Will it get bigger or has it stopped growing?
Q. I have a little below average penis and I'm 17, will it get any bigger or stay like this....
A. 3 November 2008:
You could try trimming/ shaving your pubic hair, apparently that makes it look an inch longer... (read in full...)
I'm scared !
Q. hi. me and my boyfriend had sex. we got really carried away and just pulled our pants down and he stuck his penis in me. he didn't put a condom on cuz it was just in the moment. so we had sex and i guess he pulled out before he cummed and it got all ...
A. 3 November 2008:
No, I don't think the smoking = lower fertility thing would make a significant difference to your situation.
I think that information is more for people who are trying to get pregnant.... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted with this problem I have, please help.
Q. Hello every ; ), I have a really personal problem that I'm disgusted by. I have white vaginal discharge everyday and sometimes I get really smelly down there. Also. I've been to the gynocologist numerous times and they always say I'm fine. Its em...
A. 3 November 2008:
I'm sorry, but using soap makes infections MORE likely.
Using it disrupts the natural balance of organisms, killing the 'good' flora and fauna, and letting the 'bad' organisms multiply unimpeded.
Washing with soap can give you thrush or worse.... (read in full...)
I don't feel attractive enough to get a nice guy.
Q. hi everyone:) i have a small problem,id like to change it if i can.im single and really hoping to find someone soon for the long haul.my problem is,most guys im attracted to are ( in my opinion) wayyyy out of my league.im not ugly by any means,but ...
A. 2 November 2008: Just because a guy looks a certain way doesn't mean he'll automatically be attracted to a particular type of girl.
I think you'll find that a lot of guys like the 'girl next door' look much more than the 'skeleton with makeup' look that you see ... (read in full...)
Will it get bigger or has it stopped growing?
Q. I have a little below average penis and I'm 17, will it get any bigger or stay like this....
A. 2 November 2008:
All true.
One other thing that may be of interest is that with most penis length statistics, the average taken is the mean, not the median. Consequently, the majority of the men measured in the surveys are below 'average'.
In my work (I'm a b... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted with this problem I have, please help.
Q. Hello every ; ), I have a really personal problem that I'm disgusted by. I have white vaginal discharge everyday and sometimes I get really smelly down there. Also. I've been to the gynocologist numerous times and they always say I'm fine. Its em...
A. 2 November 2008:
Yup, if the Dr says it's normal don't worry about it.
One other thing to bear in mind is that if you use soap down there, it can make it smelly, because it disrupts the natural state of things.
My ex girlfriend used to be a bit pungent down t... (read in full...)
I'm scared !
Q. hi. me and my boyfriend had sex. we got really carried away and just pulled our pants down and he stuck his penis in me. he didn't put a condom on cuz it was just in the moment. so we had sex and i guess he pulled out before he cummed and it got all ...
A. 2 November 2008:
Try to stay calm. You hear horror stories about pre cum containing sperm, but pre cum on its own does not.
The problem is that if he had ejaculated recently, there may still have been viable sperm in his urethra, and this can be carried into you... (read in full...)
He says sex would be better if I would do anal. What does he mean?
Q. I have had bad experiences in the past with anal sex. it was shoved in too hard or it was forced on me to do it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he really wants to try it because he has never done it before. I am not a huge fan of it ...
A. 1 November 2008:
Ha ha! Fade knows I'm only messing.
And yes Fade, you have absolutely hit the nail on the head (for once).
;op
xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend, his colleague and I had a threesome, now I'm hyperworried about the time he spends at work!...
Q. hi,went on a business trip with my boyfriend of 2 years,he always talked about the young girl at work and it bothered me,this was the second time i met her ,her and i became drunk and began kissing which later ended up in bed,we did nothing more ...
A. 1 November 2008:
If it's any help, I've had threesomes in the past, and a couple of them were with my girlfriend at the time.
I can't say for certain that it will be the same in your situation, but there was a sort of unwritten rule that nothing would happen... (read in full...)
He says sex would be better if I would do anal. What does he mean?
Q. I have had bad experiences in the past with anal sex. it was shoved in too hard or it was forced on me to do it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he really wants to try it because he has never done it before. I am not a huge fan of it ...
A. 1 November 2008:
My point was that women are going to be more used to the concept of being penetrated, not necessarily in the ass, but the idea of something going into their body. Surely anal sex is less of a mental jump for women than it is men?
I didn't say t... (read in full...)
What does she want? What can I do to get her to come back to me?
Q. Ok, this is a long one, but I want to give you all the details. Enjoy the read! I wrote a question on here about 5 weeks ago just after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We had been together a year and we got on really well and loved each other...
