Stay true to you
Q. Often in a relationship you find yourself behaving more like you're other half would like you to be. Pretending to be interested in the same things as them just to make them happy. Which of course isn't healthy and is really not a good idea at all. ...
A. 6 August 2010: :) how true.... and yes to add I think its an adventure to actually have some things that are not common so you get to explore what the other likes and maybe you have some things that are common but trust me you will enjoy the things that you don't ... (read in full...)
Is it worth reconciling with the ex?
Q. When I was in college, a guy that I was friends with suddenly started showing interest in me and finally asked me out… all in a span of one month. We had a summer break then and were in different cities. He called me up to ask me out and I said yes ...
A. 1 August 2010: to be honest with you gal, I personally think that he has a lot of psychological challenges that he needs to get over lol 1 week is too short of a time to know a person .... and this guy starts talking about marriage ... its a good thing that you ... (read in full...)
Should I get married?
Q. I am a single mom who's daughter is now off to college. I have never received any child support etc. I have my own business and have worked for the past 20 years in my profession. I have been engaged to a very nice man for 2 1/2 years. We both ...
A. 18 July 2010: I understand your pain :( look what he is doing is not nice to be honest with you and besides i don't think i would want to stop doing something that make me feel good about my self ...I feel like your business and what you do defines you and if you ... (read in full...)
He keeps making me wait for his calls! Should I stay or leave?
Q. I was waiting for my boyfriend to call one time and he didnt. Before that day, we agreed that he would call me at a certain time which he didnt do. I had to wait for a couple of hours and I ended up calling him. I had to make sure that I double ...
A. 18 July 2010: If you ask me you should leave him coz i don't think he is the right choice ... he is disrespecting you by not doing what he told you and then he makes promises to you doesn't keep them ... that's not a nice thing to do ...
and BTW if he is givi... (read in full...)
Anniversary ideas?
Q. Hey people, me and my girlfriend will have been going out a whole year at the end of this month. I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas of stuff I could get or do for our anniversary :) So far I have the idea of an amazing scrapbook, payin...
A. 15 July 2010: :S so what did you finally decide to do m8... what sketch did you draw to make her know that she is special :D and pls do post what happens :P
care and good luck .... hope you have a long and colorful future together :)... (read in full...)
We haven't had any physical intimacy since he told me he cheated on my while I was pregnant
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me towards the end of april while on a night out with his mates. It was just a one night stand, and he told me a few days after it happened. He even went and got a STD/STI test the same week. He seemed really guilty about it, ...
A. 15 July 2010: i feel that what he did was wrong 1st of all when he is with you he shouldn't think of another woman ... further more what you feel is quite natural it is only human to want the man you love to be only yours and not to share him with another ... (read in full...)
He never tells me something is wrong until we start fighting!
Q. Okayy so me and this kid have been going out for about two months. And yesterday for example, we were talking all day and he was acting totally fine. And then that night i asked him how his game went...and he said that they won and so on. After that ...
A. 15 July 2010: hmm... hello sry i should introduce myself first im 27 :) even though i don't have much experience with this sort of thing .... it does sound like he is getting irritated with questions ....and sounds like he wants to be left alone ...
but i do feel... (read in full...)
My friends don't like the new me, but I do!
Q. I've changed! Suposibly I've gotten prettier, I lost some weight, I've gotten taller, i don't talk as much, I'm not as loud and alot more. But my friends don't like it. They don't like the new me. They miss the old me. But I like the new me not the ...
A. 14 July 2010: make your friends understand that the only thing that is constant in life is "CHANGE" and that its not a choice they have ppl change and they just have to learn to accept the changes .... coz lets face it they are getting older too ... just coz they ... (read in full...)
Anniversary ideas?
Q. Hey people, me and my girlfriend will have been going out a whole year at the end of this month. I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas of stuff I could get or do for our anniversary :) So far I have the idea of an amazing scrapbook, payin...
A. 12 July 2010: first of all happy anniversary... :) and yes this does mark a very important event in both your lives and is very significant ... life is not about how many moments you live but, what makes those moments worth living
so it is important that you ... (read in full...)
