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How do I help my friend?

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Question - (15 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2010)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Got a phone call from a friend of mine who was terribly upset.

I asked her what was going on and this is what she said.

She told me that the man she has been involved with for several years had his 5oth birthday this past weekend.

So being the person that she is wanted to do something extra nice for him. So she went and made dinner reservations at a restuarant that he knew he liked to go to and bought him a very nice gift and a card.

Seems pretty harmless so far doesn't it. When emailed her and told her that he would be coming by she anticipated his arrival and then never showed up.

This woman is so devastated she doesn't even know which way is up.

The sad part about this whole thing is that he knows he messed up by not coming to see her when he said he would and that my girlfriend is highly upset with him. That it will only be a matter of time before he contacts her aagain with some sob story and knowing her she'll forgive him and resume program.

Can someone help me with any suggestion on how to help my friend?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010):

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He knew that she had something planned and made her feel like she committed a crime by doing nice for him.

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A male reader, escribanus New Zealand +, writes (15 March 2010):

escribanus agony auntWait till he shows up, may be has a good reason.

Did he knew that she has planned something special?.

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