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writes: I have been sexually active with my love of 10 years only for a few weeks. We're both 17 years old. I want to please him by having sex with him, but I can't. We've only had sex a few times, but I think it's the most painful experience I have ever faced. I can't even keep going for very long, even though I've tried to bear it, because it hurts so much. Am I doing something wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): Hi im 17 to and i was in the same situation as you a few weeks ago.....the first 3-4 times really hurt, but trust me after that its amazing....just dont push yourself to far....if it hurts stop and try again later.....it also helps if they go really slow.....
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reader, somebloodyfreak +, writes (9 August 2006):
somebloodyfreak is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you both for your advice! I think I'll see if the situation gets any better before I try anything like k.y jelly, but it's always an option. I think Amythist is more right than anything... I'll go and get checked out if it doesn't get any better. I really appriciate you helping me! *hugs*
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (9 August 2006):
 The first couple of times, so I've heard, are painful. Teenage years are when the tissue is most tender, so it will hurt more than if you were say, 20. But if it drives you to tears... that's another story.
Has it gradually gotten less painful... at all?
Maybe his penis is a bit big for your opening... that could be the cause of the pain. But if that doesn't appear to be even a remote option, you may want to go to a gynocologist and get that checked out. Something could seriously be wrong. More than likely, it's just that you need to stretch... but I've never heard of it hurting that badly.
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