Do you think his nervous habits when paying me compliments are signs that he's just lying?
Q. I would like to ask for the opinions of the aunts and uncles here about a man I am becoming very fond of who works in my neighborhood. We work in totally different places but met a few months back and have become quite friendly. I feel a strong ...
A. 12 April 2008: Why would he say you were pretty and lie about it? Why not just keep you as a friend?
I think it is more likely he is just nervous.
You say he's a policeman? So he's a big, rough, tough, alpha male. Men like that have no problem dealing ... (read in full...)
My friend who's been always lying for attention may become home-schooled soon, should I influence her decision?
Q. My Friend is a complete fantasist. She has always been a fantasist scince we were young kids. As time moved on and we went to secondary school she began to struggle socialy and came out with outrageous lies for attention. Lies like "she'd been...
A. 12 April 2008: First question - who told you she was leaving? Did she? Do you have any proof it could happen?
I'll assume you know this is true, like her parents have confirmed it to you.
This girl obviously has problems and needs help from a counsellor to fi... (read in full...)
17 and my voice hasn't changed yet. When will it fully break?...
Q. Ok I am 17, and my voice hasn't changed fully. Like it still cracks, a lot. When i was younger like 7-12 I was in a chilren's choir and of course I was a soprano. I have been involved in many sports and stuff so it's not a development problem i dont ...
A. 12 April 2008: Everyone is different hun, it will go eventually and the best way to find out when it will go is to check your DNA.
Ask your dad if he was a late breaker, ask your grandads on both sides of the family and your uncles.
Chances are one of them ... (read in full...)
Do all men experience a pre-ejaculation liquid?
Q. Does EVERY guy have pre-cum?...
A. 12 April 2008: Every guy is different, but the pre-cum might be so small that you don't notice it mixed with all the sweat and other stuff.
It only takes 1 sperm to get you pregnant though, so you have to be really careful and get a condom on it before you get ... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to greet my best friend with flowers and hugs as she returns from a trip?
Q. Hi. my best friend is coming is back from her holidays and i havnt seen her in a couple of months. I want to welcome her back, so i thought on getting her a nice bunch of flowers followed by a hug. Do you think this would be appropriate?...
A. 12 April 2008: Flowers are romantic. If you do not want her to think you are being romantic then do not get her flowers.
If you want to just stay friends then a hug will be fine, anything else might make her think you want more and may freak her out.
Why do ... (read in full...)
Why does he keep running away from things?
Q. does a leopard ever change its spots?ive realised since splitting up with my husband there seems to be a pattern with him.he had 2 businesses before i met him and just gave them up,he dumped his girlfriend of 5 years to go on holiday with his ...
A. 11 April 2008: Why should he change? People either forgive him, o he doesn't bother with them.
The fact he's abandoned children says the most.
Run away from him, he is not worth your time because you will constantly worried he's going to fly off the handle a... (read in full...)
I trust her but I don't know what to do, although they don't talk anymore!
Q. Dear Cupid: I'm just your average 18 year old guy i have a beautiful G/F. Well i'm goign straight to the point. You see last night my G/F and our former friend told in front of everyone (we had like 8 ppl in the chat)that she liked him......
A. 11 April 2008: Wow you are a paranoid person!!
She chatted to someone else online. BIG WOOP!!! For gods sake, they no longer talk, she doesn't like him, she is with you.
Get over it and fast because the thing that is going to split you up is you hacking into... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin even though he didnt break me?
Q. hi, yesterday i decided to have sex for the first time, i wanted to, the guy i tried to have it with i love so much, but when he tried to put it up it just wouldnt go in, even still i bled and it really hurt, am i still a virgin even though he didnt ...
A. 11 April 2008: You say it wouldn't go in - but you also say he was inside you... ??
I would say if you tried to have sex and got as far as you did, you can't say you are a true virgin any more.
But I think next time it will go much better, as you will be more... (read in full...)
Where do we go to for abortion advice?
Q. well me and my girlfriend had unprotected sed right and now abit ago right and no she keeps feeling sick and and pissing all the time bu shes on the pill as well so we just took a test the other day and it sed she wont but she ant cum on her period ...
A. 11 April 2008: Go and see the doctor who she got the pill from.
They can advise you. She could be getting sick and having a late period because of all the stress.
It sounds like she probably isn't pregnant but the doctor will be able to tell you more.
If ... (read in full...)
My divorce is bringing out a "dark side" of my boyfriend's personality. Should I be concerned?
Q. Wonder if anyone could help me.... I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and I think we have a pretty good relationship. I have been going through a divorce and it has reached a sticking point over financial issues. However I have tried to ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi,
I'm not going to disagree with the people below - they have good points, BUT.....
ALL MEN have a dark side. It is called testosterone. And this will come out the most when it comes to "protecting" you.
He knows you are married to a man... (read in full...)
What should I do for myself and my children. What is wrong with him?
