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He doesn't love me but I want him back. How can I do this?
Q. i was wit my bf 4 6 months, he told me he wants to single n dosent love me anymore but i really want him back,he still texts me and i know i could make him want me again,but how????please write back to tell me wat i should do n say wen i c him,guide ...
A. 23 October 2006: iam sorry hun but i dont think there is anything you can do to make him come back think about this would you really want him back knowing he dont love you it may be he needs some space from you i think him txting you is wrong as this is giving you ... (read in full...)
I really try to make this relationship work is it really worth it??
Q. I really dunno y this keep happening to me.i try to make this relationship work , i work really hard i have never ever complained but he never seem to understand me.is it really worth it? if he leaves me i have literally no where to go and he knows ...
A. 22 October 2006: dont stay with cus you got no were to go wat you need to do is realy think what you want and if you do decide its over you have to tell him as the longer you leave it the worse it will get may be he might let you stay at his till you find somwere or ... (read in full...)
I think this guy who likes me, may be an abusive cheater type! What do you think?
Q. Is the guy I'm kind of talking to abusive and a cheater? He started talking to me in the spring while he still had a girlfriend, (he soon broke up with her) and then I broke it off because I didn't feel ready for another relationship since I was on ...
A. 22 October 2006: id get to know him first see what he is really like cus this girl who told you those things abt him may well be lyeing as she might not want him to be with anyone else give him a chance and see how things go good luck... (read in full...)
What do I do if my mother won't let me see my boyfriend anymore???
Q. What do I do if my mother wont let me see my boyfriend anymore?...
A. 22 October 2006: how old are you and why wornt she let y6ou see him? if you are under 16 than i think she is doing this to protect you as she may think you are to young but if your over 16 there isnt a lot she can do to stop you seeing him ... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom. How do I get closure?
Q. My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom.I am having a hard time dealing with this since I have to see them both. I don't want him back, but I don't want my mom to have him either.I am jealous that mom is in a relationship. Recently, I've begun ...
A. 22 October 2006: why an earth do you wana have sex with this man if he wanted you he would not be with your mum i understand it hurts you to see um together but having sex with him is not right neither do i agree with what ure mum as done he will be getting a kick ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to date a someone 8 years older than you?
Q. is it okay to date a someone 8 years older than you?...
A. 22 October 2006: depends on how old you are? but if youe over 16 than its fine when i was 17 i dated a bloke 6years older than me
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I'm 23 he's 35 but I can't tell my parents as they will think he is too old for me!!
Q. Hi I have started seeing a guy i am 23 and he is 35, the age difference does not bother us but i can't tell my mum and dad as i know that they will think that he is too old for me! We are mad about either and we have been for over year and we...
A. 22 October 2006: i agree with wat people have said you are both adults you go for it with this bloke if he makes you happy and you both love each other that is all that matters but tell your parents about him and how old he is and see what happens cus at the end of ... (read in full...)
Anything wrong with a 20yr old dating a 16 year old ??
Q. Is there anything wrong with a 20 year-old dating someone who is 16 or 17 years old? Some people say the minimum age to date some with a 3+ age gap is 16, while others say it is 18? I live in the United States and this is confusing me....
A. 22 October 2006: yes it is rember it is just a number ... (read in full...)
I broke his heart because of what people thought. I still love him, but he won't get back with me.
Q. i broke up with my ex because what people thought and i broke his heart, i still love him and he still has feelings for me but doesn't want to get back with me. does he still love me and will we get back together? i love him so much it hur...
A. 22 October 2006: what does it matter what other people think at the end of the day if we all thought like this we would prob all be single there are 2 people in a realtionship so that is all that maters do you think these people who say what there say would ditch ... (read in full...)
I woke up in the middle of the night to find him texting his ex girlfriend!!
Q. My name is Amanda and I just left my husband after 9 1/2 years.I was talking to another man but wasn't having anything sexual with him intill me an my husband split up.I am growing closer to this man.He is going threw alot2,he just left his ...
A. 22 October 2006: you need to sit down and talk to him tell him how you feel and that it hurts you to see him txt is ex he probs feel hurt by what she as done to him and his trying to get answers from her but you have to sort this out he either wants you and as to ... (read in full...)
Will he come back after walking out on me???
Q. Is it most likely for my ex boyfriend to come back wanting me after he walked out on me?...
A. 22 October 2006: depends on why he left you have you tried talking to him that would be a start but if he as left you for some one else he prob wornt come back best of luck ... (read in full...)
I'm eating loads but losing weight and my hair is falling out more than normal!!!
