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writes:Ok so I'm 14, the boy I like is 15,He asked me out and I thought he was messing around like usual, so I asked him to prove it to me that he loved me...He told me to meet him, so I did we stood around for abit and then walked about 10 meters down the road, he asked me out and I said yeahHe then kissed me and after asked me if I was okay, I was fine but scared he kissed me more with tongues and then he got my hand and put it down his trousersI dindnt mind the rest but the kissing felt weird and it was my first kissWhy did it feel weird? Am I doing something wrong ?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 I suspect he only told you these things in an effort to use you for his own sexual gain. Do not continue. This is not love, this is not the beginnings of a relationship, this is a hormonally driven boy trying to use you.
I hope that helps.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Just because he said he loves you doesn't mean you have to believe him, him putting your hand in his pants is just gross.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 November 2010):
 Sexual activity doesn't equal love, nor does sex. Your first kiss felt weird because it followed with an extra bonus of him shoving your hand down his pants! How tacky. Nothing says I love you like a stiffy. No! If he loves you he won't do that again until you are of age of legal consent which is 16. Don't engage in any more sexual activity with this boy. That's a preview of what is to come which involves pressuring you into sex since he's that forward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): No, you didn't do anything wrong. You just aren't ready for that kind of sexual activity, especially at your age. Nver do something you are not comfortable with.
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 Why would you allow him to put your hand in his trousers. He is not your boyfriend and just because he said he likes you doesn't mean you should allow this foreplay.
At your age you need to take care of your reputation, you don't want to be know as the easy girl that will go past first base with person and all it takes is for him to say that he loves you.
If the kiss didn't feel right could be because your not all that into him.
Be careful and please use common sense, treasure your virginity and your reputation like gold, better yet like a diamond.
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