I had sex saturday night and the condom split.
Q. I had sex saturday night and the condom split. I took the morning after pill on the sunday morning then sunday night had sex and the condom split again! what should i do ?...
A. 27 October 2008:
It's not necessarily size, it's more about shape. Some manufacturers (notably Durex) seem to think that the penis is a perfectly cylindrical organ.
Mates tend to be slightly better, in that the width varies in a more accommodating manner. ... (read in full...)
He loves me but he is not passionate about me.
Q. I have been with this guy for a year and two month. I am completely in love with him. We have had a great relationship from the beginning and there have been no problems. We are open, communicative and the relationship itself is really healthy. He ...
A. 27 October 2008:
I'd caution against the attitude of 'youth = passion', the girlfriend that I was with before the one I just finished with did arouse this type of feeling in me. I know it's a cliche, but I really did feel like I was 16 again, even though I was 30. ... (read in full...)
I had sex saturday night and the condom split.
Q. I had sex saturday night and the condom split. I took the morning after pill on the sunday morning then sunday night had sex and the condom split again! what should i do ?...
A. 27 October 2008: Get some better condoms!
I had this problem a couple of times, and I also had the problem that I used to 'droop' when I put a condom on because it was painfully tight. I used to get a purple ring around the base of my penis where the ring part had... (read in full...)
He loves me but he is not passionate about me.
Q. I have been with this guy for a year and two month. I am completely in love with him. We have had a great relationship from the beginning and there have been no problems. We are open, communicative and the relationship itself is really healthy. He ...
A. 27 October 2008:
I just got out of a relationship like this.
The girl I was with was pretty much perfect, but I too didn't have that 'spark' with her. I even used the the phrase that on paper she was everything I could want in a girl, just like your guy did.
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Will he call me after second date?
Q. After coming out of a 5 year relationship, I have finally given dating a try to start afresh. I recently met a guy on a dating website and we got chatting and found out we shared a lot of things in common. We chatted via email everyday for three we...
A. 27 October 2008:
I think you're right that you are over analysing.
Maybe he's a bit busier now than before? I know I sometimes go for days without contacting someone, but then contact them a lot for another few days.
Maybe he felt that he had to keep the dial... (read in full...)
Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting?
Q. Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting or is it just something few women are born with?...
A. 27 October 2008:
I'm still not sure that I believe the whole 'squirting' thing.
I've had it happen a good few times with a good few girls, and it has invariably been pee.
There's no mistaking the taste of pee!... (read in full...)
I'm scared of shouting out my demands in bed.
Q. This may seem stupid, but I'm afraid of shouting out any demands in bed. Sometimes I feel like saying this or that, but I hold back cause I'm afraid he'll look at me like I'm stupid and suddenly stop. I do this in all situations to begin with ...
A. 26 October 2008:
It depends on him really, but I (and I suspect most men) would probably be delighted if you did this.
Most guys think it's very sexy when girls talk dirty, and it will also take the guesswork out of it for him.
He'll feel good because he'll kn... (read in full...)
He has a lot of girls who are friends, and there are plenty of girls who like him so why me? Or maybe not...I can't figure him out.
Q. He always smiles when he's around me. He teases me a lot, but in a nice way. He comes up to me and talks to me now, which he never used to do (or at least not as often - I usually had to start the conversation). But I'm still unsure if he likes ...
A. 25 October 2008:
Sounds to me like he likes you, and why shouldn't he?
He knows lots of girls, but there is something about you that makes him like you more than them. It could be anything, he probably doesn't even know himself, but something about you has attr... (read in full...)
Are East Indian girls typically "tighter" than white women?
Q. I am a white female, height 5'7", weight 115 lbs., dating a white man whose last girlfriend was East Indian. He has not slept with anyone since her, and, since my last boyfriend told me that the (East) Asian girls he had slept with were "tighter" ...
A. 25 October 2008: I've only had sex with one east indian girl, and she was 'about average'. I know that doesn't help much!
I've conducted a sizable clinical trial on this subject over the years (although strictly on an amateur basis) and I have found no correlat... (read in full...)
Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?
Q. Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...
A. 25 October 2008:
Because beneath all of our 'sophistication', we are still cave people.
When a man plays with boobs, what he's really doing is checking to see if the female that he is about to mate with has healthy mammary glands with which to feed their offspr... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 25 October 2008:
I trim mine to about 10mm, but I've only shaved them once when I had a tattoo there.
