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I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what...

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Question - (14 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what and I just wanted to know if it contains sperm or if it's a lubricant, also, why does this happen, we weren't even doing anything, I was just sitting on his lap.

Any advice would be great, thanks. xxx

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (15 September 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntIf you were just sitting on his lap and he got aroused with precum flow, two things are happening. 1. He's horny and ready to go 2. he's diggin you a lot. Wear protection if you want to avoid an unwanted pregnancy.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (15 September 2007):

Sandman agony auntWell, on the streets it's called "precum". It's fluid that is secreted in preparation for semen to follow behind (urine kills sperm so it is believed that this fluid acts as a washer to rid the urine from the urethra so that sperm can pass thru unharmed).

There is widespread debate on whether or not precum contains sperm or not. Some say yes and some say no. When in doubt, don't have sex until you're married.

Precum is usually secreted when the male is aroused in some way. The act of you sitting on his lap was arousing to him, which is why his body began to prepare itself for ejaculation (or so it thought. This process is driven by hormones).

Precum is pretty slick, so it's possible that it's properties make it useful as a lubricant. However, most males don't produce enough to qualify it as a lubricant of choice. It is believed that while having sex the precum mixes with the vaginal fluids to aid in a very slick, well lubricated environment. Again, just theory.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007):

That is called pre cum and yes it is possible that could get pregnant from it.

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A female reader, Emajayne Canada +, writes (15 September 2007):

Emajayne agony auntit is just a pre-ejaculate, its getting ready and ambitious. guys can get boners because of a fierce breeze or the shrill sound of anything. im not sure if it contains sperm or if its jsut clearing the way for a larger explosion. thats something to ask a doctore about. its nothing out of the ordinary.

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A female reader, 88jane United Kingdom +, writes (15 September 2007):

88jane agony auntthis is pre-cum produced by the penis during sexual excitement and yes it does contain sperm! you can get pregnant from this so ensure you use protection! it does act as a lubricant! the fact that you were sitting on his lap is enough to produce this substance, if he is turned on by you then this is perfectly natural and normal! i wouldnt worry at all hun! just ensure you use protection and have fun!

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