I want to make my sex life more exciting, but I don't know how to make it happen!
Q. Last night we were playing I Have Never at a friend's barbeque. Myself and my boyfriend joined in the game. It was a bit upsetting because, even though I already knew most of my boyfriend's sexual history and experiences, it's never something a girl ...
A. 15 July 2010: Just calm down it'll happen when u least expect it ..or heck initiate it urself tell him ur big fantasies of getting dirty on the beach or in the back seat of his car. Good luck!... (read in full...)
What kind of signs am I giving off?
Q. Dear Cupid, Just a quick question. There's this boy in my life who I find attractive and he finds me attractive back (though I'm taken for but he's gone for work - I am NOT cheating). He's stayed overnight at my house twice in the same bed, nothin...
A. 8 June 2010: Dear clueless, well for starters he probably feels like he can get u to cheat if you spend the night in the same bed even if its only a couple times and you may not consider cuddling cheating but it can lead to so much more...would u want your ... (read in full...)
Dating my friend's crush? How do I let her know and not lose her??
Q. So I have had a few fights with my longtime best friend. Most of them about boys. But recently a boy who my friend likes started to txt me and I am now begining to have very strong feelings for this boy. I want to tell her that me and the boy just ...
A. 8 June 2010: Explain to her that he likes you and that he mention he wants you but you dont want to ruin your friendship over a guy so you'll say no if she wants you to. IM pretty sure she'll be hurt but this happened to me beforee and my friend said to go ahead ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant by something on my panties?
Q. Well, me and my boyfriend had just recently (less than a week) had a sexual intercourse. i had told him i didn't want to have sex because i didn't want to get pregnant, and we had talked about anal sex but i had read on here that sperm can still go ...
A. 8 June 2010: :) hope it helped and if u have sex wear a condom so u dont have a baby too early and try to go to a clinic and get birth control if thats what u decided... (read in full...)
My dad's new wife don't like his kids!
Q. my dad he just married this women (names are changed) dian she i asian(not that it matters)she has three kids 2 boys 1 girl they are all above 14. and my dad has 4 kids with my mom. me and my 3 other brothers and sister. Well dian she does not wan...
A. 7 June 2010: Well u r a minor so you cant move out unless u get amacipated which means u have to attend a court case and the judge will choose if your iin an abbusive or emotionally abbusive house. 2nd you could talk to your dad and explain to him how hurt you ... (read in full...)
I want to enjoy some good sex but with him I can't!
Q. Okay, so I have been with my boy friend for a year and a half now. I am 18, and we are a good ways apart and he's the 3 guy I have had sex with. The first time the guy was so small, I didn't even feel anything, even though it took forever to ...
A. 7 June 2010: Well how bout you moan while he is going fast and moan slower slower and then tell him how amazing he is. Another thing you could do is cowgirl or reverse cowgirl which both allow you to control the speed of the sex and reverse cowgirl allows him to ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant by something on my panties?
Q. Well, me and my boyfriend had just recently (less than a week) had a sexual intercourse. i had told him i didn't want to have sex because i didn't want to get pregnant, and we had talked about anal sex but i had read on here that sperm can still go ...
A. 7 June 2010: U could have cummed and not realized it was u and not him. So ur probably fine.... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to tell anyone I might be pregnant
Q. Haaay, I'm 15, and My Boyfriend is 14. I'm not sure but i think i might be Pregnant. I dont have the guts to talk to my parents and i even chickened out on talking to my brother and his girlfriend incase im not pregnant i dont want them to knw...
A. 7 June 2010: Do u have a close friend who can buy u a pregnancy test ...cuz its serious if ur pregnant it wont be long before u need to go to the doctor and get check ups ...try looking up a clinic near u and maybe ur friend can drive u there and they keep it a ... (read in full...)
I want to enjoy some good sex but with him I can't!
Q. Okay, so I have been with my boy friend for a year and a half now. I am 18, and we are a good ways apart and he's the 3 guy I have had sex with. The first time the guy was so small, I didn't even feel anything, even though it took forever to ...
A. 7 June 2010: There is alot you can do ... I recently saw a study where it said women take about 12minutes before the get aroused so try foreplay ...try costumes in bed... Get a kama sutra book... Try bondage sex... Try trogen magnum ectasy condoms its ripped so ... (read in full...)
Do you think he is seeing her?!
Q. my boyfriend has been talking to this girl for like an hour and half at night when i am not around, i know he is because i can see the call log, which he does not know about! he calls her like 10 times a day and he only calls me once or twice!! i ...
A. 7 June 2010: Its possible but i doubt it ... Just trust him maybe she is like a best friend to him and they talk about u for all u know ...just trust him if u cant stop being jelious then leave him but dont be suprised if u want him back and he doesnt want you ... (read in full...)
