Prove you want me back!
Q. If a girl you loved dearly for 6 years breaks up with you for another man cause of "Grass is greener on the other side" and she comes back to you after realizing the guy was just after "attached girls" to use and abuse them. She asks for another ...
A. 7 October 2010: So you guys honestly dont think people make mistakes even if they are immense?
What do you say to.I take her back and when she does it again I know?People do some stupid stuff I know but I think her decisions where impulsive.You mean to say that... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm going nowhere, help!
Q. I will be 26 years old soon and the thing is I never had a girlfriend. I kept on getting rejected by women even though I never acted desperate, said anything stupid or said anything nasty to women. Eventually I kind of gave up, everytime I go out ...
A. 7 October 2010: Well I can tell you that you lack of self confidence is REPULSIVE to woman!You being nervous around woman makes you look weak.You need to calm down and you need to start talking to woman have Female contact WITHOUT the idea of trying to win her ... (read in full...)
Trust, how can you fix it when it's broken?
Q. Trust how can you fix it when it's broken? I have been with my partner now for just under a year when we first started out we were both in long relationships we got caught and got out she left him and went with me after a while she went back to him ...
A. 7 October 2010: Yes she is on rebound!
There is only one thing to do here dude!
Just leave...You see the problem with the whole scenario is that she will NEVER be able to get over her EX because she never took the time out to be alone and let time heal her up.T... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my first crush!
Q. I'm still in love with my childhood crush! I've never told him how i feel about him should i? I've been in love with this guy since we were in the 1st grade! From the moment our eyes met eachother i've been in love with him! We are now 22 years old ...
A. 7 October 2010: Yea do what PuzzleSolver say but please dont rush things!
Baby steps...
Dont throw Love bombs all over the place yet im sure you wont but I actually saw it happen yesterday soo.... (read in full...)
She says we're going too fast
Q. I am 16 years old and ive just recently got a girlfriend shes a year older then me,, shes not the first girl ive messed around with if u know what i mean,, but ive known her for about 5 days and shes been wanting to go out with me since she met me,, ...
A. 7 October 2010: Well maybe you should first get to know each ther before asking her out!
I always hang out with girls that I like for 2 months before making the next step and my relationships are always long term stuff so.... (read in full...)
Prove you want me back!
Q. If a girl you loved dearly for 6 years breaks up with you for another man cause of "Grass is greener on the other side" and she comes back to you after realizing the guy was just after "attached girls" to use and abuse them. She asks for another ...
A. 6 October 2010: But Ive heard so manny couples go through the same thing and when they reunite they are soo much stronger!... (read in full...)
Prove you want me back!
Q. If a girl you loved dearly for 6 years breaks up with you for another man cause of "Grass is greener on the other side" and she comes back to you after realizing the guy was just after "attached girls" to use and abuse them. She asks for another ...
A. 6 October 2010: Well my life with this person was never bad and we where both really good influences on each other.It was not abusive and it was everything a guy could ask for!I am in the healing stage now and personally I want her back even now that I have ... (read in full...)
Stay at home mom who feels down and lonely...
Q. I have been married for 5 years, i got married at a really young age - 18, now i am 23. i love my husband and i really trust him but i have seen stuff that i can't stop thinking about, i have talked to him over and over about it but it seems i cant ...
A. 6 October 2010: Yes its really unfair that you should be pushed into a corner with a massive amount of emotions crashing into you!HE should definitely take some time to watch after the baby!You just cant do everything.Also if he loves you then it shouldn't be a ... (read in full...)
He wants me to go and see him... should I?
Q. Hi I had argument with my boyfriend and stopped talking to him for couple of days. I went to a party at that time and a guy was very interested on me. I gave my number then told my friend who told him this story. After days she told him and he was ...
A. 5 October 2010: Yea when people are jealous they tend to do stupid and impulsive stuff like lie and say " You know I cheated on her"
Why would anyone tell that to your friend anyway? Is it nice to look like someone who isnt trust worthy?Just go see what he want... (read in full...)