Q. I need help.. I have no idea what to do... I have notice that I have lost a lot of weight even though I'm still eating lots? My hair is also falling out- more than normal... but I'm only 17 years of age... what’s going? I'm scared! xx ...
A. 22 October 2006: go see your doctor as this could be down to many of things like a iron problem good luck... (read in full...)
How can I get his parents to change thier opinion of me!??
Q. My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be ...
A. 29 September 2006: you are dating your bf not is mum and dad all that matters is you love him and wana be with him most parents dont like there childrens partners rember the more you let it get to you the more there are winning good luck... (read in full...)
Do I have any parental responsibility ?
Q. my first child was born one month before me and my ex wife got married(1994), we have been divorced since jan 2006. do i have parental responsibility?....
A. 28 September 2006: you have to go to a solitor and than to the court if ure ex agress to wat u want than its stright forward but if she dont allw you this you have to go through the courts and let them decide my ex was awarded this a few months bk it took a year ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test said negative but is it accurate?
Q. Ok i havent had my period for 3 weeks now and i took a pregnancy test but it said I'm not pregnant. But i feel like i am. Do the tests mess up sometimes or is it accurate?...
A. 28 August 2006: go see ure doctor get them to do a test for you if it still comes back negative and still no baby ask for a blood test this hapend to my sister in the end the bt showed she was pregnant ... (read in full...)
Married 23 years and hubby wants a threesome! Should I do it?
Q. Ive been married for 23 years and now my husband wants to have sex with me and another girl he says he would like to watch us suck each others pussy and then have sex with each as the other helps should I or should this be a no no ...
A. 16 August 2006: is this just u husbands fantasy or is there something deeper in his mind best thing to do is ask him straight out why he wants to do it and if he give u a good reason then if u feel comfatable with this then do it. But if u are not ok with the idea ... (read in full...)
How do I learn to trust?
Q. Hi there, How do i learn to trust so my new relationship does not suffer? About the relationship- we were together for 2 1/2 years, we had planned are wedding and trying for a babt, i found out he was gay and it had all been lies. He slept with...
A. 4 August 2006: you will find this very hard your ex must hv really hurt you a lot and its only normal for you to feel like you do and checking up on ure new bf id talk to him tell him how you feel i know its not easy iam in the same boat as you but talking to him ... (read in full...)
To shave or not to shave...now THAT is the question!
Q. Do men prefer a shaved woman or not?...
A. 4 August 2006: yer a lot of men like it wth no hair there i do mine and iam sure iam not the only one
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How to do sex
Q. im a virgin so i dunno what to actually do with my bf. what should i do when im having sex with him?...
A. 4 August 2006: just go with the flow it all comes natrual but please make sure you are ready to have sex... (read in full...)
How can I make understand my husband that it's over?
Q. I just quite can´t reach him by talking to him. After 10 years of marriage I want to move on, to be alone! I feel trapped and stuck with him. I have been thinking about leave him years ago, but maybe in my soul I don´t want to break his heart. He ...
A. 2 August 2006: if you dont want to be with him than leave him talk to him tell him how you feel and tell him if he does love you and wants you to be happy than he will let you go ... (read in full...)
I broke up with *her*, but the idea of her seeing someone else is killing me!
Q. I split up with my partner of 8 years three months ago. We have a 6 year old daughter together and she has 2 other kids from a previous relationship who still come out with me every Sunday. She has just told me she has started seeing someone else ...
A. 2 August 2006: this takes time its harder cus kids are involed so there is always that bond between you try picking kids up from one of her family members or she drops um off at one of your familys homes.dont drell on it get yourself out meet someone else i dont ... (read in full...)
What do people think about meeting someone online?
Q. I just want to know some people's opinions on meeting up with someone you met online. I know sometimes it's dengerous meeting someone you only know online. We've been e-mailing back and forth for a few weeks, he lives in my town, and he has not ...
A. 2 August 2006: go for it i met my new bloke on a dating site i felt the same as you but once you get there you will be fine but make sure you meet him were there are plenty of pp about cus there are some nutters out there but iam sure evything will be ok best of ... (read in full...)
I need to hide a hickey from my parents, so they don't know where I've been!
Q. hi... I really need help and fast. I spent the weekend with my boyfriend. My parents don't know about it and if they had ever found out that I would be in so much trouble. I got away with them not finding out that I was with him. The only thing th...
A. 31 July 2006: try make up or toothpaste than put makeup over it but the best thing to do is be honest wth your parents if you are aged 16 or over than there isnt a lot there can say but ull gain there trust if you tell um ... (read in full...)
Im having an affair with a younger guy for 3 months, not sure if he wants something more permanent ?
