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I woke up in the middle of the night to find him texting his ex girlfriend!!

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Question - (22 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2007)
A female , *mandabrv writes:

My name is Amanda and I just left my husband after 9 1/2 years.I was talking to another man but wasn't having anything sexual with him intill me an my husband split up.I am growing closer to this man.He is going threw alot2,he just left his girlfriend.She got pregnant by another man.He made love to me and held me alnight long.I came back the following weekend and he ignored me,I went to bed wake up in the middle of the night to him texting his ex.I said something the following morning and he said he was fighting with her(at 4 o'clock in the morning)I told him if he wanted her just tell me and he said No!I am so confused he is sending me mixed feelings.I don't know what to do?Should I leave him alone?I told him I am falling for him and he told me he felt the same.Am I just worried or what?I have nothing he can use me for but sex and he didn't seem that interested in sex,He wants to hold me and kiss me.But why ignore me the other night??

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntIt sounds like this guy still has a lot of baggage with his ex and maybe you should give your relationship with him a bit of space. Him texting his ex at 4am is a little annoying and I can see why you are a little suspicious.

Talk to him about how this is making you feel, especially the 4am texting. I would be asking him why he couldn't have left it until the morning.

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A female reader, DEBS83 United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2006):

DEBS83 agony auntyou need to sit down and talk to him tell him how you feel and that it hurts you to see him txt is ex he probs feel hurt by what she as done to him and his trying to get answers from her but you have to sort this out he either wants you and as to stop txting her goodluck

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