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... Send *methyst a private message | | | *methyst's profile:I am merely seventeen years of age, but since I was five years old I've been giving people even twice my age advice. I've went through a lot in my life, and have helped a lot of people, so I can relate to a lot of the questions I've seen so far. But don't judge me by my age, I'm more mature than my mother! And, please don't stereotype me with the rest of the "teenage" lovers, I actually am in a serious relationship and I know it's not all sunshine and butterflies. My guess is that I want to help give out advice to help others not make the mistakes I've made, and somewhat... make up for them in the process by doing so. I'm also not afraid to be brutally honest.
As for my avatar... I drew it. :) I'm also an artist, a microsoft paint artist to be exact.
L'amour peut être le plus grand cadeau, ou la plus mauvaise malédiction!
(Love can be the greatest gift, or the worst curse!)
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There's so much stress in my relationship. How do I vent?
Q. Now it's my turn to ask for advice. I'm in love with a man, he's only 2 years and 11 months older than me, but at this age that can make a difference in experience. He's been in serious relationships before, I haven't. Actually, I avoided them due ...
A. 10 August 2006: Thank you for the advice. I had a nice long talk with him today and thought about all of my options. I told him I was sorry that I wasn't as ready as I thought but he said that's why we're working on it. He didn't expect me to be ready, it IS my ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to say to my boyfriend on the phone!
Q. dear cupid, this is silly but me and my boyfriend are far away and so he calls me sometimes but neither of us know what to say to each other. i never have anyhting to say baisically os there any way you can help? i dont know why i feel so nervous ...
A. 9 August 2006: I've actually went through this with my fiance. Right now he's in a totally different state, and it drives me nuts. I was INCREDIBLY shy, and neveeeer liked talking on the phone. So, if I can get over the hurdle, anyone can. So here's a brief guide ... (read in full...)
There's so much stress in my relationship. How do I vent?
Q. Now it's my turn to ask for advice. I'm in love with a man, he's only 2 years and 11 months older than me, but at this age that can make a difference in experience. He's been in serious relationships before, I haven't. Actually, I avoided them due ...
A. 9 August 2006: **I forgot a main question... sorry... Is it possibly that I'm not ready for a serious relationship? I try to make it work but my childish side can sometimes rise and I'll have to fight down the desire to do something unnecessary that may cause a ... (read in full...)
My 18-year-old fiancee never wants to make love any more! What can I do?
Q. Hi I'm 21 and just got engaged to my 18 yr old gf. We have been with each other over a year and we love each other loads, and have been through a lot with each other. At first sex was great, but now has completely died down, which I know happens in ...
A. 9 August 2006: Oooh... tough one. How long has this been going on? Maybe she's going through depression? That's always an option when sexual urges are non-existant. She says she's still attrached to you, but she doesn't feel like having sex... have you tried a... (read in full...)
Sex is the most painful experience for me. I try to bear it but it hurts so much! Am I doing something wrong?
Q. I have been sexually active with my love of 10 years only for a few weeks. We're both 17 years old. I want to please him by having sex with him, but I can't. We've only had sex a few times, but I think it's the most painful experience I have ever ...
A. 9 August 2006: The first couple of times, so I've heard, are painful. Teenage years are when the tissue is most tender, so it will hurt more than if you were say, 20. But if it drives you to tears... that's another story.
Has it gradually gotten less painful.... (read in full...)
He moves away from me when we our skin touches. Why is he doing this?
Q. i've been married for two years, everything has been like a honeymoon since we got married but now just our skin touching or my hand on his hand and he moves away just the simple touch and he moves .why?...
A. 9 August 2006: Uh oh...
There are a multitude of reasons as to why this could be happening...
I'll just name off a few, just to give you some ideas as to what to think on...
1) He's in a rut and is having a self-conscious stage. (Unlikely, but still... (read in full...)
I'm 26, engaged, and can't see past my need for instant gratification - do I need to grow up?
Q. Hi All, Please help! i have been in a relationship since 3.5 years now and things were going absolutely fine uptill some time back. i care for her the most and can do anything to keep her happy. the girl loves me more than enough and wud die to ...
A. 9 August 2006: Ok... this is a premiscious stage. But choosing your lover due to looks, I'm sorry to be the one to point it out, but it's being shallow. Which would you HONESTLY rather have, a girlfriend that loves you for who you are and will do whatever it takes ... (read in full...)
I have problems achieving orgasm with my fiancee and he's becoming upset with me! Someone, please help!
Q. I'm at the end of my tether at the moment,me and my fiance have been together three years (I am his first sexual partner). Even though I fancy my fiancee very much, I cant come during sex with him, I can orgasm when I masturbate, however it takes me...
A. 9 August 2006: Have you tried to explain to your fiance that due to your medications it's taking you a while to get there? If he really wants to please you, he needs to be patient. It's not your fault, you're trying to get there! I think he's really getting upset ... (read in full...)
Still desperately hoping beyond hope that my ex returns my feelings for him
Q. My ex and I dated for 3 months and broke up 19 days ago. Things were going great, with the exception of his ex-girlfriend manipulating her way back into his life. I found out that he cheated on me with her and so I broke up with him. He denied ...
A. 9 August 2006: Breaking up with someone you love is hard. And in a way, it's degrading. You have a weakness that takes a lot of time and will power to strengthen. Being friends after a relationship is a good thing sometimes, but it gets complicated when the break ... (read in full...)
How do I get my man to last longer than FIVE seconds?
Q. I don't entirely know how to ask this, or if it is at all possible. But is there any way i can make my man last longer in bed. Last night he lasted all of 5 seconds, i love him to death but i was wondering if there is anything that i can do to ...
A. 9 August 2006: Ummm... wow. I'm not sexually active, but I have a lot of education in this department.
Is it that he just gets where he needs to be and stops, or...?
Only things I can think of, is if it's a "problem" there are medications for that. Or, think ab... (read in full...)
I'm 16, said yes to the boy's proposal, so what was I thinking?
Q. ello, i'm 16 and i had this friend that wouldnt stop asking me out and after 6 months of him asking me to date him he took me to a hockey game and acted completly different then he did in school so i finaly gave in and desided to give him a chanc...
A. 9 August 2006: Curious question: Does your name happen to start with a T? I think I distantly know you!
I'm engaged at 16, but see, we're actually in love, and we've been together for nearly two years. Don't listen to what anyone else says, only you can make thi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a thing for ethnic girls, but I am not, and he's trying to change me into one
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. I love him and know that he loves me. The issue I face is that he is really into ethnic/exotic looking girls. I am the complete opposite. I'm fair skinned with light hair and light eyes. ...
A. 9 August 2006: **first reply**
This is a somewhat tricky one. I don't know either of you personally, so I'll have to go with what I'm getting off of your question only.
If your boyfriend truly loves you, he will be happy no matter how you look. Some people ... (read in full...)
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