I want to feel what love is... how do I leave???
Q. HI have been in a loveless marriage foor 15 years. We got married because I was pregnant at 21. We are and have always been friends, but the love just isn't there. We went through counselling and things were 'better' for a year or so. We have 2 ...
A. 24 April 2010: Vintage64 i couldn't agree more you are so right ... life is good if you let it, im sure you can get any guy you want ;) hehe finding a man who can love you and take care of you is better i think :) ... (read in full...)
I want to feel what love is... how do I leave???
Q. HI have been in a loveless marriage foor 15 years. We got married because I was pregnant at 21. We are and have always been friends, but the love just isn't there. We went through counselling and things were 'better' for a year or so. We have 2 ...
A. 24 April 2010: you sound to be very confused and a lady that doesn't know what she wants. From those words you said i gathered that you don't want to be with him because you don't have any love for him as your husband but at the same time you are saying that you ... (read in full...)
Teenage Pregnancy
Q. Its like a taboo subject isnt it. A lot of people judge teenages who fall pregnant, i know this all too well. I was at the tender age of 15 when i had my first daughter then caught on again at 17 and had my second daughter. The remarks you get the ...
A. 23 April 2010: I have met many people online who are 12-13 age to 15 years old also, but i really don't get it whats the big rush to have sex. Agreed there is always an attraction and curiosity but i really don't understand what is the big rush in finding some one ... (read in full...)
The effects of adultery - what do you think they are? How to cope with it?
Q. Hi i hope this dosn't waste too much of you time. Im a journalism student and im doing a story on relationships and the effects of adultery. Its in the news alot more recently due to relationships in the media becoming peoples gossip. I was just ...
A. 20 April 2010: Hello Kirstyanne, that is a very sensitive subject that you are working with. Any relationship or marriage is like magic that is created between two individuals that may or may not share common interest. Like in food, its a dish because it has salt ... (read in full...)
He did not answer my text msg, .. should I move on?
Q. Met a man online. I almost did not go as I have been having terrible dates from online. Surprisingly, I go on the first date and we hit it off. We had alot of laughs , I am sure the alcohol helped. We held hands and had a quick goodnight kiss. The ...
A. 5 April 2010: I totally agree with katiekate do not jump to conclusion and if you really wanna know a man and see if you can connect with him, then see if he can show you a nice time without alcohol. Sorry if I'm getting too personal but I think that sex should ... (read in full...)
What do women want? I don't know!
Q. A while ago, I came across a blog entry from a male musician on MySpace. It was about how men should be treating women with more respect and courtesy, and how women are not objects, and so should not be treated as such. I was liking the whole idea ...
A. 1 April 2010: Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts, I hope the other readers did enjoy this article as much as I did. As for the post that you mentioned earlier, the one that you came across myspace I do find it to be creepy for a guy to just come up to ... (read in full...)
The sister is trying to keep us apart...
Q. I have linked with a guy I have fancies for over a year on facebook. He hinted he wanted to linkkk. There is mutual attraction between us. Whenever I see him his sister tries to keep us apart. She likes me and keeps saying I will do for him but ...
A. 29 March 2010: I may be a little too young to say anything in this matter please forgive me if I'm wrong but i do feel that she is feeling insecure or something like that or she is afraid of any friction that might occur just let her see that your ex is ok with ... (read in full...)
Do you think I just took things the wrong way???
Q. hi hope you can help theres this man that i have liked for a while and out of nowhere he asked to be my friend on facebook he then sent me a message asking how i was n where i work , we were sending each other messages for a few days running the...
A. 29 March 2010: I feel that what happen was for your best, and i feel that he was just playing with you ... because if he did feel all that for you he would not have done all that just to blow you away ... . what he did was really very mean ... and he is not worth ... (read in full...)
5 things I DO NOT miss about my ex...
Q. Hey everyone, So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things t...
A. 29 March 2010: I never had a real relation with a girl, honestly I never had a girlfriend .... but I have had women leaching over me, and I found a song on youtube that made a lot of sense to me ... hope you like it ... it's from "the fray - heartless" ... I ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to cheat?
