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writes:Hi I have started seeing a guy i am 23 and he is 35, the age difference does not bother us but i can't tell my mum and dad as i know that they will think that he is too old for me! We are mad about either and we have been for over year and we only got together a couple of weeks ago! My mum and dad think that he is only 33. I don't what to do as we both love each other!Please can someone help! Reply to this Question
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (22 October 2006):
 i agree with wat people have said you are both adults you go for it with this bloke if he makes you happy and you both love each other that is all that matters but tell your parents about him and how old he is and see what happens cus at the end of the day there just want to see you happy so tell um you are good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): I have been in your spot. At first, everything seems great, but as the relationship progresses, you WILL notice things that bother you. Things like when you will go places with his friends, you will be the youngest one there, and it will be awkward. If you do decide to end things, you will be hurt--but being hurt for a while is better then being a 25 yr. old divorced woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006): woman, you are a 23 year old woman. now do you consider yourself smart and matured ? if your answer is yes, you don't need help. you are NOT a 19 year old teenager nor a 13 year old girl. i don't understand what your problems are ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): If he treats you right and your parents can see that he does then over time i really cant see them having a problem with his age.They already think he is 33 so thats only 2 years less then his real age.I think they would have more of a problem with keeping the truth from them.
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reader, Cool Cucumber +, writes (16 October 2006):
 You are an adult he is an adult...where is the harm in that? It's not that big an age gap, your parents should cut you some slack, you're 23 not 13!!! Be honest with them and just say that you have fallen in love with him, surley you are old enough to fall in love eh? Don't lie to your parents about seeing him and your feelings, as they won't think much of you for doing that. Just have a sit down and chat to them expalining that what you feel for this guy is real, and if you are making a mistake then you just have to figure that out for yourself, without your parents interfering!
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reader, Zanders +, writes (16 October 2006):
 If you two have only recently got together I would let the dust settle a bit.a couple of years here and there really doesnt make that much of a difference on his age.let some time pass see how it all works itself out and if its serious then as the saying goes - cross that bridge and tell your parents.
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