How do I get out of this abusive situation?
Q. ok so ive been with my boyfriend for about 18 months. we have a 6 week old daughter together. he has: called me every name you could imagine - slut, whore, bitch, skank.. etc. has compared me to his ex girlfriend stating how she was so much more...
A. 13 October 2009: dissappear. make any arrangements you need to ahead of time. Have a letter to tho police ready to drop off at the police stations, both where you are and wherever you will go. put clothing and food away where you will be able to grab it on a... (read in full...)
How can I match her homecoming outfit?
Q. My date to homecoming has a completely white was, 100%. So what color do I make everything, like my tie/wrist flower thing....
A. 13 October 2009: black suit, worsted wool or heavy silk twill. double breasted, six button (two button closure). Peaked lapels and side vents. Two pleat slacks with cuffs, half break. Polished black loafers with nickel silver buckles. Champagne shirt, egyptian ... (read in full...)
Why did he break his silence? Why is he pretending nothing ever happened?
Q. I met someone quite frankly five years ago. And from that day I have always liked him. It wasn't a strong feeling, but I was attracted to him and have been attracted to him from that first day. Throughout that time that I have seen him in scho...
A. 13 October 2009: It is often very difficult for us as humans (and especially those of us who happen to be male) to own up to the damage we have caused in past relations with someone whom we actually bear no ill will. It is embarrassing, akward, and uncomfortabl... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!
Q. I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...
A. 12 October 2009: No, no, no,no, and again I say NO!!!
I can cerytianly accept the truth of the matter that this guy is being a compete ad total prick over the whole ordel. However, for the record I would like to make one thing very clear.
If you divorce, and... (read in full...)
What should I believe? I'm disgusted and don't know if he's cheated...
Q. I recently found an email conversation between my boyfriend and another Guy that was very sexual. He told this Guy where we live and told him to meet him in the 24hr gym to have sex. My boyfriend says he never went but a follow up email from the ...
A. 9 October 2009: For the most part I have to agree with Topaz. The word again is absoloutely damning. Hard, undeniable evidence no matter which way you slice it. Personally, I think the porn is harmless, byt he is WAY out of line letting strangers from the internet ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!
Q. I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...
A. 9 October 2009: WOAHHH!!!! Hold the press!!
I will be the FIRST person to admit, aknowldge, and agree that the abortion decision is certainly, in the final analysis her decision to make.
But I wonder at all of the quick husband bashing hitting the streets here... (read in full...)
Why can't my wife and I simply be alone?
Q. my wife and i have been together for 6 years now. ever since we've been together either her sister, her brother, or her mother is living with us. we've been by ourselves for 5 months out of the 6 years of our relationship. her mother is 41 and she ...
A. 9 October 2009: I remember your previous post, and I am beginning to have a question for you... Is your wife a first generation immigrant? Perhapse from an asian country? This sort of familial obligation is not normal for this westernized culture, but that is not ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether he's a perv or maybe he likes me?
Q. Well, today in the morning an old friend of mine came by to help me with math and I thought it was very kind of him to do so. In fact I learned a lot from him, but somehow we ended up slacking off. Then all of a sudden he pops a random question to ...
A. 9 October 2009: OK... Two things -
First, he's a guy. That makes him a perv by default. Don't hold it against him, that's just the way guys are. It seems as though, however, he has enough of a grip over it that he hasn't stepped over any hard lines. Soft one... (read in full...)
How can I acheive an orgasm?
Q. I am a young woman, and a lesbian, and I've never had an orgasm. I have tried with both just myself, my partner, and even with a vibrator to see if clitoral stimulation would work, but I get no pleasurable feelings from it, it only feels weird, in a ...
A. 8 October 2009: I would suggest taking this slowly. If you are having trouble orgasming, it is likely, in my (albeit, from a male perspective, based on those women who were candid enough to have this conversation) experience because of one of a few predictable, but ... (read in full...)
I have had a bad past. Should I tell him about it?
Q. I have been in love with this guy for about four months. We agreed to have ourselves tested for sexually transmitted diseases. I have been diagnosed with two curable sexually transmitted diseases, though I have never had any symptoms. I am not ...
A. 7 October 2009: Relationships must be built on a foundation of hinesty, trust, and respect. Without these cornerstones, the relationship cannot stand.
A lie of omission is still a lie.
The fact is that each of us has skeletons in our closets, and those skelet... (read in full...)
His 'jokes' keep striking a nerve - what do I say?
Q. Last night, my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone. I said hold on, and when I came back, I made my voice deeper to sound like a guy on purpose. We laughed it off, and he said, "Oh yea, like I'll fall for that." I kept going along, "Yes, can't ...
A. 7 October 2009: I would suggest a few thoughts. First, it is likely that he doesn't know you fel insecure about the size of your chest, or if he does, he doesn't understand the depth of that feeling. Knowing that, if you brought up "manly features" in a joking way, ... (read in full...)
I feel stupid for letting it get so bad, we have to fix this or we break up
Q. I'm not really used to this whole blogging your feelings thing but here it goes: -takes deep breath- I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I truly do love him. He is honest(tactless but honest nonetheless), a great provider, and sh...
A. 6 October 2009: Run, hone, run. Don't think, don't hesitate, and don't explain. DO NOT LET THIS MAN BACK INTO YOUR LIFE for ANY reason. people who treat one another like this are as worthless as they try and make other feel. You are better than that. There is no ... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin her marriage but I cant help the feelings I have for her!
Q. Ok so i am completely in love with this girl that i have been best friends with since high school. We never really got the chance to date because every time i was single she was dating someone. Every time she was single i was dating someone. I went ...
A. 6 October 2009: If you respected her even a little, you would lock those feelings and thoughts you are having up in a little box, and toos them into the deepest darkest hole you can find, then melt the key!
She gathered her firends and loved ones around her, all... (read in full...)
Was I too forward and ruined things?
Q. Hello Some advice needed men/women!! I need to know if i have been too forward and ruined things???? Ok i met this guy and we would bump into eachother a lot! he would always come over to speak to me, he would stop what he was doing to come and talk...
A. 6 October 2009: Do you want to have a physical fling, or a romance... You need to figure this out for yourself before you ask him to know!
Flirting is all fine and good, but I think far too many young en and women mistake vulgarity for flirting these days. Th... (read in full...)
Dreams of cheating on my boyfriend
Q. I keep having dreams about cheating on my boyfriend. Whether it's just kissing, or going all the way, it seems to be happening at least twice a week...and with different people! Every time I have a dream like this I wake up feeling physically sick. ...
A. 6 October 2009: Vivid dreams are not unusual during pregancy, and if these are the worst you're getting, I would say to consider yourself thus blessed!
Dreams are a way of our subconcious minds woring through things that we in our waking day either don't have tim... (read in full...)
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