Will an std harm my unborn child?
Q. i been together with my boyfriend for about 6 months ...i love him with all my heart ...he was my first and the only guy i been with ... like 2 weeks ago i went to the doctor and got a check up...she called me yesterday and told me i tested posi...
A. 6 April 2010: Chlamydia can be easily treated and cured with antibiotics.
If what you said is true,it is possible that you got it from him.
There is a possibility that he was treated and cured of the STD without your knowledge.
reference;-
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I really do feel that my heart is breaking in two...
Q. Can anyone offer any advice on my situation, my heart is breaking. I have been with my husband since we were 16, we are now in our fortys. Things havent been easy for us, there have been troubles along the way but we managed to ride the storms a...
A. 31 March 2010: You can either ignore all those abusive words , like nothing happened.Rationalized it because he is mentally sick or you could walkaway from it all.
It is a very hard choice and I hope you can give your very best before you call it quit.... (read in full...)
Should I cancel this trip so he realizes I'm serious?
Q. I just can't believe the incident that occured with me and my boyfriend. I went to meet him because he was waiting for his daughter to get dropped off by her mother..so, while I'm in the car with him and his daughter he ask's his ex if she needs a ...
A. 28 March 2010: Before you do anything rashly,I hope that you will think long and deep or you will have much regret later because you broke off when you were irrational.
Offering his ex a trip to the station or giving her money for the taxi fare is mere cou... (read in full...)
Hurt and betrayed by his text messages to another woman
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 11 years now and on the weekend of my birthday we rented a resort and invited some friends to celebrate. Well when he fell asleep something told me to check his phone and I did. That's when I found out! I h...
A. 28 March 2010: To be betrayed is a great sin . I hope that you will be able to forgive him out of your kind and generous heart . Pray and let God heal your pains and hurts.Give your burdens to Him and He will carry it for you .
Think more positive and time wil... (read in full...)
A one sided relationship
Q. i don't even know where to start. i've know this guy for 1 year and 9mth. During the first year we would see each other once or twice and sometimes not at all. We however at times emailed each other. After a year and 4mth he finally committe...
A. 28 March 2010: If you think he is a disappointment and cannot lived up to your expectations,it is better to let him go and find a better one.
Don't put him on your priorities but only an option.... (read in full...)
Will an std harm my unborn child?
Q. i been together with my boyfriend for about 6 months ...i love him with all my heart ...he was my first and the only guy i been with ... like 2 weeks ago i went to the doctor and got a check up...she called me yesterday and told me i tested posi...
A. 28 March 2010: I would suggest that you read more online and be more informed about STD's and how it affects the unborn child.
You could Google it online and one of the links I found is pasted below . You could also ask your doctor on your next visit .
r... (read in full...)
Fiancee lied about being a virgin, how can I let her down gently so she can find someone of the same mindset?
Q. Hai, il go straight to the point. My fiancee lied to me that she was a virgin, am 27 years and i kept my virginity she told me she slept with 10 guys and i dont i can marry her. How do i let her go gently so that she can find some else with her same ...
A. 27 March 2010: If you don't love her anymore ,you would mind about her not being a virgin.
If you truly love her deeply, it would not matter to you .
No matter how you sugar coat it , it will always be bitter to her.
I wish you all the best of luck in look... (read in full...)
I am alone and trapped by an abusive partner. Any advice?
Q. it might sound pointless writing a story like this on this site, but i have no one to turn to and really need some advice. im 18 years old, my boyfriend is 24. we been together a few years, my mum and dad are dead, my mum died of cancer then a ye...
A. 27 March 2010: If you're living with a violent partner or ex-partner - Jekyll & Hyde nature, always controlling, abusive, compulsive liar, provocative, immature, aggressive, constantly criticizing, manipulative, deceptive, refuses to communicate and cooperate, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doubts my virginity!
Q. my boyfriend doubts that am not a virgin when i was a virgin before having sex with my boyfriend. my growth is faster according to my age. so can faster growth be a reason for losing the virginity...
