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*mzy1591
writes:Ok, sorry if this is long!I met this guy back in january this year when he was building my neighbours kitchen. I asked him for his number and we spoke everyday after he finished work and he wudnt leave my road until about 7 each night (finished work at 4.30). After he'd finished the kitchen completely he did come back the next week but only for one day. That night i said to him "I think u better go" as everyone (four of us about- me my friend and my younger sister) was getting really boystrous and i could see an accident with a car happening. I meant by this come back tomorrow night when we are alone and we can chat etc but he never came back.Recently ive been thinking about him quite alot and debating whether it would be a good idea to get back into contact with him. I could do this by asking my neighbour if she had the number for the company that installed her kitchen and track him down that way. Would it be a good idea or should i just leave it completely and find someone else?
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reader, dreamingwithabrokenheart  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 then if you are only 16-17 i don't really see much of a problem with it.
ask yourself some questions first though...
would it be acceptable to your family, your values, and your situation to start seeing a guy who you only know because he worked on your house?
is he nice / funny / attractive enough to make this worthwhile pursuing?
are there other guys at your school or in your circle of friends that you would be better off pursuing than a random guy who worked on your neighbor's house?
if he ends up totally not liking you that way once you call him will you be embarrassed and regret doing it?
think about those things and then use your best judgment! Good luck!!!
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (14 May 2008):
Emzy1591 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hes 19, so theres 3 years between us. x
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reader, dreamingwithabrokenheart +, writes (14 May 2008):
how old is he??!
if he is a young guy (highschool/college) on a summer job or part time then i would say sure, try calling the company, but if he seems like an older guy then leave it alone! you are young and at least over here in the US anything with a minor is illegal.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (14 May 2008):
 How old is this guy??? If he is your age or close track him down and give him a chance. if he is a LOT older he may have jusy enjoyed the attention x x
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (13 May 2008):
 I think that guys should chase after the girls, not the girl going after the guy. If he were interested, he would have asked you for your number.
If I were you, I would leave it alone. There are plenty of guys out there. Let THEM be the pursuers.
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reader, LittleMissInfo +, writes (13 May 2008):
 Hiya,From what you have said it is obvious that he has misunderstood what you meant, and didn't come back or get back in contact because his Ego was probably a little damaged.If you really like this guy, and would like to get back in touch with him - what have you got to lose? Be prepared for some explaining to do, but hopefully it will work out, and he will have been thinking about you too.If you don't have his number anymore, get in touch with his work and ask for him - this will, if nothing, flatter him, which will compensate for the little mishap.I hope it all works outLittleMissInfox
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