How do I get over bad trust issues?
Q. Ok. This is a long one. I am a 20 year old girl, in a 2.5 relationship with my boyfriend. We have lived together for 10 months, and it has been going alright. I have severe trust issues, however I am working very hard on them. My boyfriend kissed ...
A. 22 December 2008: Hi there! I know what you are going through, I have trust issues, too. I'm nineteen and my boyfriend and I also rent a house togther. I have been cheated on by past boyfriends countless times, so for awhile I really toughened myself up. I basically ... (read in full...)
A baby crazed Christmas!!! Help!
Q. OMG!I need help! I have no clue what to do! I dont know whether my hormones have gone insane or my maternal instincts have overtaken me, but I am baby crazed. I have no idea why, I've always wanted kids but now I think I've just gone crazy lol. My ...
A. 22 December 2008: Thats a great idea!!!!! Yesterday when I passed the baby isle at macy's my bf rolled his eyes lol! But I played with his neice and nephew who are eighten months and 2 yrs old lol, so that helped a lot too lol!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!!!!
Q. Hello all, I'm in such a deliemma with my boyfriend, I always feel like he cares more about himself that he des me. When we have sex, we dont really do much foreplay, well thats to say its not returned. I do things to him but he wont do anything ...
A. 22 December 2008: Hi all! Thank you so much for all your help! My boyfriend and I talked it over last night, I let him read what I wrote. He asked me if he really did that, he was pretty down, he appologized for being such a bad boyfriend. Reading everyones answers ... (read in full...)
A baby crazed Christmas!!! Help!
Q. OMG!I need help! I have no clue what to do! I dont know whether my hormones have gone insane or my maternal instincts have overtaken me, but I am baby crazed. I have no idea why, I've always wanted kids but now I think I've just gone crazy lol. My ...
A. 15 December 2008: Thank you for all your help! I wasn't actually going to act on havin a baby my hormones are just arye. lol. I have to make clear that I wasnt planning on it now lol its just my hormones they're crazy!!! lol. But I really do realize the work in ... (read in full...)
The ghost of Christmas past...
Q. So...where do I start? I will make this short and sweet. 1st love comes back into my life after 10 years, 2 kids and a soon to be ex husband. She married him because like a lot of girls she got pregnant blah blah blah. So now she decides to tell me ...
A. 15 December 2008: I think maybe you should get to know her again, ten years can change a person so you never know. Thats smart to not do anything with her, why dont you just be her friend for a while and start fresh. Dont date or do anything till those papers are ... (read in full...)
I'm 3 months pregnant by my ex-drug addict boyfriend...
Q. i'm 14 my boyfriend is 18. he used to be a drug addict but isn't anymore(THANKGOD). i'm 3 months pregnant by him. should i keep the baby or have an abortion? my family and his family know but he don't. i don't know whether to tell him or not. i ...
A. 4 December 2008: Well congratulations then! Do you know if it is a boy or girl yet? I know its most likely way too soon but plz keep me updated lol. I want to know how everything goes, feel free to snd me msges too! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I show her father her facebook page so that he knows what she's doing?
Q. I'm asking for advice on my bf daughters, they are teenagers ( so difficult enough) and the youngest who is 15 goes out and gets drunk on a regular basis, her mum and her dad (my bf) think that she has stopped this and now i found some information ...
A. 4 December 2008: You know I'm 19 years old. I think that once in a while like around the summer, holidays and bdays thats its okay to attend one or two parties, get a little buzzed and have a good time. But I absolutely agree with you! If she is drinking and smoking ... (read in full...)
Should I let him come round for sex whenever he feels like it?
Q. i kicked my partner of many years out cause he has a drug habit, but he is taking it all in his stride and thinks it is holiday for him to get the best of both worlds. being out with his mates and just poppin to see me and the kids when he feels ...
A. 4 December 2008: Drling if he's coming by when HE feels like it, to see his kids (assuming they are his) or for sex and his needs, i would say that is a poor excuse to drop by. If he's still doin drugs he hasnt changed at all. Plz trust me I grew up with some, not ... (read in full...)
