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Well, I think I have a pretty keen understanding of myself and I love helping other people b/c of it. Honestly, today the value of emotions and feelings are deeply under-appreciated.

I always used to really hate John Mayer but actually he is a pretty intelligent, thoughtful guy and not just a tool with a lot of female fans (though it is true that he DOES have a lot of ladies lusting after him). He also had a tv show. the man is a god.

I am studying to become an artist. I love laughing, music, movies, art, beauty, realness, and sincerity. I'm pretty easy-going overall. If you want to talk about ANYTHING feel free to message me!

We're broken up yet still act as a couple...and I can't take this uncertainty anymore!

Q.   My ex and I have been broken up since March. We still act as if we are a couple. We talk everyday, hang out, speak on the phone, say I love you and still are 100%faithful to one another. However, there has been alot of ups and downs and uncertai...

A.   17 May 2008: Honey, I still stand by my previous answer. YOu are being dragged around like a yo-yo and being hurt in the process. It might feel good to be with him again for a while but then he goes and makes you feel shitty all over again - that can't be good, ... (read in full...)

Help! I need somebody!- Do you think he's sending signals or not???

Q.   (this is a combination of several of my replies to other users before I had my own account....now it's a question) I've known my english teacher for 2 years, last year when we would talk in passing and then this year when he was finally my teach...

A.   15 May 2008: Deema....that's not all either...i'll message you and tell you the whole story because it's kind of lengthy.... (read in full...)

I'm trying to write the music to a song that my bff wrote, but it's not very good and I don't want to hurt her feelings!

Q.   Okay my bff wrote a song and she wants me to create the music to it. Im a pretty good musician but i can't make the music to it! My dad is a really good musician too and he can't make the music. the song isn't good at all. I've thought about asking ...

A.   15 May 2008: Darling you are about 10-12. This may seem like one of the most important things to you right now but seriously don't worry about it. If you can't do it you can't do it. I know when me and my friends were younger we spent all of our time making up ... (read in full...)

Im 16 and not sure if my teacher is flirting with me or not!!?

Q.   hey guys.. so i'm sixteen years old and I'm confused about the way that a teacher of mine has been acting. I cannot decipher if the way he stares at me in the hallways is flirting or what. He was my teacher last yr and I did have a lot of problems...

A.   15 May 2008: everybody says that this is so taboo, and a relationship with both a married man and a teacher is definitely taboo, but at that point i disagree. there's really nothing wrong with HARMLESS flirting without sexual connotations or anything ... (read in full...)

Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...

Q.   Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...

A.   15 May 2008: The things you mentioned don't sound AT ALL like flirting...sorry to break it to you. It just sounds like he is being the kind, caring individual that you admire in him. don't read too much into what he does. but if you think he really does start se... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   15 May 2008: i've noticed that peoplewho ask questions about teacher-student relationships (yes this is including me) already know the answers to their own questions. they usually are also aware that the relationship is wrong, which for many probably just makes ... (read in full...)

Was my teacher flirting with me?

Q.   could teachers hit on you and flirt with you? i had this in the past and they were female teachers i had had. they would touch me on the shoulders, arms, wrists, hands, etc. one of them tried to get very close body contact with me and mostly they ...

A.   15 May 2008: it's definitely not sexual harassment or even a sign that they are attracted if they touch your arms, hands, shoulders, wrists, etc. A lot of teachers do that to emphasize their points or to make it feel like they are more personally talking to you. ... (read in full...)

Do I have boundary issues with my teacher?

Q.   Hi, would appreciate some advice please :-) In your opinion is it morally wrong to be very close friends with your teacher? He is male and around 40, Im 16 and female, and I will admit that I do have romantic feelings for him. However, Ive acc...

A.   15 May 2008: also, i wanted to add that if you think he is sending you signals that is wrong. one huge glaring signal i see is that he freely gives up so much time to be with you. however nice this may be, he is still indicating through his actions that he would ... (read in full...)

We're broken up yet still act as a couple...and I can't take this uncertainty anymore!

Q.   My ex and I have been broken up since March. We still act as if we are a couple. We talk everyday, hang out, speak on the phone, say I love you and still are 100%faithful to one another. However, there has been alot of ups and downs and uncertai...

A.   14 May 2008: You are at the point of issuing him an ultimatum. He is playing games with you. Both of you probably know that on some level you are different and don't work, but at the same time you both want to be together. Are the positives about him better than ... (read in full...)

I kissed my best friend and now I feel awkward

Q.   Okay i need bit of advice. baically i been like best friends with this guy for most of my life. We both swim for the same club and have always been very close, in the wa we would have sleepovers together and nothing ever thought of it. but yeah ...

