allow you to feel the car, to drive it a little but you can not take it home for a nice ride unless you buy ... (read in full...)
20 year age gap in a relationship..thoughts?
Q. I'm 21 and he is 44. We have been dating for 3 years. We went to tell my parents together about a year after we first started dating but I got mixed signals from my parents on the subject so I decided to wait until I was 21 to tell them. We'r...
A. 23 April 2010: If you are happy, go on. I don't like those gaps because time runs different on every decade of life. Yo'll find that you will want to do or to live things and experiences that are on his past.... (read in full...)
How do I approach this guy before my best friend steals him?!
Q. Every morning when i leave the house and walk to my bus stop, a guy passes me and i see him everyday! i think he's gorgeous and we smile at each other all the time! I told my best friend about him yesterday and she said she knows him a little and ...
A. 23 April 2010: Just say hello, can you help me with... Do you know where it is... anything to start a nice chat.
If thing are meant to be, the destiny will take charge.
I think you should reevaluate your friendship with her, friend are to help and support... (read in full...)
Perfect relationship apart from the forced celibacy!
Q. My GF and I have been together for six years, I love her so much she is my best friend and I am hers. We do everything together, joke around around, travel, camp, hike, nights out in the city, you name it we do it. Everyone who knows us says that we ...
A. 23 April 2010: Well, maybe you have became friends almost family. If it is true... Keep friendship and break with her in order to find another woman that feels sexually attracted to you. You can also look for a nice mistress (an affair), so you can keep having a ... (read in full...)
Should I be direct? Or not so direct?
Q. When I ask a woman out in the future, should I use plain language or fancy language? Is it best to be direct, and simply say "Do you want to go out with me on a date?" Or can it make things awkward if I am too direct? What is the best way ...
A. 23 April 2010: Well is different in every case but being direct usually is much better. But, remember to be polite and a fine gentleman.
To ask her for a date, be direct but romantic. If you do well, please don´t be rude asking for sex, just let the romance ... (read in full...)
If a guy goes that far with you on a first date, what does it mean?
Q. ok, so i met this guy and we talked and flirted for about a week. then we were hanging out and he asked if he could kiss me....i said yes and we started to kiss. it was great at first but then he started touching me everywhere and he asked me to ...
A. 15 March 2010: It means that you need to learn how to choose men. If you are not a fast mover and a sexually aggressive girl, you must check out the kind of signals you are sending, the kind of guys you are attracted to.... (read in full...)
14 and may be pregnant. What should I do?
Q. I'm 14 and just lost my virginity one week ago. My boyfriend and I didn't use a condom. I was suppose to have my period this week but it hasn't came yet. Is this normal or may I be pregnant? I don't think he cum inside me but I'm not sure because it ...
A. 15 March 2010: Dear, maybe is just that you are nervous. You can buy a pregnancy test at any drugstore, read the instructions.
If you are not, learn more about sex. You can ask your doctor, your sisters, your mom. Next time, please use condom it may save your live... (read in full...)
He wants me to be honest with him, but when I am he goes mental!
Q. My boyfriend always tells me to talk to him and be honest, but whenever I am honest with him about something he's done to upset me, he goes mental. He doesn't hit me or anything, but he just argues constantly with me when all i want to do is get i...
A. 15 March 2010: why women have such an attraction for the wrong guys. Dear, I think you deserve more than it. Leave that MF and get someone who respects and cares about you.... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend?
Q. Got a phone call from a friend of mine who was terribly upset. I asked her what was going on and this is what she said. She told me that the man she has been involved with for several years had his 5oth birthday this past weekend. So being t...
A. 15 March 2010: Wait till he shows up, may be has a good reason. Did he knew that she has planned something special?.... (read in full...)
Why do I think about him sexually all the time?
Q. ive been single for 14months now.. and all the guys that have come my way just waned sex.. and of course i said no (they all disappeared) cos i want relationship+sex not just sex. ive meet this guy hes really sweet and sexy and he thinks a...
A. 16 February 2010: Humm, go out to a romantic night with him, take some wine, dance a lot and let the magic of the moment to take care of the business.... (read in full...)
I cant help but feel like I got myself into another horrible situation way too soon
Q. I don't even know where to begin... but I am in need of advice... Back in June I had left my fiance of 3years because I didn't feel he was the one for me, and he was becoming overly possessive and controlling, to the point where I would get "punishe...
A. 16 February 2010: First thanks good you have a good instinct, it is always wise. I do not understand why you like the wrong men, there are a lot of god men out there why you look for the controlling psycho and them just jump to the junky one?. Make yourself some ... (read in full...)
I want to keep working as an exotic dancer but my boyfriend wants me to stop, what should I do?
Q. Hi all ..thanks for some help , Im working as an exotic dancer in a rather nice club , I love my job and really enjoy turning on the guys and feeling them wanting me so badly . But I began dating this guy I met there ( I know , I know ...
A. 12 February 2010: If you buy a cow, you get a cow. If you buy a car, you get a car. He knew what was your work and he knew that you like that job, so he shouldn't be trying to change what you are.