A. 27 March 2010: Faster growth is not a reason for losing your virginity .You can lose your virginity if you play vigorous games or activities or tampons, falling, riding bikes, fingers, sex, accidents.
You can only lose your virginity by having sexual intercou... (read in full...)
I want my baby but my boyfriend wants me to abort. Help!
Q. Okay so I'm 16 and 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is 17. Just hear me out okay (: Although my boyfriend of 19 months and I had talked about having kids, our baby was not planned. We weren't careful at all with protection and so inevitably, I fe...
A. 27 March 2010: Jehovah's Witnesses condemn abortion, teaching that life begins at conception and life is sacred to Jehovah.
Those who have committed serious sins before their baptism, or even after, will be forgiven by Jehovah and welcomed in the congrega... (read in full...)
How can I be his friend now that we have broken up?
Q. My bf recently broke up with me. We had been dating for a little less than a year. I broke up with him a couple of months ago because i felt very disrespected by pictures that i saw of him and my co-worker flirting. I agreed I would see how things ...
A. 27 March 2010: You need to accept reality and move on . That good times don't last forever. There are good and bad times in our life cycle.
There is a time for everything and don't have regrets. Keep yourself busy and go out with friends and enjoy your life and... (read in full...)
I really do feel that my heart is breaking in two...
Q. Can anyone offer any advice on my situation, my heart is breaking. I have been with my husband since we were 16, we are now in our fortys. Things havent been easy for us, there have been troubles along the way but we managed to ride the storms a...
A. 27 March 2010: My prayers and thoughts for you. I pray that God will give you the strength and the grace to face your difficulties and that you will not give up hope and have faith in God.
Take one day at a time and take one problem at a time. Hang on in there... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always complained about me and we just broke up, how do I get him back?
Q. My bf jst broke up with me,sayin that he don't want more of my problems while he is the one givin me a whole lots of headache.he compares me with his late gurlfrnd nd always complain abt me. . And finally has broken up with me. .should i move ahead ...
A. 27 March 2010: Just be civil and cool if you meet. Don't talk more than you should. Act confident and act uninterested in what he is doing .
Don't give him any chances, walk away . Give him back the same treatment that he has treated you.... (read in full...)
How come I do all the work and my friend gets all the guys?
Q. OK. So tonight my best friend and I went to a party at my friends house. We are both pretty but I'm a bit taller and a bit on the heavier side. Not fat just bigger. Throughout the night I'm more outgoing, I talk, i get people laughing, i try to meet ...
A. 27 March 2010: It is called sexual attractions.Boys are attracted to her because she has those sexual appeals .
She does not have to do anything but to stay insight of those boys and they will come to her like bee's to honey.... (read in full...)
I feel so deflated since she broke up with me
Q. Okay... so this is a really embarrassing question for me, but It's been bothering me for a long time. Here's the story... I was with a girl, who I fell in love with. She told me how her ex boyfriend had sexually abused her, and I respected that. ...
A. 27 March 2010: We should not judge others and let them be because they will reaped what they sowed .
We can only bless them and forgive them for the wrongs and move on.
Whatever happened cannot be undone and we can only learn from our mistakes.
We ... (read in full...)
Am I going to be the one when he gets over his ex?
Q. Well i've known this person for about 2 months now. He talks to me alot, we have encounters and he makes me laugh while I make him smile. He always wants to know more about me, asks me questions about myself, and he thinks i'm smart. It's some kind ...
A. 27 March 2010: Just follow where the currents bring you to. Keep your options open .
I hope that you are right about him. In such a case, he could go back to his ex g/f.... (read in full...)
I'm confused -- why isn't my b/f returning my texts?
Q. im 16....so me nd my boyfriend were friends before we were going out and really got along well. we have been going out for a few weeks. i cn tell hes nervous about our relationship but he doesnt want people to kno hes nervous. I see him at school ...
A. 27 March 2010: He could be busy or he could have lose his phone or he is not interested anymore.
You should see him and find out his reasons. Why don't you call him instead of texting him ?
