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writes: I've changed! Suposibly I've gotten prettier, I lost some weight, I've gotten taller, i don't talk as much, I'm not as loud and alot more. But my friends don't like it. They don't like the new me. They miss the old me. But I like the new me not the old me. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, 1989BABY  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 I agree. Continue to be you and branch out a little more, find people who like the new you compared to who you used to be. Sometimes when people grow up they grow apart.
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reader, midnight juliet +, writes (14 July 2010):
 If you like who you are now,than sweetie thats all that matters.Your friends should just be happy because you're happy.Maybe you should tell them that.Tell them that it makes you feel bad that their not excepting what makes you happy.Hopefully if you just have a serious convorsation with them about it then things will get better.
Hope i helped,Good Luck
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 July 2010):
 Be you. Let them get used to the new you. We all change a little as we grow, it's part of nature.
Feeling more confident is not a bad thing, could be some of them are a little jealous, so just don't rub it in ;)
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 make your friends understand that the only thing that is constant in life is "CHANGE" and that its not a choice they have ppl change and they just have to learn to accept the changes .... coz lets face it they are getting older too ... just coz they don't like it they cant stop getting older now can they :P
like i said there is nothing constant in life except change ...and that's the truth and if they are truly your friends they will accept you the way you are and would be glad that you are happy
that's something that they have to do and not something that they have to be told bout zZz
anyways take care and good luck :)
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