Well many men have a fantasy. To rescue a lady on trouble, He might... (read in full...)
Why does monogamy exist? What's the use?
Q. Why does monogamy exist? I don't get it. A lot of people - men and women - cheat. I've not been cheated on, but I see it happen often. It's often been said humans are not monogamous by nature, and I guess it's true. I get that people need love and ...
A. 11 February 2010: I think is has a relation with evolution, natural and social.
This is a great topic for discussion.
I think it has evolved as a strategy of the weaker ancestors. As the can not fight with the stronger males, the became opportunist, They helped ... (read in full...)
My sisters breasts are bigger than mine, will he choose her over me?
Q. Hi, I am with a man, and I love him and he loves me deeply. But he is very, very sexual. He watches porn all the time and he basically has one of the highest sex drives knows to man. Well, I have this insecurity. I have really small brea...
A. 11 February 2010: Unless you are willing to live on a Harem or into a long time threesome. You should look for a better man. Boyfriends come and go, sister is forever and she is the one who will always be there for you.
Is odd that he need to look porn all the time... (read in full...)
How can I make all these feelings fade away?
Q. well i am 16 and i have this huge crush on this boy he is in the same class with me we became friends for a littel bit but we're not that close we hung out together a lot this days i can't hold it i feel like i am going to explose with my hidden ...
A. 11 February 2010: Tell him what you feel. Maybe he is as afraid as you to say it.
option one, he also loves you. Happiness.
option two. he is not interested, at least you tried and you can still being friends (after a time for recovery)
I think option one ha... (read in full...)
Will the court take my kids away from me just for smoking pot?
Q. Hi there...I smoke weed and have 3 kids...I don't smoke around them and they don't know that I do it. My ex-husband knows that I have always smoked weed and now that I pushed for child support, he started calling DCF on me...twice in the last 6 ...
A. 11 February 2010: Yes, the court can take the kids from you. A drugaddict aint considered a good parent or a role model for the future generations.
You think you can control it and that you can leave it anytime you want. It is false, on the streets I've seen a l... (read in full...)
Is it wise to leave my 28 years old fiance for a 53 years old man?
Q. It's about 5 years already that I'm just attracted to older men.I can not be with young guys for too long.I find them boring,unreliable,hard to deal with... but because of my mum who is so angry at me for loving an older man that she just saw his ...
A. 11 February 2010: Well first you should get professional help. I think it is called elektra complex, the feminine version of Edipo.
If you do not love your boyfriend, do not fool him and do not allow others to mess in your heart. So, do not harm this guy just to ... (read in full...)
When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?
Q. I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...
A. 8 February 2010: No, maybe she really forgot you were there. The fact is that maybe she sees you as a brother and have no fear of you.
My advice, call her before you go to her house. Be always a respectful gentleman.... (read in full...)
My friend has a problem child, what can she do?
Q. My friend has an 18 year old son who's living at home with her and her new husband. Her son's father is a waste of space. He dropped out of college without telling her and then got a job for about six weeks then walked out. Since then he's...
A. 8 February 2010: What would have happened if I had make something like that to my parents??? well, my parents wouldn't have allow me to keep living with them if I have drop out school. So I would have face a therapy session with doctor belt. After graduation i too... (read in full...)
What can I say to get rid of him?
Q. I am dating a guy but he is one year junior than me that actually doesnt matter to me but the thing is that I no longer wanna date with him. Seriously I am fed up being in love with him. I have already betrayed him once but now I am not getting ...
A. 8 February 2010: Just say: My dear, I no longer loves you. I don`t want to keep on this relation but I would love to keep our friendship. Believe me, This hurts me a lot and I will always remember you with love, but I just don't love you that way anymore. I'll ... (read in full...)
3 months married and I feel I've made a BIG mistake!!!
Q. Reposted with an update: We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before th...
A. 8 February 2010: I do not understand, you have been living together for more than 3 years and you haven`t notice those little issues?
Dear, wouldn't it has been cheaper to make a play of a fairy tale weeding, so you can fulfill your fantasy?
Men do not ch... (read in full...)
Got back with my ex because I thought he'd changed... but he hasn't!
Q. Me and a guy have been together for like a year. We met at a party and got totally involved in each other although he was in a relationship with someone else but he told me he would break up with her and that he doesn't contact her anymore.. ...
A. 8 February 2010: My dear child, look into the mirror and say I should not be too naive the next time, I wont let the people to take advantage of me so easily.
First, We men use the Tarzan’s strategy, we don't loose a line until we have the next one well grabbed.... (read in full...)
I found condoms in my BF's car, but we don't use them!
Q. I need help!! I just found condoms in my b/f car. Thing is we dont usaully use condoms. (well we dont)The last time we had sex we did but just because my b.c was acting up but it is a diff brand that we used, then the ones I found. I have neve...
A. 5 February 2010: Take a needle and use it on them, cut him the services for a month and ... No, better ask him what are those for. If there is reasonable explanation give him a chance. Might be from a friend, very old stuff, a promotion, a gift (promoti... (read in full...)
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