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I found condoms in my BF's car, but we don't use them!

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Question - (5 February 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2010)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I need help!! I just found condoms in my b/f car. Thing is we dont usaully use condoms. (well we dont)The last time we had sex we did but just because my b.c was acting up but it is a diff brand that we used, then the ones I found.

I have never seen the ones he has in his car. And why are they in his car hidden?

What should I do, we have some trust issues fromt he past. I dont know what to do. Please help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010):

Same thing has just happened to me but they were under the wardrobe, and its my husband. He flat out denies he put them there, but we've only lived here since 2008, and the expiry date on them is in 2014, that would make a shelf life 6 years? Most brands i've seen they say 2-5 years.

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A female reader, superwoman021 United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2010):

i think in that case you should defenitly confront him about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010):

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They expire in 11/ 2013 they are not old.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010):

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I drive the car too sometimes it seems stupid to hide them there. They werent in a box but just 3 by themselves but again i never seen them b4.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2010):

Chances are he is cheating, and that's why he was acting up last time around and has hidden condoms in the car. Get yourself checked for STD's.

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A female reader, superwoman021 United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2010):

i think it would be best to confront him about it, and see what he has to say, but it does sound fishy, i would get yourself checked out though, but in the end its down to you, good luck

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A male reader, escribanus New Zealand +, writes (5 February 2010):

escribanus agony auntTake a needle and use it on them, cut him the services for a month and ...

No, better ask him what are those for. If there is reasonable explanation give him a chance. Might be from a friend, very old stuff, a promotion, a gift (promotion)... in the worst way thanks god he cares about you and protects you by protecting himself.

if there is no reasonable explanation, you can make an scene and just finish it. He deserves it for being such an ass

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