This other man gives me life again...
Q. I married my best friend 15 years ago (we were both 18) and we've since had three kids. Our two oldest are 12 (fraternal twins) and our youngest is 9. Recently, I've been having feelings of doubt for our marriage; these feelings came about when I ...
A. 5 October 2010: YES LISTEN HERE! If I could I would restrain you from doing this..I mean this is like running head first into a bullet train coming straight for you! I DO not know however how you cant see this? Anyway Rather then looking for the FLAME somewhere ... (read in full...)
He just cut me off...
Q. I was going out with a guy a year, he was my best friend and we were so in love. In the Summer we had a few fights, he moved away and starting acting different (saying he cant take me out for meals etc and started to making things "his way" and I ...
A. 5 October 2010: My heart goes out to you!
Yea theres really just one way...time.
Keep yourself busy!If you are on your final year of UNI (AND I KNOW its hard) but try and make it your BEST YEAR !
WORK hard and play hard and never stop socializing.
I found that ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I be a little more over her by now?
Q. I need help. My ex and I of 3 years broke up in dec. She started dating a highschool friend immediately after. We continued talking, hooked up a few times 3 months later, talked about getting back together and "hung out" multiple times between then ...
A. 5 October 2010: DUDE!
Its not easy and thats why they call it True love especially if you went a full year without seeing her?
By the way for how long where you dating?
If it was say 2 years + then she on rebound no doubt and it wont last.Next time they break U... (read in full...)
Which Path to Take?
Q. I have been married 18 years. I have 2 great children ages 13 and 16. I have been an abused spouse. Verbaly, emotionally and physically. We really never got along. My wife left me for another man 10 years ago. We reconciled after a year ...
A. 5 October 2010: WHOW!
Im really sorry that anybody on earth should go through something like that!I also think you should get your head straightened out.I believe getting custody of the kids will be pretty easy in my Opinion since she has Jail time etc.
Its r... (read in full...)
Do I continue talking to him or what...?
Q. My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years but suddenly we broke up. we were fighting a lot and he told me that we couldn't be together and the best thing for us is to be friends. I didn't want to accept it but i had to. its been about 2 ...
A. 5 October 2010: Hey I want to try and help you but id like some more info.
So did he say what he is scared off?
You know if there is any one else seeing him maybe?
Let me suggest a couple of scenarios for quick unexpected break ups.
1)He was either looking a... (read in full...)
Am I looking way too much into her text? Or is she giving me an opportunity to call her and talk?
Q. Hey: My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago because I was studying for my medical boards (the 6 months prior) and she grew apart due to the time away (saw her once a month during that time and very stressful for me). The last...
A. 5 October 2010: DUDE!
You can make time no doubt! Even if you let her hang around while youre studying!
Even if its once a week you go and do something like an outing or so.
I know studying takes allot of time but whats say 6 hours in a 168 hour week?... (read in full...)
This is not how a loving relationship is meant to be... is it?
Q. I'm not happy about our relationship, she always seems mad or angry when I come home. Seems like all we do is live together. She said its not me, but it cant always be the kids either. We kiss like we kiss our mothers, just a quick peck. She always ...
A. 5 October 2010: Hmm ok so shes on Meds?
You sure she cant do without them?
Not that its any of my business but is she Bi-Polar?Cause its just something way different and the response would also change.... (read in full...)
Does she like me, despite only having broken up with her ex 5 days ago?
Q. Recently a girl who i know from work (She left that job some months ago but we stayed in touch) broke up with her boyfriend of 2years. Then less than 5 days later she starts texting me and speaking to me on facebook a hell of a lot more than she ...
A. 5 October 2010: No id say the way shes coming on is WAY to quick!She is in my opinion on Rebound!
Or Maybe she just wants to get to you to make the EX jealous!Youre a virgin and sleeping with this girls probably gonna get your heart broken!
Being a virgin isnt bad... (read in full...)
Do you always have a thing for your first love...?