A. 1 November 2008:
Sounds to me like you both want to be together, but that she has tried to be realistic and accept that the long distance relationship thing is almost impossible to do.
Do you think things would be different if you lived close to each other, ... (read in full...)
He says sex would be better if I would do anal. What does he mean?
Q. I have had bad experiences in the past with anal sex. it was shoved in too hard or it was forced on me to do it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he really wants to try it because he has never done it before. I am not a huge fan of it ...
A. 1 November 2008:
My friend works in a hospital, and if she had a (insert unit of currency here) for every time she has to remove a snapped off cucumber from someone's rectum, I'd probably marry her.
Fade, it is not as straightforward as you imagine.
... (read in full...)
This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.
Q. I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...
A. 31 October 2008:
Do you feel that she is more likely to leave the relationship than you are?
I ask because you seem to be under the impression that she'd rather walk away than address the issue.
Could you maybe persuade her to go to the doctor on the premise that... (read in full...)
This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.
Q. I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...
A. 31 October 2008:
Yes it sounds like she has decided for both of you that the situation is ok.
You say you managed to at least get her to agree to the idea of going to the doctor about it, would it be possible to have the 'talk' again, tell her that things are n... (read in full...)
Letting go of his past
Q. Okay here's the deal. I am 25 years old who is dating a wonderful man (age 29) for a little under a year. Our relationship so far is going wonderfully however there are certain topics that make things very tense. The number of people my boyfri...
A. 30 October 2008:
It does seem a shame that our primitive instincts still hold so much sway over our behaviour.
I opened a letter this morning saying that I owed over £4000 in rent. Turns out it was a clerical error, but when I opened it and saw the amount, I go... (read in full...)
Letting go of his past
Q. Okay here's the deal. I am 25 years old who is dating a wonderful man (age 29) for a little under a year. Our relationship so far is going wonderfully however there are certain topics that make things very tense. The number of people my boyfri...
A. 30 October 2008:
I don't think you do disagree with me passionatelynumb, I think that you agree with what I'm saying, but have added that it is possible to make an intellectual decision not to give in to the urge.
You are quite correct in what you say. Many men... (read in full...)
I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....
Q. I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...
A. 30 October 2008: It wasn't that she didn't initiate it, it was more what happened after that was the problem.
She was rather overweight and very conscious of it. Despite my reassurances, she hated her body. In the whole time I was with her, I never once saw her ... (read in full...)
This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.
Q. I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...
A. 30 October 2008:
Sorry fluffyshoes, I made some very sweeping generalisations in my previous post.
I understand that women also have this problem, but I was expecting this guy to be told to put up with the situation and that he was wrong for making 'unreasonabl... (read in full...)
This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.
Q. I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...
A. 30 October 2008:
I don't think you're being unfair at all, but then again I'm male!
Men and women have different priorities, and I think women often have a hard time understanding that men need sex.
Women have needs too, and if you weren't fulfilling one o... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He ...
A. 30 October 2008:
Yes, I did wonder myself about the condom thing, as the chances of both methods failing simultaneously are infinitesimal
I didn't mention it because I assumed you thought of that pretty early on.
Sex isn't everything, but it's pretty important... (read in full...)
I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....
Q. I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...
A. 30 October 2008:
All good advice, except the part about sex not being that important. It's true that it's not everything in a relationship, but it's still pretty important, especially for men.
I tried very hard to convince myself otherwise because everything e... (read in full...)
Letting go of his past
Q. Okay here's the deal. I am 25 years old who is dating a wonderful man (age 29) for a little under a year. Our relationship so far is going wonderfully however there are certain topics that make things very tense. The number of people my boyfri...
A. 30 October 2008:
Looks like you'll have to copy and paste that link into your browser, it doesn't work if you just click on it.... (read in full...)
Letting go of his past
Q. Okay here's the deal. I am 25 years old who is dating a wonderful man (age 29) for a little under a year. Our relationship so far is going wonderfully however there are certain topics that make things very tense. The number of people my boyfri...
A. 30 October 2008:
Yeah, I know what you mean.
I hope he's like me, because if he is, then his friendship with these girls is possible only because he is truly at peace with his feelings towards them.
If he was really bothered or still had feelings for them, t... (read in full...)
How do you get past 'just friends' into a relationship?
Q. So I have not had much luck with 'dating' girls, so therefore haven't really had a girlfriend. I think it is about time since I have been through 4 years of University, and still have not seemed to figure it out. How do you get past 'just frien...
