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Hiya ppl =)

ive been through a lot in my life and i might only be 15 but i been through enough to last the rest of my whole life. i really like giving ppl advice with problems and sometimes i might not have any advice but im always here to listen. i am in a serious relationship and ive been through a lot with him so i can give a lot of advice on sex and lads ect.

How can you tell if your bf is cheating on you?

Q.   hey ppl i need ur help how can u tell if ur bf is cheating on u? i know its stupid and there aint really any really questions but anything will do i need to know weather he is cheatin or not...

A.   25 August 2006: right this is the reason i think he is cheating on me. ive been with him for liek 3 months now and like the first month was gr8 he was with all the time and i mean all the time he wouldnt never leave in the second month we started doing a lot more ... (read in full...)

I want to, but I am worried about losing my virginity

Q.   Hi, im 17 and want 2 lose my virginity but im worried about loseing my virginity, but only because im scared about the pain and is it possible for me 2 have sex! i feel to tight ? help me please! thanks ...

A.   15 August 2006: i was worried my first time and i thought it would kill me the pain that is but the first time my bf fingered me hurt me a lot cos it was my first time ever and he did that for about a week. then wen i had sex with him it didnt hurt at all but many ... (read in full...)

I want to, but I am worried about losing my virginity

Q.   Hi, im 17 and want 2 lose my virginity but im worried about loseing my virginity, but only because im scared about the pain and is it possible for me 2 have sex! i feel to tight ? help me please! thanks ...

A.   15 August 2006: i was worried my first time and i thought it would kill me the pain that is but the first time my bf fingered me hurt me a lot cos it was my first time ever and he did that for about a week. then wen i had sex with him it didnt hurt at all but many ... (read in full...)

She is 13...what to do!

Q.   Hi, I need some advise! I'm a 21 year old lad who has fallen in love with a 13 year old girl (14 in December) and not know what to do? I love her more than anything in the world and have never felt this way before, I can’t stop thinking about her ...

A.   14 August 2006: no i dont think u should tell her im sorry but if i was 13 and i 21 year old man cam eup to me and told me that he loves me i would feel really sick she is way way to young for u and she has a lot of growing up to do she should be going out with ... (read in full...)

Not sure if my net guy is playing hard to get or does he just want to be friends ?

Q.   i have been chatting to a man on the net for 2 months and met him last wk.his really nice and i have never felt so comfortable around someone in meeting for the first time,even his friend kept asking if we had met up before,as we were so relaxed and ...

A.   14 August 2006: you should jsut come out and ask him wheather he wants to be friends or if he wants more or you could just ask him what his feelings are on ya does he think of u as a friend or does he think there could be more between u or u could start a convo up ... (read in full...)

I'm 14. Should I have sex with my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 14 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for months and he wants to have sex. I would but I don't know if I will ruin my 1st time. Like I think I want to have sex now....

A.   13 August 2006: i think u should make ur bf wait to make sure he isnt just useing u for sex and dont let him persuade u into it i wanted to give my bf everything he wanted and my first time wasnt that specail. u should do it wen ur ready and make sure it is ... (read in full...)

I feel like I have to compete with my GF's sexual experiences. Can anyone help?

Q.   I'm in my third year at university and have been seeing my girlfriend for little under a year. Lately she has started talking about sex. I'm a bit hesitant for several reasons. A) I'm a virgin. B) She isn't a virgin so we're not in the same situati...

A.   13 August 2006: i know what it is like but i say just go for it my bf lost his virginity wen he was 11 and i was a virgin and i was worried about it at first incase he would think im crap but i say just go for it. i like it wen i lad touches my neck that really ... (read in full...)

Should I meet the MSN guy I've been chatting to?

Q.   Hi, I have been talking to this guy for a few months now on msn and now he wants to meet. I have seen a picture of him and him of me on msn but I'm not sure. My friend says if I want to meet him she would go with me. What should I do??...

A.   13 August 2006: i wouldnt meet up with him if i were u yeah alright u have seen a picture but theres nothing saying that it is def him i mean he could of got that picture from sumwhere else u never no and he could be like 30 odd or summat u cant be sure of his age ... (read in full...)

What do guys like

Q.   I have recently started going out with this guy and would like to know if theres anything guys like. Just simple things like girls are meant to like being hugged from behind and pulled onto a guys laps, guys give girls there jackets things like ...

A.   13 August 2006: well i dont have many ideas. and sum of my ideas u might not feel comfortable doing but here goes my lad likes it wen i rub his next or rubbin his legs and wen i kiss him he likes it if i put my hand down below and just bascially stuff like that ... (read in full...)

We're both still virgins, after three attempts!

Q.   Hi, I have tried to have sex with my girlfriend. We are both virgins and I can't seem to get inside her. I've been given advice and done everything like lots of foreplay, being relaxed, alcohol, use lubricant, using fingers to open it up, condoms,...

A.   7 August 2006: why dont u try fingering her first to try and realise the skin my bf fingered me and it hurt me and i was sore the next day but like 2 weeks later he had sex with me.... (read in full...)

I'm being told i'm pretty but unable to get a date. Help!!

Q.   People think I'm good looking but won't ask me If I'd like to go out with them. What should i do?...

A.   21 July 2006: well if it is true that your pretty girls must love you but in my opinion girls are shy to ask lads out incase they say no most girls wait for a lad to make the first move i mean my bf ive been with him for 5 weeks and 2 days now but ive liked him ... (read in full...)

Girls - What you opinion on the best kissing techniques?

Q.   GIRLS In your opinion whats the best kissing technique, I no it differs but wat is yours personally?...

A.   21 July 2006: i think it is wen you hold a lass close to you tight but not to tight then go to kiss her and as you kiss her put your hand on her face.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is 15, im 23, when we got together I told her I was 19! Can this work ?

Q.   i am 23 and my girfriend is 15! can this work out? we have been going out for 2months now and she says she loves me,i love her but the problem is that when i first met her i told her i was 19,what should i do? i dont want to hurt her. please help ...

A.   21 July 2006: i think you should tell her the truth you should of never of lied about ur age its just shocking on the lass your lieing to and i dunno if it will work or not it might do and might not but you should really tell her ur really age if she ends it its ... (read in full...)

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