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writes:I meet a man last year november 2009 .. and from that on we meet each other as a normal girlfriend and boyfriend .. i love him from months pass by i started loving him till now we still together have sex, cooking food together , hangout do some shopping .. picking me up in my work place and go out for dinner sometimes , pubbing and watch movie together . but he never told me he likes me or he loves me .. is that mean he only wants me for sex or nothing more .? it confused me .. i always thinking of him ... can you tell me pls what is happening do he loves me ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 I think he has strong feelings for you because he is investing all his time with you. I wouldn't worried so much as to him not saying it because this is a very strong and important word and some men as well as women won't say it until they know for sure they want more from a relationship.
Always remember action speak louder than words!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): Some men find it hard to say 'I love you' etc. And in my book actions speak louder than words. If he shows every sign of caring, sharing, enjoying being a couple then I wouldn't stress too much for now. There are men who are full of fancy words and treat you badly. If he looks like he loves you and acts like he loves you - he loves you. Simple.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 You two do a lot of things together so I think what he may be feeling is confusion. He may wish to make sure it is love he feels instead of anything less. Be patient. If you are worried, deny him of sex and see how he reacts to that. I highly doubt he is with you for sex and sex only.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Kaybaybay_x  +, writes (23 November 2010):
I think he does.
He's obviously got feelings for you, otherwise he wouldn't do all the little things with you.
Me and my boyfriend hardly do things like that. I think you're in the 'honeymood period' and if he hasn't said it yet.
He's probably about to. Maybe tell him how you feel about him and see what he says in return.
He may be scared to tell you or thinking about what you may feel for him too.
When men use girls for sex, usually thats ALL you get from them.
None of that, "come shopping with me" stuff.
You're lucky as he's showing interest and he's spends time with you AWAY from the bedroom.
Maybe when you're in a romantic setting or a chilled setting. Tell him you love him, I'm sure he'll tell you how he feels.
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