A. 30 October 2008:
I guess it depends on how fussy you are about the order in which the events leading up to the relationship take place.
If you convince a girl that you are after a 'quick lay', then have sex with her, then end up in a relationship with her, is... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He ...
A. 30 October 2008:
Two years is a long time to have never had sex.
I got my first ever girlfriend pregnant and she had an abortion. It was a pretty horrible time in our lives.
For a month or two after, I had a bit of trouble with worrying about it happening a... (read in full...)
Is she trying to imply that she just wants to be friends?
Q. I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i ...
A. 30 October 2008:
It's pretty difficult to say, because you said that she gave you the explanation that her health issues may be a stumbling block, but haven't told us what they are.
Was the reason that she told you that you shouldn't be kissing her related to t... (read in full...)
I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....
Q. I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...
A. 30 October 2008:
Phew! That's a nasty situation.
I'm sure you'll be berated for feeling this way, so I'm going to jump in first and tell you not to feel too guilty.
I have been in a similar situation to you in that I was with a girl who was truly terrible i... (read in full...)
Letting go of his past
Q. Okay here's the deal. I am 25 years old who is dating a wonderful man (age 29) for a little under a year. Our relationship so far is going wonderfully however there are certain topics that make things very tense. The number of people my boyfri...
A. 30 October 2008:
I am in a similar position to your boyfriend.
I know it's difficult for girls that I have been in relationships with to cope with this, but it's not something I can change.
Thing is, I have a lot of female friends, and some of them I have ... (read in full...)
Feeling nervous about fellatio to a man with an uncircumcised penis!
Q. Hi there, i am after some advice (sexually). I was with a bloke last week who was uncircumsized and this was like the first time for me. He wants to see me and has asked me to give him a good sucking but the thing is i'm quite nervous and scared o...
A. 29 October 2008:
Sorry, but that's nonsense.
I have been both uncircumcised and circumcised during the time I have been sexually active, and the difference is enormous.
The lack of foreskin does mean that a different technique is required.
I happen ... (read in full...)
Feeling nervous about fellatio to a man with an uncircumcised penis!
Q. Hi there, i am after some advice (sexually). I was with a bloke last week who was uncircumsized and this was like the first time for me. He wants to see me and has asked me to give him a good sucking but the thing is i'm quite nervous and scared o...
A. 29 October 2008:
I have to respectfully disagree that the extra sensitivity of not being circumcised is an advantage.
I found it to be a huge disadvantage.
The problem is that it's the wrong kind of sensitivity!
Before I was circumcised, touching my... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my foreskin.
Q. Hello, I got a problem with my foreskin, since young i have had problems with it being to tight, when its un-erect it's easy to pull back ( and this is when i clean it) however when erect it can only go back a certain amount, for obvious rea...
A. 28 October 2008: Lol! Arlo, you beat me to it!
So there you go then, both my friend and Arlo were relieved to be circumcised.
I guess I don't count so much because my circumcision was purely cosmetic, but honestly, it's SO much better!... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my foreskin.
Q. Hello, I got a problem with my foreskin, since young i have had problems with it being to tight, when its un-erect it's easy to pull back ( and this is when i clean it) however when erect it can only go back a certain amount, for obvious rea...
A. 28 October 2008:
This is called phimosis.
Here's a link to the wikipedia entry about it:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phimosis
I have a friend who had this, and eventually he got himself circumcised. He swears it is the best thing he's ever done, and as s... (read in full...)
Sex questions
Q. hi im 35years old and started a new relationship but im not very experinced when it comes to sex and my partner wants me to go on top but have never done that b4 as im queit large built and im to embarrased if i do it wrong and he wants me to go ...
A. 28 October 2008:
I was seeing a girl a few years ago, and after a blowjob, she said 'oh, it doesn't taste that bad!'
At first I wondered why she had assumed that mine would taste any worse than anyone else's, but when she explained that she'd never tasted it be... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he cant get any sleep when I am in the bed with him
Q. Hi, So I started dating this guy a month ago and I have slept over. It seems he can't get any sleep when I'm in the bed with him. I don't move much nor snore, and I'm able to sleep well. He hasn't had someone in his bed for the past three ye...
A. 28 October 2008:
My ex girlfriend has a condition which made her kick me violently in her sleep.
I know what you're thinking, but it wasn't just an excuse :oD
Restless leg syndrome I think.
Anyway, sleep deprivation does funny things to a person, in fact I be... (read in full...)
How to give a hand job?
