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My brother terrifies me and is getting away with it

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Question - (28 May 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2010)
A female Canada age 26-29, *ouBrokeMyHeart writes:

A couple months ago I got pregnant. I am 14 years old and the pregnancy was in a way my fault. My brother has been doing stuff to me since I was young. i had a misscarrige and the doctor said it was because brothers and sisters arent meant to have babies and there were issues. I never told my mom or anyone about it except the doctor and I asked him not to tell anyone. My brother lives in a trailer outside the house and sneaks in my window and trys to beat me at night. I am terrified and he has a girlfriend who does not live here but I can not tell her what she's in for. I want this to stop so i finally told about a month ago. I quite the case because my brother said that he could kill me in an instand and then his time in jail would be worth it. He hurts me every day of my life and im scared I don't know what to do anymore. I need help...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

Please go to the authorities and tell your parents. You know you don't deserve this.

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A female reader, greenflower United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

I agree. This is not right to you, in any way. You need to find someone you can trust. If you can't, you should contact some law enforcement to protect you from your brother.

What is happening to you is unacceptable. What you're going through is not right. Please contact someone, a parent, a guardian, etc and find a solution.

I hope you do find some comfort in confiding in someone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010):

I'd genuinely consider going straight to the police one day, make sure he thinks you're going somewhere else like school, take anything that could be evidence but make sure he doesn't know, get the police to keep you protected and to call your parents iinto the station so you can tell them where it's safe

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A female reader, Blondiebrooke69 United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

U need to go talk to ur parents if they dont listen go to the police ...this is unexceptable and against the law and im pretty sure u can get a restraining order or they can put him in juvi or jail at ur parents request to teach him a lesson

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

YouWish agony auntOh no! :( You have to go to the police, and tell your parents (at the same time you talk to the police) and get to Child Protective Services to put your brother away and protect you. The system in place is a lot better for helping people who are being victimized like you. Don't let your brother scare you into silence - the law is on your side and the police will act FAST. Don't live this nightmare. Aww man, I'm so sorry you're going through this.

Please let us know what happens, and I'll be praying for you. :(

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (28 May 2010):

C. Grant agony auntWhat your brother is doing is *wrong*. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You do *not* need to live like this.

You need to find some adult that you can trust to talk about this. Is one of your parents there who will listen to you? If not, talk to a guidance counsellor at your school. Or a grandparent, or an uncle, or an aunt. Or go to the police.

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