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writes:So I have had a few fights with my longtime best friend. Most of them about boys. But recently a boy who my friend likes started to txt me and I am now begining to have very strong feelings for this boy. I want to tell her that me and the boy just want to go out but I don't know what to do. I don't want to lose my friend but I also don't want to lose my kinda boyfriend( I don't know what to call him). please help!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 Do you still want to be friends with this girl because I predict a real doozy of a fight if you pursue this. If you have had enough of her then by all means pursue him but if you want to stick the friendship out then forget the boy. Boys come and go but girls stick together it would be a shame to lose her over someone who probably wont be around in the next year.
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reader, Blondiebrooke69 +, writes (8 June 2010):
Explain to her that he likes you and that he mention he wants you but you dont want to ruin your friendship over a guy so you'll say no if she wants you to. IM pretty sure she'll be hurt but this happened to me beforee and my friend said to go ahead hes only a crush and she'll get over him it took her a month before she could hang out with us together but it was because she wanted to get over her feelings for him so it wouldnt be awkward and then she was happy she found someone else and they're having aa baby and getting married and she wouldnt be with the guy she is with now if she would have gone for the ''crush'' she had. So good luck! And be sensitive
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