Does he know the pain I go through when I know he's looking at porn?
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and we have always had sex reguarly, its never been the same there was also something to spice it up everytime. But recently within the past few months maybe he would reject hav...
A. 7 June 2012: Hi I believe that men do these kind of things again and again because they believe they are not doing anything wrong in their minds. My boyfriend came up with every excuse possible. They are not in the room with me, it's just a set of pixels etc ... (read in full...)
B/f doesn't want sex but swears he's not gay
Q. i'm a plus size girl dating a nice looking black man. he's been in prison and has an extensive background, but nothing in the past 4 years. we met online and been dating a year and i would swear he's gay. he's 46, works construction and always on ...
A. 6 June 2012: Perhaps he's an asexual or a porn addict.... (read in full...)
Dating 4 years, no sex in 14 months..I know he's cheating!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. In the last 14 months we have not been sexually intimate with each other. He stopped coming around and spending quality time with me. All we do is talk on the phone. I've talked to him about my ...
A. 6 June 2012: I don't know if this is a longshot but he might be cheating with women on the internet and not real women. I've heard of men becoming addicted to porn and losing interest in real women. It's just a thought and some people might forgive that kind of ... (read in full...)
Why does porn upset me so much?
Q. Why is porn such a big deal to us women? It's a big deal for me, but I don't even get why! I know I don't like my partner watching it, but I mean, it's just pictures and videos, so why can't I get past it? Why is it so upsetting? I know some women ...
A. 31 May 2012: It's because some women like feeling sexually special. It devastates me knowing my boyfriend looked and i definately know he finds them more attractive, he's very visual. In the fantasy world I'm unattractive.... (read in full...)
Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?
Q. I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed. Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I...
A. 30 May 2012: He could just be after sex, ejaculating inside you might be too intimate for him and the enjoyment of ejaculating on you might be because he' seen it in those films....... (read in full...)
Someone help me with talking dirty?
Q. Someone help me with talking dirty? Me and my boyfriend were in an intense makeout session before and he wanted me to talk dirty to him. I didn't know what to say so I panicked an pretended that I had to go. I don't know what to say and he's a year ...
A. 30 May 2012: Read some nice erotic stories and take some extracts from them.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to send him pictures of myself?
Q. So me and my boyfriend for 4 months recently had sex and he wants it a lot now. Like he wants me to send him pictures and everything. I told him I'm not his personal playboy and he got upset. I'm a sweet girl and hate seeing him upset. But I don't ...
A. 30 May 2012: Don't send him the photos unless you're head isn't on them no one will know it's you if it gets out. At least your boyfriend wanted pics of you. ... (read in full...)
Guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed?
Q. I guess this is a question mostly for men, but female input would be appreciated too, especially what your partners think. Basically - guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed? I'm not talking porn star scale, but when...
A. 30 May 2012: I'm a girl and I've developed a liking for my boyfriend calling me names during lol not nasty names but sex related names.... (read in full...)
We've been dating for 3 days and b/f already wants sex
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been dating since the 26th of May and he is already ready to have sex. He told me he didn't want to have sex and then leave me. He never lied to me before and we we're the best of friends before this. What should I do? I ...
A. 30 May 2012: He isn't interested in romance. I had the same situation with a guy some years he kept looking at my body and wasn't up for hugging.... (read in full...)
Has anyone else changed their mind about masturbation being dirty?
Q. When I was a little younger (early/mid teens) I used to think masturbation was really dirty for girls and I swore never to do it. Now I'm 18 and my views have changed quite a bit. I don't think it's dirty anymore but I only do it rarely and I was wo...
A. 30 May 2012: I have actually stopped once and thought eww what am I doing, I actually literally thought about it but no one has to know it's too much fun to stop and I've been doing it ever since.... (read in full...)
Subtle ways needed. Is there a way of bringing him round to my wish for slow lovemaking?
Q. I am very happy in my relationship. My partner and I enjoy our time together and have regular sex. But the problem is, it's always hard, fast sex, if you know what I mean! It's good and he drives me wild but sometimes I just want to 'make love' as...
A. 30 May 2012: Awww each to their own I have the oposite. I like it faster and harder than he does it but it hurts his hips (he's 36)... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend watching porn? I feel sick at the thought of it!
Q. I recently found out my boyfriend watches porn, and I hate it! I have some real issues with myself, I have terribly low self confidence and low self esteem. We have a very active sex life, so why does he have to watch other women? What is wrong with ...