The itching drove me mad, and I'll never do it again!
Also, our genitals look ridiculous enough as it is, mine looked like the last chicken in the store when I... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he understand that I don't desire sex?
Q. How do I make my husband understand that my desire in sex just isn't what it used to be? When we met quite a few years ago the sex was absolutely great! We practically had sex every day and I even looked forward to it. I must mention here that I am ...
A. 25 October 2008:
I feel sorry for him too, he is in a position in which he will either have to come to terms with never having sex again, or losing/ cheating on the woman he loves, neither of which I expect he wants to do.
I really hope that you get HRT or somet... (read in full...)
Dilemma! I can't get him out of my mind and I'm married now...
Q. I have been married for almost 2 1/2 years and things have gone relatively well. We have a baby boy that just turned one. I dated another gentlemen before I got married for 3 years and it didn't work out. However I have thought about him every day ...
A. 24 October 2008:
Sorry Fade, I disagree.
While you are correct in that we choose how to react to our feelings, the initial 'spark' is entirely subconscious and involuntary.
It's true that this lady is probably indulging her thoughts, which I admit I am g... (read in full...)
How can I make my husband feel more attracted to me?
Q. This has happened thrice to me now. My husband shows interest in having sex before I put our son to bed and later when I go take a shower (I always do b4 having sex) and come back all ready for him, he is already sleeping or is just about to ...
A. 24 October 2008:
Nothing I guess, just a bit bland.
Why wash away all the pheromones? They're there for a reason.
There's a roaring trade in used underwear on the internet. Do you think that the guys who buy these items pop them straight in the washing machi... (read in full...)
How can I make my husband feel more attracted to me?
Q. This has happened thrice to me now. My husband shows interest in having sex before I put our son to bed and later when I go take a shower (I always do b4 having sex) and come back all ready for him, he is already sleeping or is just about to ...
A. 24 October 2008:
I used to have a girlfriend that insisted on having a shower before sex. We used to start kissing etc, but as soon as things started to hot up, she'd go and have a shower!
She'd come back into the bedroom, but by that time, I'd have lost momentum... (read in full...)
I'm friends with a guy that I adore...
Q. I'm friends with this guy I adore. His friends say that he likes me but is too shy but his friends constantly hit on me and one even grabbed my behind! Last week they tried to get him to talk to me but he wouldn't I'm wondering if he really likes ...
A. 24 October 2008:
Maybe his friends are hitting on you to try to provoke a reaction from him?
He just sounds a bit shy, why don't you contact him by email or text so it's easier for him to talk about it without getting embarrassed?... (read in full...)
Dilemma! I can't get him out of my mind and I'm married now...
Q. I have been married for almost 2 1/2 years and things have gone relatively well. We have a baby boy that just turned one. I dated another gentlemen before I got married for 3 years and it didn't work out. However I have thought about him every day ...
A. 24 October 2008:
I was in a similar situation until a few days ago.
I had a girlfriend, but was having these types of thoughts about another girl.
I decided that I had to end my relationship, because it wasn't fair on my girlfriend.
I don't really feel g... (read in full...)
Is coitus interuptus rude?
Q. I know a long list of people are going to tell me to use a condom but will ask this anyway. Is it rude for a guy to pull out and cum all over you if birth control wasn't discussed before sex? I say it is and he says it isn't....
A. 24 October 2008:
Did he miss your mouth? :D
Seriously though, from a guy's perspective, he probably just did what he thought was the safest thing under the circumstances.
While the whole thing about sperm being present in precum etc is true, it was still exp... (read in full...)
The big question... Is he interested???
Q. I am a member of an online dating service. A guy emailed me and asked if I wanted to chat so I replied and we wrote a couple of lengthy emails to one another. I don't have a picture on the site but he does. We are both 29 y/o and looking for d...
A. 24 October 2008:
I think you've hit on the important thing already, smiling.
People smile to others as a way of communicating that they are non threatening and receptive to interaction.
This guy smiles a lot, and maybe this means that he's a nice friendly gu... (read in full...)
Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the perfect model type in most porn?
Q. Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the model perfect type in most porn. I mean do they really prefer a mommy body with scars and sags (not overweight)as they say, over the scarless pre baby bodies on playboy and ...
A. 23 October 2008:
In a word, yes.
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