Q. I don't know if anyone else has noticed, but nowadays it seems like it has become completely acceptable (and inevitable) that if you are in a relationship your partner is deffinately going to cheat. You see all these poor humilliated women in the m...
A. 24 March 2010: it became ok to cheat when sex and money became more important than love, and marriage became an excuse to find some security (to find some one that has money to take care of you) ... this leaves love with no meaning ...
so ppl get in a rela... (read in full...)
I worry what the meaning of marriage is for the new generation.
Q. I am only 17 but I worry what the meaning of marriage is for the new generation. I have seen married couples into this new trend with the threesome. Correct me if iam wrong i thought when you marry its only to one person not sharing your mate. what ...
A. 23 March 2010: just to let you all know having casual sex with many different people is actually a bad thing and it has been proven medically that when you have sex with more people the harmon's in our body docomain and oxytosin which makes us stay with 1 partner ... (read in full...)
I worry what the meaning of marriage is for the new generation.
Q. I am only 17 but I worry what the meaning of marriage is for the new generation. I have seen married couples into this new trend with the threesome. Correct me if iam wrong i thought when you marry its only to one person not sharing your mate. what ...
A. 20 March 2010: i feel that today, the word love has very little or no meaning. I have lived to see women tell a man i love you because he has money or because he can provide her with security and I don't think that people should marry because of those reasons. ... (read in full...)
Love is simple. It's either there or it isn't...
Q. Love is simple. It's either there or it isn't. And it tells us when it is. Searching for it can take a lifetime and a lot of pain and anguish, misery even. Some of us have spent years with partners we don't love. But Love is out there waiting for us ...
A. 15 March 2010: that is easier said than done .... m8, I'm going to be 28 in a few months and all I've been doing is wait for that 1 person .... and so far I've got nowhere and I've never been with any1 coz of that and looks like ill be like this for a long time ... (read in full...)
He stares at me in class but nothing else, and I have a huge crush on him!
Q. so here s the story there s a guy in my college wel he stares at me and even i have a crush on him but i dont know how to approach him i dont want him to think that i m a flirt he just stares at me nothing more then that what do i do?i really want ...
A. 5 March 2010: haha, just go up to him and say hi... ive noticed you around and i would like to know you better or say something like would you like to be friends and see where it goes :D ... good luck... (read in full...)
This crush on my boss...
Q. I have a crush on my boss. She's around my age, and as far as I know, she's not currently in a relationship. She has a lot of the same interests as I do, and she seems like a really nice person. She's also not that high up on the management ladder ...
A. 5 March 2010: hey, i do believe that you need the classic approach ... write her a letter with your feelings and tell her that you would like to know her better ... maybe she is a modern uptown girl but she will like to know that some one appreciates her and ... (read in full...)
Is this behaviour normal? My boyfriend is starting to sound a little crazy
Q. i am in a committed relationship.its going to be 8 months,well my bf really loves me a lot,no doubt in that.its a ldr. umm...sometimes my bf sounds crazy,i mean just for fun he will abuse me,make fun of me,will call me a fool!when i say why is he ...
A. 5 March 2010: hey, let me just ask you a question forget bout the sindoor part of it for just a minute and tell me can you live with a guy who calls you names and disrespects you, maybe he is saying that her is just joking but seriously come on think bout it ... (read in full...)
Should I just not tell her...?
Q. Hey, I met this girl and we hit it off and became very close, anyway she confided in me that she had been sexually abused when she was young by her father, things were going reall good but then we broke, some of the relationship problems stem form ...
A. 4 March 2010: hello,
i do agree, and to add i wish you both have a lovely future filled with joy and happiness because its the experience that you share in a relationship that counts and keeps you together so don't let things get in the way of a beautiful rela... (read in full...)
Text kisses!
Q. Is there any difference in someone putting xXx at the end of a text compared to x, or xx or xxx? I just wondered because, well my situation is kinda complicated and this guy never tends to put any kisses on texts ever! But this time after we'd been ...
A. 4 March 2010: hey,
:O "x" equals kisses :S i thought "x" equals hugs and "o" equal kisses . now i feel confused :S it's a good thing i never had to worry about receiving any of those signs for any girl and definitely happy i never received them from any guy :P h... (read in full...)