Q. Ok, so not the easiest of questions. I am in my 20's and want to know how to give a hand job as i don't know how and have just recently started dating someone and want to try it out but i am too embarrassed to tell this guy that i don't know how to ...
A. 28 October 2008:
I'm sure they do.
You can't be all things to all people, and for every person who thinks you're great in bed, there may well be another one who doesn't.
The thing to remember is that everyone's different, so you can't be expected to know wha... (read in full...)
Feeling nervous about fellatio to a man with an uncircumcised penis!
Q. Hi there, i am after some advice (sexually). I was with a bloke last week who was uncircumsized and this was like the first time for me. He wants to see me and has asked me to give him a good sucking but the thing is i'm quite nervous and scared o...
A. 28 October 2008:
I was circumcised a few years ago, so I know what it's like both ways.
You can get away with a lot more on a circumcised guy, for instance the odd tooth contact here and there won't hurt him anywhere near as bad.
I chose to be circumcised (i... (read in full...)
How to give a hand job?
Q. Ok, so not the easiest of questions. I am in my 20's and want to know how to give a hand job as i don't know how and have just recently started dating someone and want to try it out but i am too embarrassed to tell this guy that i don't know how to ...
A. 28 October 2008:
Hmm, now see, that's not how I like it.
I find for instance that varying the speed and pressure really spoils it for me, I need it to be very consistent.
This is not a criticism of you aunty_rach, I'm sure you're very good at it :o)
The p... (read in full...)
Are some men turned off by a womans career path?
Q. Are some men turned off by a woman's career path? Im in my early 30's and finishing up a cardiothoracic surgery fellowship and hoping to start my own independant pracitce next year. I have dated many guys in the past but none of them have reached ...
A. 28 October 2008:
Your career isn't necessarily the problem. I for one really admire women in your position.
Is it possible that the problem is more related to lack of experience in the dating game?
I know that a lot of people spend so much time on the early sta... (read in full...)
He says sex would be better if I would do anal. What does he mean?
Q. I have had bad experiences in the past with anal sex. it was shoved in too hard or it was forced on me to do it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he really wants to try it because he has never done it before. I am not a huge fan of it ...
A. 28 October 2008:
It all comes down to taking it sloooow.
You'll find that if you manage to get it in, it's better to wait for a minute or two, then start very gently. In no time at all, you'll find that you will relax a good deal, and you'll be able to enjoy it.... (read in full...)
My fiance had threesomes in the past
Q. My wedding is in one month and my fiance just admitted to me he had threesomes in the past. He is always talking about it, but I thought he was just kidding. Now that I know he is done it before I am so disgusted.. what do i do????...
A. 28 October 2008:
The overwhelming majority of men fantasise about the idea of a threesome, and if your guy got the opportunity to try it out, it would have been weird of him to turn it down.
I'm extremely lucky in that I've had a few, and I'm very glad I did, ... (read in full...)
I had sex saturday night and the condom split.
Q. I had sex saturday night and the condom split. I took the morning after pill on the sunday morning then sunday night had sex and the condom split again! what should i do ?...
A. 27 October 2008:
It's not necessarily size, it's more about shape. Some manufacturers (notably Durex) seem to think that the penis is a perfectly cylindrical organ.
Mates tend to be slightly better, in that the width varies in a more accommodating manner. ... (read in full...)
He loves me but he is not passionate about me.
Q. I have been with this guy for a year and two month. I am completely in love with him. We have had a great relationship from the beginning and there have been no problems. We are open, communicative and the relationship itself is really healthy. He ...
A. 27 October 2008:
I'd caution against the attitude of 'youth = passion', the girlfriend that I was with before the one I just finished with did arouse this type of feeling in me. I know it's a cliche, but I really did feel like I was 16 again, even though I was 30. ... (read in full...)
I had sex saturday night and the condom split.
Q. I had sex saturday night and the condom split. I took the morning after pill on the sunday morning then sunday night had sex and the condom split again! what should i do ?...
A. 27 October 2008: Get some better condoms!
I had this problem a couple of times, and I also had the problem that I used to 'droop' when I put a condom on because it was painfully tight. I used to get a purple ring around the base of my penis where the ring part had... (read in full...)
He loves me but he is not passionate about me.
Q. I have been with this guy for a year and two month. I am completely in love with him. We have had a great relationship from the beginning and there have been no problems. We are open, communicative and the relationship itself is really healthy. He ...
A. 27 October 2008:
I just got out of a relationship like this.
The girl I was with was pretty much perfect, but I too didn't have that 'spark' with her. I even used the the phrase that on paper she was everything I could want in a girl, just like your guy did.
... (read in full...)
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