Q. Hi DC, Just a general post from something that I saw on TV the other nite about a couple who reunited after 40yrs apart (leaving thier respective partners/families) Do you always have a thing for your 1st love? Is the expression "1st Love neve...
A. 5 October 2010: Funny you should ask that ! I definitely believe that!
First Scar is the deepest and you will never forget that person!
Check this link:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/torn-between-love-for-husband-and-older-1st.html... (read in full...)
Should I really just let go?
Q. Bear with me, this is the short version... The last two months I have been "dating" this girl. She recently got out of a year marriage, and when they finally split, we instantly hooked up. During her birthday part this past summer that was at ...
A. 5 October 2010: Sounds like a rebound to me :( !... (read in full...)
I blocked my b/f on facebook, will he be upset about it?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to give him space, we have been through quite a lot together emotionally and the last time we had a break i found it incredibly difficult to not talk to him. my friends told me i should block him on fb just to give me a peace ...
A. 5 October 2010: No its fine and YES its much better that way if you are going to obsess about him over facebook.
If he wants to talk to you he would probably phone you.
Its hard to keep of their profiles when youre in front of a computer...... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have sex, I want to wait till marriage but am afraid of losing him!
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I disagree and he seems disappointed about it. He has been pushing for it during our last make out. I am afraid that one day our relationship will be spoil because of my rejection to have sex with him. I ...
A. 5 October 2010: YES you are making the rite choice! IF he cant respect that then maybe you should end it!
Trust me YOUR morals shines like GOLD lady and if I would ever find a woman that says that to me I would marry her cause just a pretty are not enou... (read in full...)
This is not how a loving relationship is meant to be... is it?
Q. I'm not happy about our relationship, she always seems mad or angry when I come home. Seems like all we do is live together. She said its not me, but it cant always be the kids either. We kiss like we kiss our mothers, just a quick peck. She always ...
A. 5 October 2010: Youve probably lost touch of each other a whole while ago.The flame is gone.BUT its only because you did not keep it going.
YES go for counseling and also find ways to bring the spark back.BREAK THE ROUTINE of Boredom and being selfish with TIME... (read in full...)
He expected me to leave my husband for him!
Q. This is the situation: I took some distance from a friendship that was turning into somewhat of an emotional affair some months ago after asking your advice. I wrote the friend explaining how I felt and that the best thing would be to not have ...
A. 5 October 2010: Oh youre in a world of hurt if you leave your Husband !
Not only you but if you have children then its even worse.
Im not saying dont think about yourself but do keep your family in mind,Cause they might just be gone if you decided to leave th... (read in full...)
He says he loves me too much to leave so why am I so confused
Q. i had previously gotten some advice bcuz my bf cant get over my past which i cheated on my ex husband he says i will always b a cheater and at times puts me down.. he is hurt at the fact that i wuz not the girl he expected me to be... but i think he ...
A. 5 October 2010: I think "OLD MAN" is SPOT ON! ^^... (read in full...)
Should I wish my ex-Gf on her birthday
Q. My GF dumped 3 weeks ago me for reasons Which I am not sure about. She gave reasons of long distance relationship(past 6 months) and different thinking. I tried to sort out the issues but had no luck. we were in relationship for more than 5 years. ...
A. 5 October 2010: Yes you can.
Dont stretch it out LOOOONG and dont mention feelings.
Just say Hey "NAME" Hope you have an awesome day!"
In my opinion.
Youre pretty mature about the whole thing for just 3 weeks...But youre handling it well.
Same happened to ... (read in full...)
I don't want to cut my ex out of my life completely
Q. My girlfriend and I recently broke up and it's been 3 weeks, however she's already in a relationship with someone else a week after ending things with me. She just put a posting on facebook about how she is happy. Suffice to say that ripped my heart ...
A. 5 October 2010: Well personally I think if your relationship was a Long term one and you loved each other a lot then what shes doing is Competing with you trying to win the jealousy race.If she does immature stuff like that for you to see then shes not over you and ... (read in full...)
