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I am a 36 y/o single male. I have extensive life experience and have taken a course in Christian Counselling which I passed.I am also internet savvy and am Editor In Chief of a popular blog.

I take an active in interest in gaming, tv, films, politics and theology and sport. I enjoy helping people as much as I can.

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Is my boyfriend saying I'm not that attractive to be hit on?

Q.   I would say I'm okay looking, when I'm done up I think I can look quite hot. Anyways I get hit on by guys on the way to work quite often, yesterday I had two guys actually approach me. One was when I was sitting on the bench and the guy said, can I ...

A.   22 June 2016: It is totally human nature to look at someone when they are talking to you - in fact, I think its good manners and looking away is kind of rude to be honest. You didnt do anything wrong and while you think you did this will just niggle away at you ... (read in full...)

If this relationship is dead how do I leave?

Q.   Hello, I am struggling with my relationship of four years. I feel like I don't love my boyfriend anymore. He is 23 amd I am 20. The first two years I was im love with him and he was with me. But as I get older, I realize that I probably won't have a ...

A.   22 June 2016: This is less a relationship and more a prison. Your right, it is over because for whatever reason you are at the end of your tether - you should end it now because if you dont this feeling will just fester and things will get worse. You say y... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend saying I'm not that attractive to be hit on?

Q.   I would say I'm okay looking, when I'm done up I think I can look quite hot. Anyways I get hit on by guys on the way to work quite often, yesterday I had two guys actually approach me. One was when I was sitting on the bench and the guy said, can I ...

A.   22 June 2016: If I may be so bold then I think the real issue here is mutual insecurity and a lack of trust on both sides. I dont think this comment is the real issue and I would willing to wager that there are others. He's insecure clearly from what you have ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend saying I'm not that attractive to be hit on?

Q.   I would say I'm okay looking, when I'm done up I think I can look quite hot. Anyways I get hit on by guys on the way to work quite often, yesterday I had two guys actually approach me. One was when I was sitting on the bench and the guy said, can I ...

A.   21 June 2016: I'd listen to him and except his preference then to be honest. I can kinda empathise with your position because your dammed if you do and dammed if you dont. You may think your being honest and doing the right thing by telling him but if he is ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend saying I'm not that attractive to be hit on?

Q.   I would say I'm okay looking, when I'm done up I think I can look quite hot. Anyways I get hit on by guys on the way to work quite often, yesterday I had two guys actually approach me. One was when I was sitting on the bench and the guy said, can I ...

A.   21 June 2016: Well what underpins what your boyfriends comments are jealousy and insecurity which are never the prettiest emotions. He doesnt want you to have the attentions of other guys and is kind of accusing you of encouraging it by implication - he's ... (read in full...)

Marriage in turmoil and I don't know what to do

Q.   Something is not right with my marriage. I am scared and I have no idea what it is. We’re both fiercely loyal and I have no fears regarding infidelity. That’s a given. But something has and is changing. Its as if there has been some sort of dro...

A.   21 June 2016: On one level I find this a bit hard to answer because we dont have much concrete. So, as a follow-up I would start by asking you to give a concrete example of something that has changed, something that has led to you feeling this way, something that ... (read in full...)

Feeling really depressed that I have never been asked out. How should I approach this problem?

Q.   I get really depressed because I have never been asked out despite putting myself out there. I volunteer, I also work in retail. No guys like me and I see other girls who are always asked out and hit on but I am always left out. I am 5'6 and w...

A.   21 June 2016: WiseOwlE certainly has a point. One of the reasons could be frustration and desperation and that showing through. I dont think you have low self-esteem though. I think your just wanting something and its not happening and that is frustrating you. ... (read in full...)

The kisses stopped but have we?

Q.   Hi guys! I started chatting to a girl on Tinder a week ago, just 2 days later, we went on a date. it went really well, none stop talking and laughing. when I got home she messaged saying thanks for a fun afternoon. I asked if she'd like to go out ...

A.   20 June 2016: I would be extrmely weary of reading too much into this. Kisses on text messages or social media messages mean the sum total of zip - so she put them and now she hasnt. Be careful of being hypersensative here, its understandable, you obviously have ... (read in full...)

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