... (read in full...)
I had to say no to a date, now he wont respond
Q. So I recently met this guy, I wont say where, but from the internet looking for love kind of ordeal. It took him a few days to shoot me a text, he said he was busy with work. Okay, thats fine. So we started texting a lot for two days. He w...
A. 27 March 2010: He could be busy or he has found another girl and lost interest . Time will tell.
No matter how busy he is ,I don't think he would just ignore and not reply your text. There is just something which is not right.
It is not difficult to rep... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always complained about me and we just broke up, how do I get him back?
Q. My bf jst broke up with me,sayin that he don't want more of my problems while he is the one givin me a whole lots of headache.he compares me with his late gurlfrnd nd always complain abt me. . And finally has broken up with me. .should i move ahead ...
A. 27 March 2010: You are never good enough for him . He thinks highly of himself and it is best you move on .
If you want him , you will have to let him chase after you on your terms. If you go after him , you will only meet with contempt and ridicules.... (read in full...)
I rarely feel satisfied after sex with husband
Q. My question, my husband and l have sex but he never really releases inside of me. That to me is a real turn off and makes me feel very unwanted, and somehow full of emptyness and feeling pretty much down. On the other hand once in a blue moon when ...
A. 27 March 2010: Women who were directly exposed to semen were less depressed.
This is because mood-altering hormones in semen are absorbed through the vagina.
Semen does contain several mood-altering hormones.
When you have sex, your body produces those... (read in full...)
Love at work place
Q. I am married for the last seven years and I have two kids, however my marriage is loveless. Last year I met this woman at work she is divorced with kids. From the first moment I saw her, I felt attracted to her and she was to me and in no time we ...
A. 27 March 2010: You should resolve to be stronger emotionally and mentally and walk away from all these problems with her. Refocus all your attentions to your wife and family.
If would be best if you can get move away from your present job. If that is not poss... (read in full...)
I feel my friend is trying to take advantage of my offer
Q. I don't know who to ask or what to do. I am a married mother of one gorgeous 5 month old and I have a best friend named Katie that I've known for 10+ years. Before Katie and George split, I offered to let Katie move in with me for a while, if ...
A. 27 March 2010: Give an inch and she wants a foot. She is taking advantage of your gentle and soft stand.
You need to put your foot down because you are inviting troubles into your home. Let her get help from another source.
If she cannot accept your term... (read in full...)
How can I stand on my own feet and support my family?
Q. Dear cupid, I'm a 24 year married Indian woman who has a one year old child. Two years back I got married to a man who does not take any decision on his own but always depends on his mother for anything, however trivial the issue may be. The prob...
A. 27 March 2010: There should be a lot of openings for software engineers. Why not let your family look after your kid while you work outside?
Alternatively ,since you are in the software business, you could open a small computer shop dealing with software... (read in full...)
I made a decision about the cheating father of my baby, now a friend is telling me I did the wrong thing
Q. I have a 2 week old son. His father is not in the picture. He pretty much just up and left and I haven't had any contact with him. At first he wanted to be there. He kept trying to agree to letting him get a place and have me move in with him. ...
A. 27 March 2010: It is over and your friend is just an academic exercise and nothing more.
You made the choice and you need to live with it.
If the next opportunity presents again , you should think care fully before you react.
... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband about what happened when I was a child?
Q. Hi everyone when i was a little girl at the age 8/9 my big brother have sex with me i am not sure and can't remember what happen now the i am married and its in my mind. do u all think i should tell my husband about it. i feel so bad...what shou...
A. 27 March 2010: Don't cause ripples in your marriage. What is past, let it be buried forever and do not unearth it. Let the calm rules in your life.
You do not gain anything by letting your husband knows about this sordid case.You will not gain anything except t... (read in full...)
Been together with a girl for over 3 years now we're broken up. She has no intention of getting back with me. Please help!
Q. *OP's own title* Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. For that length of time it felt as if we were the happiest couple alive. She always told me how I'm the most wonderful guy in the world and even better than the man of h...