Teenage daughter having an affair with a married man
Q. Please help, my 19 yr old daughter is having an affair with a married man. My daughter has been babysitting for a local family for the last 2 summers. Recently I was looking at pictures on her computer and I noticed pictures of the family she ...
A. 6 June 2010: U have some valid concerns but u do also have to realize that she is an adult and while u may love your daughter shes not a minor so u cant do much but talk to her politely ...stop accusing her of stuff and sit down and have an adult conversation ... (read in full...)
Possibly pregnant for the first time, I need help...
Q. I need a little bit of help. I am 17, and...well...there is a posabillity that I may be pregnant, and I am scared to death. I don't know what the signs are, and I dont know what to do to find out if I am pregnant are not. Me and my boyfriend had sex ...
A. 5 June 2010: Well it might mean something but i would say thats more of a sign of a miscarriage not a full term pregnancy pain... In the first month ull feel bloted and possibly nausious ...smoke will smell disgusting and make u feel like ull throw up ...u ... (read in full...)
The condom broke -- could I be pregnant?!!!
Q. hi im am 15 and well me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday on june the 4th and well today is the 5th, and well the condom tore:/ and the condom tore and he didnt know soo he came in me and im scared i might be pregnant? i was on the last day of my ...
A. 5 June 2010: Yes! Ur chances of getting pregnant are higher when u r on u period because ur more ''fertel'' ...sounds odd but its true so go get a pregnancy test ...well have someone 18 or over buy it cuz they'll ask for id since legal age is 18 at least in ... (read in full...)
Friends with benfits? Yes or no?
Q. Hey everybody, i was wondering what your opioion on friends with benfits is. I have a male friend to who i am sexually attracted to, he shares these feeling as well. We want to start a friend with benfits type of relationship that includes ...
A. 4 June 2010: Well it can be fun u just have to make sure u both understand that its just that and if ur both ok with it ull probably just have alot of fun... (read in full...)
Never even asked a girl out...
Q. I'm an 18 year old male about to graduate high school. I feel like my high school experience has had a ton of accomplishments, except for my nightmarish junior year, but there's one thing I never could bring myself to do: ask a girl out. Now, don'...
A. 3 June 2010: (moderator note: please spell words out and not write "u") You just need to ''jump'', find the girl and take the next step ... Make sure she likes you by flirting first and see how she reacts then ask her on a date....... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be attracted to someone but not find them attractive?
Q. This is going to sound strange but here goes. Is it possible to be attracted to someone but not find them attractive? I am attracted to my boyfriend, I love to talk to him, spend time with him, and he turns me on. But I don't think he's attra...
A. 3 June 2010: U fell for his personality ...looks arent everything but if u dont think u want to be with him cuz that, that'll be ur choice but dont expect him to come back after u realize u want to be with him... (read in full...)
I'm scared I could be pregnant!
Q. About two weeks after my last period, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex multiple times and I ended up taking the morning after pill. It has now been about six weeks since my last period and I'm thinking I could be pregnant. I haven't had any ...
A. 3 June 2010: The morning pill is effective but only if u take it asap after the unprotected sex. Its a possibility so put worries to rest and get a test done to see for sure ....good luck... (read in full...)
Is it true blowjobs taste awful?
Q. My gf wont give me one because she says they taste awful, but could it just be because of the guy she was with before? She said he had hygiene issues so I was wondering if that could be it. Is there anything that could make it less disgusting if ...
A. 1 June 2010: Well this xnickx guy is kinda right about what u eat affects the taste but for ur gf's sake dont eat lemon it'll definitly make it sour!!!!! I suggest eating pineapple the day of or drink pineapple juice and make sure u wash ur junk ...i love ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to change how he views children?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated for around a year before becoming exclusive. I have two young (grade school aged) children from a previous relationship. I have been aware the entire time that ...
A. 30 May 2010: Its a tough one but try to do casual things like going to get icecream with him and ur kids and maybe its not a dead relationship maybe he just doesnt understand cuz he still wants life before kids who knows but as long as u dont make ur kids suffer ... (read in full...)
My brother terrifies me and is getting away with it
Q. A couple months ago I got pregnant. I am 14 years old and the pregnancy was in a way my fault. My brother has been doing stuff to me since I was young. i had a misscarrige and the doctor said it was because brothers and sisters arent meant to have ...
A. 28 May 2010: U need to go talk to ur parents if they dont listen go to the police ...this is unexceptable and against the law and im pretty sure u can get a restraining order or they can put him in juvi or jail at ur parents request to teach him a lesson... (read in full...)
We've only really talked on F/b -- how do I take it farther?