My partner of 15 years is treating me like, well, sh*t... please advise!
Q. My partner of 15 years who I love and very much do everything for like a 50's house wife treats me like shi.... I am in my late 30's and he is in his 60's. When I ended up in Sept this year having a brake down and I had to live on our boat for ...
A. 4 December 2008: Excuse my language but DUMP HIS ASS! He has no right to treat you like this after being with you for 15 yrs, or at all as a matter of fact. He should take care of you as you take care of him, plain and simple. A marriage or partnership means you are ... (read in full...)
My periods out of whack and the HPT test is unclear!
Q. Ladies I need your help! I had a short light period for 2 days when the normal would be 4-5 days ranging from medium to light towards the end. I spotted, then it went to brown now it's totally gone? I have a headache and feel sick to my stomach, ...
A. 4 December 2008: I would say go to your doctor and instead of a urine test, have a blood test preformed its the best way to know for sure! good luck honey... (read in full...)
I'm 3 months pregnant by my ex-drug addict boyfriend...
Q. i'm 14 my boyfriend is 18. he used to be a drug addict but isn't anymore(THANKGOD). i'm 3 months pregnant by him. should i keep the baby or have an abortion? my family and his family know but he don't. i don't know whether to tell him or not. i ...
A. 4 December 2008: Hi honey. Wow you really need to think about this. Its important to do what you think is best ofr yourself, but honestly as for your boyfriend... he needs to grow up on his own. Trust me on this, my boyfriend is 20 we live together and while he is ... (read in full...)
Question about cheating...
Q. This question may sound really silly to some but something I would like everyone's opinion on. Do you think that if a man cheated on his girlfriend for the entire length of their relationship of nearly three years, broke up and then strung her along ...
A. 3 December 2008: omg honey im so sorry, but men like that dont love, they fuck. Thats all they do. Maybe he is a sex addict, but no i doubt he really loved you. Ive been there too. Try to find a man who wants to be w u for you. While sex is a nice perk, get a man ... (read in full...)
I switch between liking boys and girls... is this normal for being bisexual?
Q. Hello, although throughout my life I have definitely been sexually attracted to woman, my feelings towards men are starting to come out now. If i was completely gay this would be more of a problem for me but since I'm bisexual I feel like I can ...
A. 29 November 2008: well not really. I kind of just love who I love really. Sometimes I find myself insanely attracted to certain girls then out of no where I fall for a guy. I'm guessing its just the chemical attraction my body feels for that person lol. Can you ... (read in full...)
I switch between liking boys and girls... is this normal for being bisexual?
Q. Hello, although throughout my life I have definitely been sexually attracted to woman, my feelings towards men are starting to come out now. If i was completely gay this would be more of a problem for me but since I'm bisexual I feel like I can ...
A. 25 November 2008: Yes, I'm bisexual as well. My feelings used ot switch constantly between male and female. This was especially hard when I was younger, because I would like guys for months, then all of a sudden have a lust for women. so I would often question my ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my Mom for tampons without embarrassing myself?
Q. this is more of a female question. I'm 14 and iv had my period since 6th grade but i hate wearing pads.....i feel like i'm sitting in blood and that's nasty. i want to ask my mom if i can do tampons instead but i don't know how....iv hinted...
A. 24 November 2008: I agree with moongoddess, except i will warn you sometimes if you are a virgin tampons hurt. but hopefully they wont hurt you!!!! and take moongoddess' advice
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I love him, but he is married... should I tell him?
Q. Ok.. well.. I have known this guy for almost 3 years now. When I first met him he became like a dad to me. but for the last year I have been having stronger feelings for him. He is married, and I am 20 and he is 43. We talk and text often and even ...
A. 24 November 2008: Oh honey thats hard it sounds like you love him but you must realize that he has a wife that loves him very much the same way. I'm sorry honey but I recommend you don't tell him. You wont want to be the one to break up his marriage just because you ... (read in full...)