A. 27 March 2010: If you love her, you let her go and if she comes back , she is yours.
The more you chase after her, the more she will run away from you .In the end, she will cut you off completely and you will only make a fool of yourself.
You need to respect ... (read in full...)
His mum says jump, he asks how high! How do I stop this ruining our marriage?
Q. this is my second marriage been married for 17 years I have 2 grown son's they live on their own and my husband has a daughter that she's married, after 10 years of our marriage my husband's mother moves into U.S. from middleast, our life has been ...
A. 27 March 2010: There is nothing much you can do with a husband like that. You will have to just hang in there until your patience and tolerance runs out and leave.
You could communicate your wants to him and leave it to him to deal with it.
Some people c... (read in full...)
Why do people say and do crazy and stupid things when they are hurt?
Q. I've read according to a study, that couples in new relationships have high levels of dopamine. Now,that's is the reason for doing ridiculous things while in a new relationship. But what about the other end of the spectrum, why do we do things that ...
A. 27 March 2010: When people gets angry ,they become irrational and do not think straight. All kinds of filter do not work anymore and it comes out raw and caustic.
They become a different person and it is like somebody is in their driver;s seat.
They are hurt... (read in full...)
Can you masturbate on your period or have sex without an erection?
Q. i was wondering how can women masterbate on their period? also does a man have to get hard before having sex to be able to have sex? ...
A. 27 March 2010: A man has to get hard like an iron rod to have sex . Even if it is semi hard ,like the peeled banana, it is not good enough .It cannot penetrate the vagina.
Women can masturbate anytime.Some women feel very horny during their periods.... (read in full...)
Wife says she is faithful, but likes teasing other guys?
Q. My wife and I are in our lower 30's and had a recent bad period where she said she was bored with our relationship and wanted to leave me. I made some changes and started spending more time with her and was able to turn things around. Even though ...
A. 27 March 2010: It could be just a passing fad and she may get tired of it. You should be understanding as long as she does not go overboard. If she is happy , that is all that is to it.
At the end of the day , she feels happy and go home with you . ... (read in full...)
Once bitten, ..twice shy!
Q. Please hear me out... In February of this year, shortly (about 2 weeks) after meeting this really nice, awesome guy at work, I asked him out, he seemed taken aback, politely said he had other plans, and that was that. We continued our flirty b...
A. 27 March 2010: "I told him once, and he replied that he didn't know what to say...which prompted me to ask him if he was gay, and he was a little angry and said No, .."
You should give him more time think over .It will take some time to sink in because he need ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to stay married to me if he doesn't want me?
Q. my husband and i have been married for 14 years, he has been gone for the past 10 years. I tried to give him a divorce in 2002 because he asked for one, when he received the papers, he wouldn't sign them. He has been living with the other woman for ...
A. 25 March 2010: Probable reasons
1)Apathy and uncooperative .You do all the dirty work of instituting the divorce,pay all those legal fee's and all those expenses involved with it.
2)Inflict more mental and emotional abuse by delaying the divorce .
3)H... (read in full...)
Wife says she is faithful, but likes teasing other guys?
Q. My wife and I are in our lower 30's and had a recent bad period where she said she was bored with our relationship and wanted to leave me. I made some changes and started spending more time with her and was able to turn things around. Even though ...
A. 25 March 2010: Flirting is harmless as long as she knows your limits and boundaries. You cannot avoid her flirting as you cannot be by her side 24/7.
If she is working , there will be a lot of males who would flirt with her and give her close attentio... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 25 March 2010: Maybe this book may help you to understand more about porn.
The Porn Trap
By Wendy Maltz LCSW, DST, and Larry Maltz LCSW
reference;-
http://www.healthysex.com/books.php
... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 25 March 2010: You need to think if single parenting is better than double parents and whether you will be able to stand up to the rigours of a one parent family.
Will it be fair to the children that their dad is removed from their care ?
I hope you can res... (read in full...)