Q. I have been married almost 3 years and been with my husband for a total of 7 1/2 years. we have two beautiful little girls and we have had our little fights but nothing major. Here in the past two months he has changed. He has started drinking more ...
A. 8 April 2008: Something has obviously happened to him. Either something bad that he needs help with, or possibly an affair.
But you can't keep chasing after him as he'll just run further away.
Ask him to meet you in a neutral place like a cafe, and ask hi... (read in full...)
Should I cut my losses and let him go? Am I reading too much into it all?
Q. I have some niggling doubts about my boyfriend that I have been going out with for 2 years. He is 5 years younger than me - I am 36. When I first met him he admitted he had been keeping a few girls on the possibles list until then. This was ...
A. 8 April 2008: He's going abroad, he's not bothered if you come or not.
To be honest, although I think you are probably right to split up with him, I also think you are being a bit paranoid about texts.
Girls from work might have asked him to come out for (wo... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's been abusive for 2 years.
Q. We started off happy, but then he became homeless so I was there for him, I slept outside with him some nights even in his car. I didn't want to leave him alone, we stayed at my parents a lot which is when they started disliking him. For 2 years ...
A. 8 April 2008: Leave him. Go back to your parents.
Decent men do not hit you or scare you. They don't expect you to work to support them. He is a pathetic loser who does not deserve your love.
He says he wants to be with you... but won't prove it, all he... (read in full...)
I stood her up as I froze from nerves, now she's spitting her dummy out of the pram!
Q. hi all I hope you can help me I was meant to be meeting up with a girl the other week and it didn't end up happening in the end because I froze, I wanted to talk to her but I couldn't if that makes sense? Anyways she didn't talk to me ...
A. 8 April 2008: Threw her dummy out of the pram??!
You stood her up and you annoyed at her for being angry with you?!
Being stood up is HORRIBLE and as she quite rightly says - never happens in normal life. You could have sent a text rather than leaving her... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend has female friends, why when he talks to them and I ask him what's up with them does he tell me it's none of my business?
Q. If my boyfriend has female friends and I have male ones, why when he talks to them (either phone or email) if I ask what's up with them, how are they, that his conversations and who he talks to are none of my business?...
A. 8 April 2008: It depends how you are asking....
If he thinks you are going to be a jealous wife - he might get defensive.
But if you are just asking as part of conversation and he snaps at you then that is a bit weird. When he tells you that, what do y... (read in full...)
Are women usually sensative about men messing with their breasts? Are there certain times that are better than others?
Q. Are women usually sensitive about men messing with their breasts? Are there certain times that are better than others? My wife always acts like she doesn't want them messed with but it seems like when she gets in the mood its ok but only for a short ...
A. 8 April 2008: If my husband came up and grabbed my boobs I would be pissed off.
Are you always trying to get them? Does she think you like them more than her?
You have to respect a woman's body.
Obviously when in the mood, being stroked in sensitive pla... (read in full...)
I really want to meet up with childhood friedn again but mum wont let me!
Q. Ive known this boy i like since i was about 4. But weve only jus recntly been talking well for the pst 7 or 8 months. I really want to meet up with him again, and we have arranged to so many times but my mum wont let me meet him, i dont understa...
A. 8 April 2008: How have you been talking to him?
Online? There are so many horror stories on the news about paedophiles tricking teens online and parents are told not to let their kids go and meet people like that.
Ask her calmly what her reasons are. Tel... (read in full...)
I really want to have sex with him, but I wanna be dating him first
Q. okay so this guy that I have liked since like 5th grade came over this past weekend, and we made out a lot. it was amazing. he left bite marks, and idk. it was crazy. I think I really want to have sex with him, but I wanna be dating him first. I ...
A. 8 April 2008: If you have sex with him he will lose all respect for you.
He'll either stop calling, or lead you on to get more sex.
Next time you see him, make sure it's not at a house, go out, hang out, let him get to know you.
Don't do anything mor... (read in full...)
I don't think he finds me sexually attractive...
Q. i am in a new relationship since last may he is very considarate loving and kind but i just dont think he finds me sexually attractive other men do so i know i am but i can be laid next to him in bed in sexy under ware and he just watches tv i have ...
A. 8 April 2008: When you are lying there and he's ignoring you, do you ever make a move? Do you ever poke him and say "Why are you ignoring me?" Do you ever turn the tv off?
If a guy does something and you don't complain about it then he'll accept that it is ok... (read in full...)
Should I ask the girl I like out again?
Q. ok, to put a long story short I have known (and liked) a girl for ages. I think she knows I like her and i think she might be interested in me. I have known her for years, we used to be very close but then we stopped seeing each other and when i...
A. 8 April 2008: You asked her out, she said yes. Don't harrass the poor girl with questions about your relationship.
Text her a couple of days before hand to arrange when and where but apart from that, leave her to it.
I mean you could always send the odd jok... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a chick who's getting married...