Q. Hi I like this guy who i havn't really talked to other than over facebook. Anyway, we go to different schools but i know a lot of people from his school. I've seen him play sports against my school and think he is amazying!!! I'm not sure ho...
A. 28 May 2010: Ur welcome... Guys like a chase but sometimes they dont see when u like them like them they might take it as being a nice friend ... Find one of ur friends to drive and see where it goes from there... (read in full...)
How do I talk dirty to my girlfriend?
Q. How exactly do i as a guy talk dirty? I mean its obvious the kind of stuff to say like how sexy my girlfriend is and stuff but anything more than looks and i get almost like worried im seeming to full on or obsessed with sex even though my girlfr...
A. 28 May 2010: Personally i think its hot when a guy tells me what makes him horny and what he is gonna do to me. I would suggest sending a text to ur gf before she comes over saying u wanna rip her clothes off with ur teeth and then tell her what u wanna do to ... (read in full...)
Help with interview questions please?
Q. I am applying for a job at GAP and they are asking me these questions please help me answer them please?? * Please give an example of when you have either given or received good customer service: * Please give an example of when you have ...
A. 28 May 2010: Id love to help but these particular questions are suppose to be answered from ur experiences .... Ill tell u something tho for the reason u want to work for them a good answer would be: i am interested in working for your company because i have had ... (read in full...)
HELP! I have horrible back acne
Q. It's summer and I want to be able to be half-dressed and stuff--but one embarrassing thing is holding me back... I have HORRIBLE BACK ACNE! Please, does anyone know anyway to help? I have a few pimples on my chest, but not as much. Please! Anythi...
A. 28 May 2010: There is a medicine called hebicleanse and u can typically get it over the counter but its not near the face creams and stuff its near neosporn and stuff its a turquiose color bottle and its a red liquid that helps alot and quickly! Hope it helps u ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me? I wrote her a letter....
Q. Alright basically Ive been hanging out with this girl for a long while.. she's basically always at my house... she even has sleepovers shes like family. My family basically grew up with her family so.. we somewhat became best friends... something ...
A. 27 May 2010: Well its probably her wanting to be ''chased'' so u realize wat u have and most girls flirt with other guys to make u want them more...i know sounds wierd but its true and maybe she doesnt quite love u yet and thats alot for her to handle so take it ... (read in full...)
I hope my period is going to start but symtoms are a little different
Q. hello, this is more of a medical question, i am worried i am pregnant. i had sex last week protected but right now im getting my period real soon, and ive been feeling weird. I feel heavy, and feel fat as this is normal , but my breasts have sto...
A. 27 May 2010: Well im not a gyno but brownish discharge or yellow could be signs of a uti(urinary track infection) which would explain the need u feel to go to the bathroom and i would suggest going to ur gyno cuz it could be something worse ive read before that ... (read in full...)
We've only really talked on F/b -- how do I take it farther?
Q. Hi I like this guy who i havn't really talked to other than over facebook. Anyway, we go to different schools but i know a lot of people from his school. I've seen him play sports against my school and think he is amazying!!! I'm not sure ho...
A. 26 May 2010: Well u can see if he wants to hang out casually like with a group of friends ...how old is he?... (read in full...)
He abused me but I still think about him!
Q. Right here goes! I have recently well 11 weeks to be exact got out of an abusive relationship with my alcoholic ex bf,it has been really hard as he is very volatile and caused trouble at my house by smashing every single window and it wasn't t...
A. 26 May 2010: U love who he use to be! It sucks but alcohol destroys so many relationships and u deserve more ...ive been thru it i would allow my EX get drunk and slam me into things or grab my arm till it bruised,yet i stayed because i thought if he would stop ... (read in full...)
She told me I was too needy. Is there any way I can start over?
Q. hi..i need an advice. i like this girl and become a friend since last year.i really like her.but i make a mistake.a big mistake..i too needy,oversensitive and emotional.this is what she said to me..now she hates me..she tell me please don't dis...
A. 26 May 2010: This is a tricky question...i personally had a boyfriend who was super clingy and dropped his friends all the time to be around me and it was sooo annoying. MY ADVICE let her be for a little while and then call her up and explain that u like her ... (read in full...)
How to get someone to get help if you cant get them to admit they have a problem
Q. My wife is very jealous. I get accused daily of flirting with or sleeping with women at work, as part of my commute, even with my cousins. Nothin I say can change her mind, and it's all so absurd to me. I haven't been with any woman but her, we ...
A. 26 May 2010: If u really love her tell her that the drinking is getting bad and for the sake of ur children u want to set a good example and provide ur kid with the view of a loving realtionship....honestly most people wont see it until they are left by their ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do?