A.   14 May 2008: Well I can't really speculate what will happen since you haven't seen him yet. Update once you see him tomorrow. As for how to act tomorrow, if you are unsure about it then I would just act as normally as possible. Gauge your actions around h... (read in full...)

Everything about my boyfriend annoys me, but I still really care about him.

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now, and lately it seems like everything he does annoys me. I get annoyed by the way he drives, when he doesn't listen to me, when he lies to me, and even when we are cuddling he annoys me. I really like ...

A.   14 May 2008: I was in this almost exact same situation - my boyfriend asked me out and I liked him because he was intelligent, nice and funny and of course I was flattered that he liked me. Even during the 'honeymoon period' a lot of things about him annoyed me. ... (read in full...)

Should I try to contact him?

Q.   Ok, sorry if this is long! I met this guy back in january this year when he was building my neighbours kitchen. I asked him for his number and we spoke everyday after he finished work and he wudnt leave my road until about 7 each night (finished ...

A.   14 May 2008: then if you are only 16-17 i don't really see much of a problem with it. ask yourself some questions first though... would it be acceptable to your family, your values, and your situation to start seeing a guy who you only know because he worke... (read in full...)

Desperate for Answers!

Q.   I'm facing huge dilema, although it may not seem so huge to some, but I can't figure out how to get over it. It all started out as innocent fling/crush type of thing. My friends and I were always talking about how great our teacher is, an...

A.   14 May 2008: dear, i definitely know where you're coming from. I too am 'in love' with my teacher and i know EXACTLY what it's like to see that person every day and having the same reaction inside as you would to any other crush, and also having an extra, ... (read in full...)

Why do so many teenage girls have a thing for their male teachers?

Q.   Why do so many teenage girls on this site have a thing for their male teachers? There are so many posts from teenage girls who say they are in love with their male teachers. Some of these teachers are 20 or more years older than these girls, so it ...

A.   14 May 2008: british_grl's answer hit the nail on the head. they are older men in whom we see everything that we want to see in guys our age - their wisdom and maturity allows for them to understand us and our problems and they want the best for us - who DOES... (read in full...)

Should I try to contact him?

Q.   Ok, sorry if this is long! I met this guy back in january this year when he was building my neighbours kitchen. I asked him for his number and we spoke everyday after he finished work and he wudnt leave my road until about 7 each night (finished ...

A.   14 May 2008: how old is he??! if he is a young guy (highschool/college) on a summer job or part time then i would say sure, try calling the company, but if he seems like an older guy then leave it alone! you are young and at least over here in the US anyt... (read in full...)

Help! I need somebody!- Do you think he's sending signals or not???

Q.   (this is a combination of several of my replies to other users before I had my own account....now it's a question) I've known my english teacher for 2 years, last year when we would talk in passing and then this year when he was finally my teach...

A.   14 May 2008: update!!! this is major (to me=) but i just checked my grades on the book report online and i got a 100%! i'll have to wait until tomorrow to see his comments about what i said....i'll update then. either way this is exciting because my grade just ... (read in full...)

Help! I need somebody!- Do you think he's sending signals or not???

Q.   (this is a combination of several of my replies to other users before I had my own account....now it's a question) I've known my english teacher for 2 years, last year when we would talk in passing and then this year when he was finally my teach...

A.   14 May 2008: Thanks for all the wonderful and thoughtful answers so far! Once i saw how long my post was in comparison to a lot of other ones on here I was worried no one would reply. So after reading the replies, they all kind of have the same message, and it ... (read in full...)

Do I have boundary issues with my teacher?

Q.   Hi, would appreciate some advice please :-) In your opinion is it morally wrong to be very close friends with your teacher? He is male and around 40, Im 16 and female, and I will admit that I do have romantic feelings for him. However, Ive acc...

A.   13 May 2008: Do you have boundary issues? Yes and no... First of all, it seems like there are some problems here because you clearly are spending too much time with each other and not enough with people of your own age and type - he neglects the teacher ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if he likes me for my body ...what do I do?!?

Q.   Ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for about almost a full 4 months and we kiss and stuff but to be honost he has almost no sexual interest. He will put his arms around me but he wont touch me or anything. I mean jsut last week we were at my house ...

A.   13 May 2008: I wouldn't be so quick to assume that it is your problem.. Maybe he does not find you physically attractive..I doubt this is the case though. More likely is that he's just inexperienced or shy around women. Even some guys who seem like they w... (read in full...)

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