My ex pushes me away and then pulls me back. I'm so confused!
Q. Hello, Me and my ex have been split up nearly 2 months now and im still not over him. We were together just over a year and engaged. We work together at the same place but in different units but still see each other. He always smiles and acts fri...
A. 5 October 2010: Well if hes seeing someone else then yea hes stringing you along.But if not then hes playing silly games.You should probably tell him to stop playing games.I know allot of people do this to get back with their Ex`s but they dont want to do the ... (read in full...)
Anxiety and depression linked to girlfriend, somehow just lost all feelings...
Q. So my situation is an extremely long one, but I won't get into all the details I'll just say this: my current ex girlfriend and I had a great relationship, and my first relationship. Over the summer she went on a 3 day trip, and I went to visit ...
A. 5 October 2010: Yes I think youre suffering from GUILT.
It makes you numb that is why you dont feel anything and its a big part of depression.
It sucks I know.
But your councilor would know much better soo tell him every single detail.
Also youre are going ... (read in full...)
Why can I not forget him and why do I want to see him again even though the relationship did hurt me so much?
Q. The reason for being here is that... i feel like i cannot forget my ex long distance lover... a have a new partner now, long story, i comitted not to be alone and wanting to kill the memory of my ex... have been through all stages of emotions, and ...
A. 5 October 2010: Was the relationship abusive or just the END made you hurt allot?Recently I went through the same thing and...I dont want to sugar coat this for you.You would never be able to kill the memory AND NEVER be able to do it inside a relationship ! You ... (read in full...)
How did others get over this?
Q. Okay this gets straight to the point. How do you get over a guy you've liked for the last 5 years? I just want to get over him now and move on, but it's hard and I think it would help to hear other peoples ways and it may just help me get over this ...
A. 5 October 2010: Well did you only like him or loved him?
Its not easy to get over someone you loved!
But its definitely a huge part of live...if you haven't cracked open right in the middle feeling numb depressed and hopeless because of the breakup then id say i... (read in full...)
Torn between my husband and my ex......
Q. My first true love and I recently reconnected. 10 years ago I had a burning desire to move to California. It was a dream I always had and nothing was going to stop me. My ex and I were on and off and when I decided to move we were not together so ...
A. 5 October 2010: I believe that its truly unfair towards you and your current husband! If youre emotionally connected somewhere else TRUST ME he will start noticing it!
Everybody deserves a chance to be in a happy relationship where BOTH parties feel exactly the ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be second best
Q. Hi Folks, I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I love him completely- we are very happy. Despite this- I find I am becoming increasingly obsessed with his ex wife, the fact that he has been married before me and nothing is 'new'...
A. 5 October 2010: Well...
DONT believe everything I say and ALSO dont lose hope.
I had something like that but only in a relationship.Although it seems like he doesnt regret the divorce its true that he decided to learn from what happened rather then just resent e... (read in full...)
I think my ex wants to get to me through my friends...
Q. I havent spoken to my Ex in like a month or so. This Ex was/is The love of my life and Im not really even sure why we broke up.Probably boredom. Anyway IT was a 6 years relationship and it Hurts allot! Recently I walked into her and She was an ...
A. 5 October 2010: Also...
What I mean by "She wants to get to me through my friends "
was that she wants to Reestablish a connection with me without looking desperate.Cause we havent been talking for a while.So she asks my friends if she could hang out with them so ... (read in full...)
I think my ex wants to get to me through my friends...
Q. I havent spoken to my Ex in like a month or so. This Ex was/is The love of my life and Im not really even sure why we broke up.Probably boredom. Anyway IT was a 6 years relationship and it Hurts allot! Recently I walked into her and She was an ...
A. 5 October 2010: Yes I know she sounds really bad on the post above! But I can tell you that she really loves me! No Doubt but she made a stupid mistake.She is a really awesome girl / girlfriend.She always cared and did really special things for me on birthdays and ... (read in full...)
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