Body Language 101
Q. Lila here~ Last week we talked about reading body language on the show. I thought I’d recap some of our findings for the sake of those of you who weren’t able to tune in. How can you tell if a woman you’ve just met likes you? Lucky for you, s...
A. 4 March 2010: hello,
thank you very much for letting the community know about these gestures I'm sure many men would be able to learn a little and be able to understand women better and make the woman they meet feel more comfortable about themselves when they... (read in full...)
Get More of the Good Stuff
Q. Pinkee here~ Want to get more of the good stuff and less of the bad stuff in your relationship? You know, the fun, the sex, the love, the good stuff, as opposed to the fighting, the misery, the resentment, the sex starvation? You might be s...
A. 2 March 2010: hehe .... hmmm! interesting stuff, that sounds amazing lets put this experiment into action and see what happens and hopefully ill be able to make a girl feel special enough that she would want to develop a relationship with me :P... (read in full...)
Porn, relationships, and confidence of women today.
Q. Okay, so i'm just going to talk about relationships and porn and let me know your opinions on what I have to say, if you're a woman that doesn't mind her man looking at it then fair enough but don't come ranting how us women who aren't are ...
A. 27 February 2010: I do apologize if i offended you in anyway with my answer but i think that a man that loves his woman doesn't need anyone other that his girl by his side ... and i find it disrespectful of any man that does that to any woman and I'm sorry to hear ... (read in full...)
Porn, relationships, and confidence of women today.
Q. Okay, so i'm just going to talk about relationships and porn and let me know your opinions on what I have to say, if you're a woman that doesn't mind her man looking at it then fair enough but don't come ranting how us women who aren't are ...
A. 27 February 2010: hello ladies, that i agree is an interesting and a very delicate matter that we are discussing ... but let me point out that not all men are like that ... some men do like to be and think about the woman they love ... yes i do know there are some ... (read in full...)
Oh, And Another Thing...
Q. Pinkee here~I just thought of another one that you guys seem to be spending waaaay too much time worrying about (see last week’s post, “It’s All Good, Guys”)- your height. As an exotic dancer, I know this because I wear high heels. I try not to ...
A. 20 February 2010: hehe ... i never thought there would be men who think that way maybe because I'm not that short but my problem is a little different ... its not about how tall that's bugging me :S anyways I'm sure that your thought did make many men who are worried ... (read in full...)
He was a drug dealer but says he has reformed
Q. ok this si going to sound stupid because i cant belive i'd say this but cutitn to the point. met a guy online.normally i wouldnt rush into things or get attachedd. nearly been a week and we jst chat so much. seriously hes great, and he unders...
A. 19 February 2010: hey, i don't think its any of our decision to make but yours to be honest ... and i think that you don't know him that well to decide if you wanna spend the rest of your life with him ... so i would suggest first to get to know him better then to ... (read in full...)
Why do I miss her even if she has give me sooo much pain?
Q. Hey everyone..My relationship of 2 yrs with my gf(more like a fiance to me) ended 2 months back!She was my first and i wanted her to be last too!ive always wanted to be with just one girl for the rest of my life..but i broke up with her! Its a ...
A. 19 February 2010: for any relationship to work what is important ...love, respect and commitment. well, let me put it this way when a girl stops loving you and started floating away and curses you like because there was no respect left ... she cheats because she is ... (read in full...)
It’s All Good, Guys!
Q. Pinkee here~ Was thinking this week about some of the stuff that men worry about, and how you really don’t have to worry. Now, I know that we women are the traditional queens of poor body image, but let’s face it, guys, some of you are getting hung ...
A. 18 February 2010: roflmao .... haha that's a nice thought xD honestly i do feel that good hygiene is very important regardless of whether you have a girl or not :P ... (read in full...)
I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!
Q. Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...
A. 17 February 2010: Hi, 27 years old virgin from india soon ill be 28, never had a girlfriend let alone a relationship(never been kissed either). Here I'm at an age where i cant get a girl because I'm too old (that's how the ladies here define old) "I'm off the ladies ... (read in full...)
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