I had sex with my sisters teacher. Would this be a relationship that could be pursued?
Q. Just recently I had some relationship trouble in my life. I have a sister who is quite younger than me who is going to the school I went to. She is in fifth grade and has the same teacher I had. She told him about what had gone on. At her school ...
A. 25 March 2010: This teacher is a very dangerous man because he took advantage of your weakness and have sex with you .
On all accounts, he should not be involved with you on a sexual level.
By inviting you back to his place, he had an ulterior motive.... (read in full...)
I need help to get over this relationship
Q. Well,mi ex and I had been together for 2 years but still talked for 2 years after.He had a girlfriend but me being dumb and in love,didnt care.He was emotinally abusive towards me and i didnt realize until it was too late.I decided to cut him off ...
A. 25 March 2010: Keep yourself busy ,go to the gym and do workouts and go out with your friends and enjoy the fun with them. In time you will forget those pains and sorrows.
Forgive him and let him go...Time is a great healer.... (read in full...)
Dreaded pimples!!!!
Q. Please i really need your advice on what to use.... have got a date on sunday, and i woke up this morning with so many pimples on ma face... please what can i use to make it go away before my date on sunday???...
A. 25 March 2010: One of the most popular of all the overnight pimple cures is to use toothpaste on individual spots to dry them out.
Not only will the pimples be dried, but the ingredients in the toothpaste will have an anti-bacterial effect on the zits as well,... (read in full...)
Will our baby have a birth defect? No judemental answers please.
Q. im having a relationship with my 1st cousin. I love him so much i would die for him and he would for me the thing is we want to have a baby but im afraid it might be born with a birth defect. I know what people are thinking were sick and its gros ...
A. 25 March 2010: First-cousin marriage isn't a surefire recipe for congenital defects.
True, marriage among close kin can increase the chance of pathological recessive genes meeting up in some unlucky individual, with dire consequences.
On average, offspri... (read in full...)
Should I risk removing her from my life hoping it would inspire her to date me instead?
Q. Ok, so let me just give you guys a little bit of my backstory before I get into my question. I have a friend. She is a girl. I'm in love with her (heard it a million times before, I know). So I asked her to be my girlfriend a couple months ago and ...
A. 25 March 2010: You can keep your hopes alive if you still maintain a friendship with her.
No matter what you do now , it will not cause her to change her stand unless your fundamentals have changed.
It is really silly and immature to force her hand now and... (read in full...)
In love with my b/f and falling for another guy too
Q. okay so i need advice i am in a relatonship , and i was not looking to find someone else , but i started talking to this guy and he is the most amazing guy ever ! and i always ask my boyfriend to comment me and be cute and say cute things to me and ...
A. 25 March 2010: Your b/f has taken you for granted and have stopped wooing or chasing after you .
His lack of attentions and affections have made you look outside of your relationship.
This guy is doing the wooing and showering all his attentions on yo... (read in full...)
How do you make a three person relationship work?
Q. I just want to know if anyone is in a 3-some relationship. If so can u tell me how you make it work cause I'm in one and sometimes i feel uncomfortable. ...
A. 25 March 2010: Two is a company and three is a crowd.
You can make it work if you or the other one is more submissive and agree with what is thrown at you .
If you are willing to accept only half a man and agree with the other one to share the man.
I am... (read in full...)
I don't want sex but I still pleasure him orally and he wants more help!!!
Q. I'm a 26 year old healthy woman who has absolutely no interest in sex or any type of physical intimacy. When I first met my bf, I would have sex with him to make him happy but it did nothing for me (we've been together for 9 months). Now I've tol...
A. 25 March 2010: When you are in a relationship like in a marriage, your body does not belong to you alone. He has a right to your body. You should not stop him from enjoying your body .
Even if you don't find any pleasure from the sex, you should allow him to d... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 25 March 2010: You have a very high expectations from your man and his inability to matched your expectations is a big disappointment to you .
If you cannot lower your expectations and live with him as to who he is , there is only one road to travel, divorce.... (read in full...)
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