My BF says if we do it while I'm on my period and he pulls out, I won't get pregnant. Is this true?
Q. My boyfriend and I always have sex using condoms. But he often tries to put it in without one. He's usually on top of me and starts to rub the tip of his penis on the outside of my vagina, but doesn't put it in without a condom. He has been ...
A. 24 November 2008: Wow I guess most women dont have sex on their period do they?! LOL okay first of all if its your first time and his DO Not do it while ur on ur period. It will look like he stabbed ur vag wit his cock lol. But you always need ot wear condoms ... (read in full...)
Is this how you become gay?
Q. Hi, I have a major problem. I am 14 turning 15 and my whole life I have been sexually attracted to women, I can tell you that. And it's not like because of the society I live in I liked girls to be like others, but I really liked girls. But star...
A. 24 November 2008: Sweetheart. Honey no, you dont just become gay, youre born with these feelings, but as you grow it may seem like you are becoming gay. lol youre not. Youre also only fourteen so it could be curiosity. For now just stick with bisexual, until you have ... (read in full...)
I feel like he really doesn't love me...
Q. i feel so bad and stupid. i love my boyfriend and he loves me. i came across an email of his and found out a lil bout his past. now i can't stop reading his emails and i feel horrible. he never really told me he was in love before, but i found ou...
A. 24 November 2008: The first thing to do would be to calm down and take a deep breath. The second would be to sit down and read this lol. If he was in love before, then it was more likely than not, his first love. If he doesn't want to talk about it then there must ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and spotting...
Q. I'm nervous. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and haven't been to the doctor's yet. My appointment is December 10th. Well for the past 2 weeks I've been spotting sporadically. Not heavy enough to require a pad or even a panty liner, but there was blood whenever ...
A. 24 November 2008: It may be nothing it may be something. Chances are your body is just getting used to being pregnant, some very light break through bleeding is normal, but you need ot go to the doctor incase its something more. Your body may be trying to abort or it ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?
Q. Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?...
A. 24 November 2008: It's completly normal I'm 19 now and I remember having a strong urge to get pregnant at the age of fourteen. Its just your hormones. Subconciously your body wants to carry on the human species, so it sends a signal to make you long for a baby lol. ... (read in full...)
He stripped down to a candy g-string and I burst out laughing. Now he's not talking to me!
Q. Ok, my boyfriend come home last night stripped down to a candy g-string, I was so shocked I burst out laughing, now he isn't talking to me. What are you suppose to do? HELP !!!!...
A. 24 November 2008: I agree with the first poster. lol he probably thought it would turn you on and then when you laughed it hurt his ego, hes probably just hurt because he wanted to please you badly. Id say apologize be extemely nice to him and treat him to a candy ... (read in full...)
Will sex hurt and will I bleed again after I bled when he fingered me?
Q. Well, me and my boyfriend were messing around and he got on top of me while kissing me and then started to finger me, he did this for a while and he then noticed that i had bled quite alot while he was doing it, but i didnt feel any pain but was ...
A. 24 November 2008: Oh sweetie yeah thts perfectly normal! I'm sorry to hear about your ex bf but im glad ur w someone new. Yes it my hurt just a bit when you have sex, he will just have ot go slow while he puts it in and be gentle the first time. The pain isnt ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm ready for sex?? And why is he acting like this??
Q. i am 13 and i have a boy friend who is 13 to. i dont no wat to do we have been going out sence we were ten and havent broke up once our relation ship has been the best thing that has ever happend to me in the world. well my boyfriend asked me one ...
A. 24 November 2008: okay sweetheart im sorry to tell you this, but you are both thriteen. You are very young to be having sex. If your boyfriend can't understand that you dont want to have sex then, it may be better for you to break up. Its not like you can't get back ... (read in full...)
What are the facts about pre-cum?
Q. Hello, I've recently come off the pill and my boyfriend and I and now using the 'pull out method'. I'm a little worried because once his done his business outside me he re-enters me straight away. Could I still get pregnant? What are the f...