Q. i'm having a affair with a guy slighty younger than me,neither of us are married but live with our partners,my relationship is on the rocks not to sure about his.only if he was happy at home whats he doing out with me.he's started asking me what i'm ...
A. 30 July 2006: talk to him tell him how you feel juat go ahead and ask him what you wana find out maybe he does want more but is to scared to tell you incase you end it i would find out and than go from there... (read in full...)
He tells woman in chatrooms that he loves them and has now joined a dating site!!!
Q. Hi, I really need some advice! I am 44, I have been with my fella for 5 years now (he is also 44) and in that time he has told several women in chatrooms that he loves them! Thats bad enough and hurts a lot, but now I've found out that hes joined an ...
A. 29 July 2006: talk to him and tell him that you are not happy with him joining a dating site and telling other woman he loves um is wrong if after you talk to him if it still carrys on than you mite be best taking the internet away i know this seems wrong but if ... (read in full...)
Ive been with my guy for 2 months, I know hes not the one but hes head over heels what do I do!?
Q. hi please help im having problems falling for my boyfriend....ive been with him 2 months now, and hes a lovely lad. he'd do anything for me even if he went out of his own way to please me he would, he deseves the world.....hes that head over heals ...
A. 29 July 2006: hi i would try and talk to him tell him that you are finding it hard to fall for him and that you wana ewnd the realtion ship cus if you dont the longer it goes on the harder it will get to leave him and your family id just tell um that your not ... (read in full...)
We broke up 2 months ago, he said he could never look at anyone as his gf, but hes got someone new, how can I deal with this!!!
Q. Hi Ppl. Myself and my ex bf broke up on the 9th of june which is almost two months ago now and I still have not got over him. We were together for almost a year and were engaged (he proposed. Now we have broken up and his friend introduced him to ...
A. 28 July 2006: making yourself ill wont bring him bk all yo can do is move on i know it is hard but every one gets a broken heart at somee point in there life i know it hurts to think of him wth her but the best way to get over him is to stop all contact wth him ... (read in full...)
We had a trouble with the "Doggy position" anyone got any tips!?
Q. recently me and my boyfriend decided that we wanted to try the doggy style position, but for some reason we couldnt get it in. we laughed it off n put it down to the fact there is almost a foot difference between our heights. does anyone have any ...
A. 27 July 2006: well you could put a pillow under your knees that will help u or bend over something iam show u will wrk it out
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I met a nice guy a month ago, he now tells me he cant father children, I want children so should I end it ?
Q. Met a nice guy but a month into the relationship he tells me he can't father children due to medical reasons. I'm not sure whether to continue the relationship, am i being selfish? I would love my own children....
A. 27 July 2006: hi this is a hard one i can only say i have been in the same boat i would say think wat you really want there is a lot of help ure bf can get i can understand wat you are feeling i met a bloke he told me he cunt hv kids but i stayed wth him as i ... (read in full...)
Wanted: a virgin female I can lose my virginity to. Where are all the decent girls?
Q. i want 2 meet a virgin lady i say lady cause 95% of the girls i meet drink, smoke and go out every weekend and get pissed. And that just aint me i 19 but very mature for my age and,i'm one of thoes people who can pass for older, and when i do meet a ...
A. 27 July 2006: this is silly this u carnt be that despret to have sex belive me you wornt feel good afterwoods you should wait till you meet the rite person and than have sex wth someone you like not just any tom/dick and harry ... (read in full...)
He was interested for 3 weeks but now he isn't
Q. is it normal for someone to act like they really like a person and then just a few days later stop? I've been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks and everything was really good and then all of a sudden he got weird. I have this feeling like he met ...
A. 27 July 2006: first id talk to him as 3 weeks isnt a real long time maybe he did like you at first but as the weeks have past hes relised he dosent i would ask him what he wants and if you do belive that hes met somone else also ask him that... (read in full...)
She's lazy
Q. my girlfriend is lazy. and doesn't think so. what should i do about it? i can't her to clean up. what should i do about it?...
A. 26 July 2006: hi you have to tell her that you think she should do more around the house i have a friend like that but if ure girlfriend wornt do the hosework than dont you eithe she will soon start doing something
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My girlfriend broke it off because she's afraid to fall in love, but I want her back!
Q. Hi, I'm really confused at this point in time. My GF and I suddenly had a bad patch in our relationship. We broke up because she is afraid to fall in love and get hurt again, from previous experience. I felt as though there was a real connecti...
A. 26 July 2006: hi sorry to hear you broke up all i can say is life goes on i know its hard to ecxept that its over wen you still love that person i have been there and its not nice but friends is beter than nothing and maybe in time she will want you back you will ... (read in full...)
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