Q. I've been dating a really great guy for two and half years now, he has a girlfriend, he say's were just friends but sometimes i feel like I'm getting mixed signals from him, sometimes i think he wants more then just a friendship, i know that i would ...
A. 26 May 2010: No u cant ...he obviously has a girlfriend who he probably loves and obviously wont leave ....i mean r u even going on dates and kissing this guy...y his he so clear that u are friends and u dont get it? ... (read in full...)
Should I be over the molestation by now or not?
Q. should i be over the fact that i was molested? ok, ill keep this short. i was sexually molested from the age of 6-9 and then again by a different man from age 12-16 (This stopped about 3months ago). i would like to know if you think i should be over ...
A. 26 May 2010: Definitly not ...with time u will ..dont be a victim it will carry with u and make u have low self esteem and feel depressed if u do...trust me its hard as hell to get thru but it wasnt ur fault and u need to understand that and move on otherwise ur ... (read in full...)
I feel this relationship is going way too fast!
Q. Ok so I met this guy two years ago and in Feb. he finally decided to ask me out. We've been together since then and I'm really happy with him, but May 18th he told me he loves and I can't honestly say I love him back. Then this past weekend he told ...
A. 24 May 2010: Its not a huge age difference but being 18 he might have been thru more and realize he loves u sooner and u may not be feeling the same ...when i was 15 i dated a guy who was 21 and i felt smothered cuz where i was at a higher maturity for my age he ... (read in full...)
"I want to blow his mind"
Q. I have known this guy since September. We met online and only chatted up until about 2 weeks ago. Well, a few days after we met, I went to his apartment to watch a movie, and things got carried away. We didn't talk about what happened, until ...
A. 24 May 2010: Heres a few tips to blow his mind... 1st take control wear something he'll wanna rip off but instead of letting him start taking his off then go down on him make sure to include his balls...he'll go crazy then get on top off him and go fast then let ... (read in full...)
Can losing your virginity bring on your periods? And now he has had sex with me could he be going off me?
Q. Hi i lost my virginity and 2 days later i started bleeding i wasn't due on for about another week or so is it normal to bleed a few days later? or can loosing your virginity bring your periods on? also since that night me and my bf haven't spoke a ...
A. 24 May 2010: Depending on size and position u could bleed when u loose it ...for days not in my experience but its possible at your age to have your periods not yet ''on track''. It can sometimes make your period come back for a day if u think your done and then ... (read in full...)
My parents don't approve of my 20 year-old boyfriend
Q. i am 15 (and appear 17.. to some).and i have always been told that i am very mature for my age as far as the way i behave, talk and the way relate with adults.i am already in the eleventh grade and ready to graduate next year (two years ahead of my ...
A. 22 May 2010: Age is just a number or so they say but ur parents may be concerned because they want to protect u as long as they can ...stick to ur school work and ask ur parents if u get good grades and stay on track with graduating if u could talk to him and ... (read in full...)
I don't understand the things he said when we were making out
Q. I let my boyfriend of 3 weeks finger me yesterday. Before he did he asked if it was okay and I said yes, if I was allowed to touch me. He said "I'm not as exciting." What did he mean by this? I ended up just kind of rubbing him through his jeans ...
A. 22 May 2010: U probly orgasmed but didnt know cuz u havent before...and the questions are probably cuz he wasnt sure what uve done and my advice is if ur ready un zip his pants and rub it with out the jeans it'll make him more into making u pleasured... (read in full...)
Advice after weight loss, please?
Q. I guess I would start with this: About a year ago I weighed almost 200 lbs and now that I am down to 145, I am noticing a lot more about myself. Normally I just noticed the stretch marks and fat that my body had decorated itself with, but now I ...
A. 22 May 2010: Their called spider veins... And can be on anyone doesnt matter how young or old u are...im 19 as well and when i was 16 i got up to 183 and then lost the weight and am now 140 if u loose weight to fast u might get streach marks but spider veins are ... (read in full...)
I still love him, but we are now both involved, what should I do?
Q. 2 years ago, this guy told me that he was in love with me. And before I knew it, I was slowly falling for him. We had the most amazing, loving relationship and we made each other unbelievably happy. Our friends thought we were great together - ...
A. 22 May 2010: Its very hard to answer this cuz i was currently in a relationship for a year and a half while my boyfriends ex constently told him she realized she loved him so much more than before and he was so torn. Litterally went into tears and brought him to ... (read in full...)
How to approach my threesome fantasy again without seeming pushy?
Q. dear cupid i have a fantasy having a threesome with my wife i spoke to her and she willing to do but she hasnt mentioned it again how can i approach the subject again without it looking im pushing the subject ????? ...
A. 22 May 2010: I think these people are crazy just make sure she knows shes better at it then the other woman and have fun...... (read in full...)
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