A. 24 November 2008: Precum is just as bad as cumming inside you. You can get pregnant just as easily. I give the pull out method a three mont pregnancy rating lol, meaning keep that up and ull be pregnant in a few more months if ur not already. I would stick to condoms ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm pregnant, I got a positive and a negative result! Which one is correct??
Q. PLEASE READ I NEED HELP well im 18 and ive missed my period by nearly a week.. i did a pregnancy test today and one of them was positive and the other one i did was negative so which one is it can i tell i havent had unprotected sex but im n...
A. 24 November 2008: okay honey, go in to your doctor and get a blood test, those are always correct. If you dont have medical insurance, I believe plan parenthood can do it cheaply or free. (pretty sure its free) anyways good luck!!! go to planparenthood.com and that ... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair with my sons HS basketball coach and now I'm pregnant, help!
Q. My name is Ashlee my husband and I been married 18 years and we have 3 beautiful kids a son and two daughters, but I am having an affair with my son's high school basketball coach. My son is 16. The trouble is, we're both married. I had noticed how ...
A. 24 November 2008: Well dear. Everyone makes mistakes, although I believe you should have been the bigger person in the situation especially because of your children. Its not just your husband you hurt. I must tell you only because I feel you need to hear it, there is ... (read in full...)
What are the chances of her being pregnant?
Q. Hi, yesterday me and my girlfriend had sex.. we didnt use condoms. i did not cum. but there was a liquid kind of thing.. she said she felt something wet, but im 100% sure i did not cum. is she going to be pregnant? what are the chances? ...
A. 24 November 2008: You dont have to cum fr her to get pregnant, theres always precum and most men dont feel that leaking out. Id say its up in the air 50/50. She has as much chance as any other woman that had unprotected sex. Sorry honey, good luck though! She can ... (read in full...)
Can you guys just let me know if this can be the pill or could I be pregnant?
Q. I know that one of the side effects of the morning after pill are irregular periods for a while. I took the morning after pill in the last week of August after a slip up with my boyfriend. After that, my period became a little bit irregular but last...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh I have had the same problem before. If your period doesnt start by the date it ended last month, then you should definitly take a test. However it could very well be the pill. Other times it can just depend on your body and considering its only a ... (read in full...)
My newborn keeps getting ill - what am I doing wrong?
Q. Hey guys. Well basically i've just had a baby - he's just over 2 weeks old. I am absolutely *loving* motherhood - although obviously it is tough/tiring...But it is so worth it. I'm so completely over-whelmed with love for my lovely little son it ...
A. 21 November 2008: You are doing fine! This typicaly happens when you first have a baby! Their emmune systems havent built up yet so for the first two months they typically can get colds and even colic ( and eventually every mother has to deal with colic whether its ... (read in full...)
Help please, I just found out I'm pregnant.
Q. Hi there, Here is my situation. I am 20 married to a great guy, (but we have had a lot of troubles in the past) I have just been accepted into medical school, and a hall of residence which I am really excited about. It is also 3 hours away from m...
A. 20 November 2008: I completely agree with the first "poster" lol. Its true men dont become daddies over night, but at the same while you should consider his feelings,I think you really need to consider your own. If you have been accepted into medical school, will you ... (read in full...)
His daughter calls another man "daddy".
Q. Hey I’m Jon 18 years old. This questions actually about my older brother he had a baby girl "Chloe" with his ex wife 2 years ago and broke up with her about a year ago (I'm not sure of the details my brother normally goes to his friends not family ...
A. 19 November 2008: Do you think its possible that he would be able to talk about it with her? That seems like it would really hurt him, but if she insists on having Chloe call her new boyfriend daddy or something like it would she be able to call your brother ... (read in full...)
Are we moving too fast with the "I love you"s?
Q. I am in the best relationship I have ever been in; he makes me really happy. It's as if he's the male version of myself, we get on that well. We have been in this relationship for nearly two months, and we tell each other we love each other often...
