My boyfriend thinks my sex drive is too high!
Q. I am a 21 year old girl and my boyfriend is 24. For the last few years I have masturbated almost daily and when I got into this relationship my sex drive has remained really high and my boyfriend comments on it a lot. He never complains in the ...
A. 9 March 2009: Yes it does sound like you have a high sex drive but it also sounds like your boyfriend has a low one. He might be feeling inadequate because he isn't a match for you.... (read in full...)
Stuck in an awkward platonic relationship. Is there hope for us becoming more than friends?
Q. Hi everyone, I am having some problems with a male friend. It is a platonic relationship, but there is definitely chemistry... The way this began... I moved to a new neighborhood in NY in August and, within a couple of weeks, became friendly ...
A. 7 March 2009: Well maybe he isn't seeing your hints. He probably just remembers that awkward moment so thinks you don't want to. Kissing him might be a stronger hint.... (read in full...)
I have worked so hard on it, then we broke up. When do I give it to her?
Q. Recently my girlfriend and I broke up on good terms. During our relationship we both made strong commitments about love and the future. About a week later after the break, we were hanging out and everything went really sour. The reason is that the ...
A. 7 March 2009: It sounds like now would be a bad time to give her the book. She has asked for distance and giving her a gift like that is heading in the opposite direction.
You need to think hard about what the gift will say. To me it says look how good we were ... (read in full...)
I feel too shy with girls.
Q. Hi, i am shy relating to ladies. I feel sexually active like any other man. I also even imagine having sex with girls whom i am sexually attracted to. I have never had a girlfriend just because of my shyness to girls. There is a girl in our college ...
A. 3 March 2009: You are young and starting out so they way you are feeling is perfectly fine. You just need to try and get past your shyness. Maybe not aim for sex, but just to talk to girls so you get more comfortable with that to start with.
If it is just the... (read in full...)
Easy positions for spooning
Q. i have a 5.5 inch penis and i cant spoon very well. are there any easier positions??...
A. 3 March 2009: I could be wrong but isn't spooning more about being close to and holding each other? What I know as spooning has nothing to do with the penis.... (read in full...)
Black and love white boys
Q. i'm "black" and i love white boys but they don't seem to like me all the time.i'm not a "gettho girl" at all.HONESTLY i act "white".Is it because i'm black? i don't really know can you help me?is it because i act white but not purposely.and i refuse...
A. 3 March 2009: Everyone looks for different things in a boyfriend or girlfriend. You just need to keep looking until you find a guy whose desires match your own.
Don't take it too personally. Just remember other people have what they find attractive just lik... (read in full...)
Father of my child wants nothing to do with his son!
Q. Well I met this guy off the net and we dated on and off for about 11 months or so. We even lived together for about 4 months and at the ending of the realationship i became pregnant. He already has 2 kids and had stated on several occasions he ...
A. 3 March 2009: Your reaction not to get married seems very sensible as from the sounds of it neither of you really wanted to get married, it was just his answer to being pregnant.
I do wonder though, why did you say he would never meet your mother? It seems a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me!
Q. My boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me! We've been dating for a few months. Things have been moving pretty quickly as far as emotions go. But we have yet to have sex because I'm not ready. He has no problem with waiting. But when he spends ...
A. 27 February 2009: No you shouldn't be worried at all. I can totally understand where he is coming from - you're not ready for sex and he respects that but sleeping beside you might be a tad painful for him. It can be torturous to sleep next to someone you strongly ... (read in full...)
No sex after 8 months?
Q. hy is he waiting for us to have sex after 8 months of seeing each other? Could someone please give me some insight on this?...
A. 27 February 2009: Don't put all the load onto the guy! If you're just sitting back waiting for him to make the first move and it isn't happening perhaps you should make the first move. If that isn't the case the best way to find out is ask him. Could be a host of ... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny men?
Q. I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 22, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little...
A. 27 February 2009: In general... no such thing! Everyone is different. You could gain weight and then some women might find you less attractive.... (read in full...)
Are these signs of being homosexual?
Q. Is being attracted to attractive transexual or transgendered people a sign of homosexuality? A friend of mine has transexual porn at his home. And well a few of us checked it out and the 'ladies' were attractive except for the fact that some o...
A. 27 February 2009: Well no, because the way you put it, you would be getting aroused by the feminine aspects of the person who to the eye looks like a woman. Getting aroused by what looks like a woman would make you quite the opposite of gay!
You really don't ne... (read in full...)
Tied up again
Q. hi anuty,last few days I feel like a prisoneer...2 days ago my girlfriend got me drunk,seduced me into sex and then handcuffed me to her bed at her place..slowly she began to remove my trousers and...then all of a sudden she whipped me with my belt ...
A. 27 February 2009: That is bordering on criminal. You don't tie people up and just leave them. Take this as an insight into the sort of person she is. It isn't a loving or caring thing to do - it is a punishing and controlling thing. Bondage is one thing, but leavi... (read in full...)
On penis size, debunking the myths
Q. Usually, it's women who have worries about our appearance. We usually wonder if this is too big, if this is too small, too short, too tall, etc. We usually get the same answer: "It's the inside that counts". And it's true, albeit hard to believe. I ...
A. 27 February 2009: Hey good on you for posting this as there are a lot of questions on here about guys doubting their size for no logical reason.... (read in full...)
I never seem to please her in bed as I get tired, help!
Q. i dont know what to do with my girlfriend anymore!!! i mean in bed i never seem to please her!! i have a 6 3/4 inch penis its below average i beleive .. but thats not the deal when we have sex i do all i can to make her reach an orgasm and she ...
A. 27 February 2009: For starters stop looking down on yourself and your ability. 6 3/4 inches for penis size is probably a tad above average. Making her orgasm twice is great. Did you ever think maybe she only wants more because you are doing everything right and she ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?
Q. im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?...
A. 27 February 2009: Well as a teengaer that is perfectly normal, but to save yourself big problems it might be best to just tough it out and wait a few more years.... (read in full...)
He says maybe when he has lost some weight we will have sex again!? I don't understand him.
Q. I have been with my boyfrined for 2 years now. Since september last year he has been acting strange and we havent been sleeping together. We have has sex 4 times since then. He isnt cheating on me i know that for sure because i am always with him.He ...
A. 27 February 2009: It sounds like he has gained weight and is having self confidence issues. He probably still feels like sex (hence the porn) but doesn't want to as he feels unattractive and embarassed about his body.
If the weight is that big a deal to him then... (read in full...)
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