A. 28 May 2012: How did you discover this? How old is your boyfriend? How long have you been together? You sound EXACTLY like me. I know where you're coming from why the hell are they still interested in looking at something they have been doing who knows what i... (read in full...)
I snooped and found my boyfriend had been lying about watching porn, how do I trust him again?
Q. How do I trust my boyfriend again after he lied and promised he didn't watch porn, but I found out he does by snooping? What should hurt more the fact he broke a promise and lied or the fact he did not come straight out to tell me he watched it? I ...
A. 28 May 2012: God how many people have this problem damn you porn industry!
How did you get onto the subject in the first place for him to say he doesn't watch it?
God I wouldn't dare snoop I'd be in floods of tears by the end especially if they didn't look... (read in full...)
As a person, she IS my dream girl...but sexually, the attraction is minimal. What can I do?
Q. I don't find my girlfriend that attractive, but I am overwhelmingly happy with who she is as a person. What do I do? My girlfriend and I kind of stumbled into dating each other. We met at a party one night and ended up drunkly hooking up (havi...
A. 18 May 2012: Hi, my current boyfriend wasn't that attractive at the beginning, he was kind of nerdy and I thought he was a bit special (lol) but he made me laugh soo much, I did find him a little attractive but not much then my love grew for him!!!!! I find him ... (read in full...)
My hormones are raging like a wildfire!
Q. My hormones are raging like a wildfire!!!I'm only 15 and why am i feeling this way..I'm so horny all the time and can't even stop from being that way. I feel like i need sex every freaking day. Does that make me a sex addict?...
A. 18 May 2012: Normal... I would of gone with anything at that age!!... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend betray me by masturbating? I want to end it!
Q. Dear Cupid , I just caught my boyfriend masterbating I feel like if he has betrayed me. I ask him if he doesnt like our sex but he answers that he does. So why does he do it. It makes me feel like i dont mean nothing to him. do you think that its...
A. 4 May 2012: If I am correct are you saying he was masturbating to porn? I don't get it either I just can't see why they wouldn't masturbate over their partner and use porn that looks like them. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I love the smell of my girlfriend?
Q. My girlfriend and me don't really sleep together but every now and again we do get intimate. I have a real fetish of sniffing her knockers though. Is that wrong? She kind of knows I do it but it isn't talked about. I just love the smell of her......
A. 2 May 2012: It's normal don't worry!... (read in full...)
I can't find a guy to love me the way that I love him
Q. Why do I feel this way? Is there something wrong with me? I'm a good girl with a big heart. All my friends say I'm gorgeous, friendly and really sweet. But I can't seem to find a guy to love me the way I love them. I get dumped each time I ...
A. 12 April 2012: I get you, every boyfriend i've had never gave me the same attention as i did them. I had one boyfriend once who dumped me out of nowhere and he made me feel very special at the time, i wasn't expecting it. Perhaps because we're nice people they ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend said he doesn't feel guilty about cheating or lying to me!
Q. My bf of 2 years told me he cheated on me with his ex in October. He told me right after it happened and asked me to pleas forgive him please lets try to make this work. I called her and she tells me jhow this is the only time she crossed the line ...
A. 30 March 2012: Dump him move on you will realise in the future you did the right thing. One of my ex boyfriends cheated on me I look at him now and he's gone fat and ugly. It's quite funny to be honest. All girls deserve to be treated like princesses.... (read in full...)
Do men stop using porn when they have a girlfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, us women need hope is there any men here who stop using porn/looking at it when they have a girlfriend? ...
A. 21 March 2012: I wish i could be like you... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 21 March 2012: Yes it is natural. I was turned off when i found out. I always liked the idea of being the only one. I thought i was until i found out, thought he was different told me he didnt have any but he did. They make you feel special but you find out :(... (read in full...)
Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?
Q. Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind ...
A. 20 March 2012: Yeah... (read in full...)
Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?
Q. Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind ...
A. 20 March 2012: The guy below why can't all men think like you, it's not fair.... (read in full...)
I cant get over my boyfriends old habit of downloading porn, even though he no longer does it.
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. when we first got together he used to download porn off the internet. it didnt really worry at first but after a few weeks it really started to bother me. i told him how i felt about it and he promised me ...
A. 6 March 2012: The same thing happened to me :( I tried to watch some with him but I think it made things worse, the thought of seeing him turned on by someone else mortifies me. It still gets to me today, when he wasn't horny he didn't want to watch it with me ... (read in full...)
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