A. 19 November 2008: Honestly I think if you mean it and neither of you has a problem with it it's okay to say I love you. As long as you guys aren't planning your wedding or names for your kids (if you want any) I'd say I love you is just fine. I've only been with my ... (read in full...)
How do I make sure the pregnancy test is accurate?
Q. Questions. Do I really have to wait until my period is due and missed before taking a pregnancy test. I think I may be pregnant and my cycle has just finished so do I really have to wait a whole month before testing or can I just wait a wee...
A. 19 November 2008: It takes two weeks for the hormone that allows preg tests to dectect pregnacy is in your body. If you can wait 3 weeks to make sure its accurate, If notits accurate at 15 days (after the date u had sex). Good luck darling ... (read in full...)
Blood after sex, can this sometimes happen? Should I go to the doctor?
Q. Hello again, just one more question! My boyfriend and I had been intimate and right after intercourse, he had blood on him. I'm not on my period I finnished a week ago. At the same time I feel no pain, but there is blood... can this sometimes ...
A. 19 November 2008: Hi everyone! Thank you so much! It turned out it was just simple spotting, no stds or anything of the sort, but thankyou for the info thats very good to know. I had no idea that was another symptom of chlamydia lol. Thank you everyone!!!... (read in full...)
It looked like the condom split, and now I'm panicking!
Q. Hi Everyone! Right, i'm just looking for peace of mind really.... me and my BF of 4 years had sex this morning, with a condom... but when he pulled out it really looked as if it had split as there was a lot of excess liquid on it.. ordinarily ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi honey! If there was no water coming out, then the condom probably did not break. If you are nervous you can go get a "morning after pill." Otherwise known as "plan B" keep in mind it does make you start your period. Its good to be cautious but ... (read in full...)
Two miscarriages in two months, will I be able to have kids in the future?
Q. Hi! The majority of anyone who reads this will more than likely think that this is crazy and that I should be happy. I'm 19 years old and live with my boyfriend we have been together for quite some time but we are still young. Just a few days ago, ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi again, I'm sorry to get back to all of you so late, thank you so much for your comments and answers they really helped me. I went to the doctor a few weeks ago, just after I submitted the question. He said that I was not miscarrying, but the ... (read in full...)
In his cupboard I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things...
Q. My boyfriend has a cupboard in his bedroom which he locked. In it I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things I can't even put a name too. I haven't said anything to him, but it's put me right ...
A. 8 November 2008: Well, my advice to you is that if you dont want to do it, then refuse. If he keeps pestering you to have anal sex with him and you truly arent comfortable with that, then I would threaten that if he doesnt take you seriously you will leave. If he ... (read in full...)
My wife is a very attractive woman but I can't stand her!
Q. Hello, I have been married for 4 years. We have two boys, one is 4 and the other is 2. My wife and I have fallen apart, we literally sit at the dinner table and all you can hear is the silverware hitting the plates, anyways my real problem is that I ...
A. 8 November 2008: Its not selfish, its just a hard time for both of you. If you can help it, try counseling, or therapy. However if you have already mad up your mind, I strongly suggest for both your boy's sake, leave her. If you can't stand her and dont love her you ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my mother's first cousin - and her pantyhose. Will I ever stop loving her?
Q. I am 28 years old currently living in Greece.As of now I'm in a wonderful relationship with this girl that is the same age of me and we are planning on getting married.....but to get to the point I'm also in love with my mother's first cousin(mak...
A. 7 November 2008: The only advice I can give you is this. while most people find it odd because your family, it seems to me you truely love her. I think that you should tell her, but start suttle. When its just you and she, tell her that you have always admired her ... (read in full...)
Can a man cumming inside of me hurt the baby?
Q. during pregnancy if a man cums inside me can it effect the baby.. i'm only 4 weeks......
A. 7 November 2008: No honey, it wont hurt the baby, unless the man has an std, but assuming he doesnt, sperm on its own can not hurt the baby. Its okay that you didnt know that some people are jerks on here. Congrats on the baby!!!!... (read in full...)
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