Q. Hi, There is a girl that I work with that I have fallen head over heels for. Problem is she's already getting married. What can I do that will help me to stop wanting her as more then my friend. I can't get her out of my mind because she is so wonde...
A. 8 April 2008: Your easiest option is to get a new job. Work your way up the career ladder a step. Apply for new better and more senior jobs. Or go travelling for a while.
I might say that women who are more attractive simply because they have nothing to lose ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why we argue so often!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and when we argue we both get really angry. I'm so confused on why we argue so much. Am I fighting with him cuz I don't love him or cuz I don't want to be with him? We have been dating for a yea...
A. 8 April 2008: It might be a rough patch.. or it might be a sign it's over.
Sit down and think about if you really want a future with him. Don't think about how it used to be. Think about now.
Talk to him and ask him how he feels.
Perhaps you should go... (read in full...)
Im pregnant, My husband is selfish, and spends more time with the neighbour than me!!
Q. My husband and I have been together for five years, but recently got married in May 2006. I am five months pregnant with our second child and he doesn't seem to love me. I am having a hard time with the weight I am putting on. He knows I am an ...
A. 8 April 2008: The fact he has changed so dramatically during your pregnancy is really worrying. Do you think it will get better when there is a screaming baby taking up your time.
How dare he tell you that you aren't sexy any more?
You need to ask him if th... (read in full...)
How can I go to a funeral with him being there too?
Q. 2 years ago my cousin and his friend raped me, and i fear my g-pa is going to die soon, how can i go to a funeral with that monster being there too? I need help on this question................
A. 8 April 2008: You need to tell someone what happened. You've been incredibly brave in dealing with it so far but it must be haunting you.
What is to stop them from doing it again to some other poor girl? Are you happy to let them get away with it?
I'm not... (read in full...)
Should I just move on with my life and let my husband realize what he has given up?
Q. My husband and i are going through some really hard times right now and we are trying to work through some things. But, i don't know what to believe and what not to believe. He says that he is trying to grow up and trying to get us our own house so ...
A. 8 April 2008: Have you really sat down and told him how this is making you feel?
I bet he would change his ways if he realised you were thinking of leaving him.
Sit him down and work out a schedule for time together. Ask him why he wants to leave so soon af... (read in full...)
Why do I feel the need to pressurize girls on the net?
Q. I don't want to say I'm not a good person, I am. My question is this: Why, when I talk to a girl (via the internet, because I feel too nervous face to face!), do I feel the need to pressurize them (not stop when they dont send me messages for a d...
A. 8 April 2008: You are angry and insecure about women and I think you need to stop talking to them for a while.
Girls can really be affected and scared by people who seem to be aggressive. It is not right to make them feel that way.
This is not linked to yo... (read in full...)
My parents and family won't accept me being pregnant they would flip out, and bf blames me for not terminating!
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for 2years we had lots of problems in our relationship and he thought i was cheating on him with my ex but i wasn't, i would never do something like that to him I love him to much but he doesn't trust me one ...
A. 8 April 2008: You poor girl. You have been treated awfully by this man. You need to ignore him now and concentrate on yourself.
Your parents may be disappointed in you but I don't think they would throw you out. Sit them down and tell them what happened... (read in full...)
My love with my wife's sister!
Q. I am married to my wife 9 yrs back, and have two kids. I love my wife verymuch. It was three years back when my wife was carrying my second kid, her sister stayed with us to help her. During this time, somehow we both liked eath other the way we ...
A. 8 April 2008: What do you mean, no girl has ever liked you? Your wife loves you!!!
You need to stop seeing this girl. Cut contact and work on your relationship with your wife.
Do romantic things together and get some help.
You cannot ruin your life, y... (read in full...)
I am about to lie to my family about where I am flying to
Q. I need to visit my boyfriend - I havent' seen him for months and love and miss him so much - but he lives in another country. I have hidden my relationship from other people because of our cultural differences and I am about to lie to my family ...
A. 8 April 2008: Ok,
First, you are in your late 20s. You can go where ever you want and see whoever you like.
However, sometimes it is easier to tell a white lie if it will stop the hassle. Don't worry too much about the details, how much detail about fli... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too close to a guy who has a vendetta against me!
Q. My boyfriend recently went away with a group of friends for the weekend, one of which has a particular vendetta against me as I refused to sleep with him a few years ago. My boyfriend has returned very cocky... not nasty, just full of himself an ...
A. 8 April 2008: You need to ask him what has changed because your paranoia will end up ruining your relationship.
Explain why you are scared this man may have a grudge against you.
Your boyfriend may not have told him about his relationship with you because... (read in full...)
Before I just try to love him now again do I believe him when he says he loves me?
Q. Hi,to all the members of Dear Cupid!i do really need your advise here,This was the story goes,I meet this guy before our relationship is not good coz he meet many girls and even i am his gf,it hurts me coz he doens't contented with me,mybe he was ...
A. 8 April 2008: He's messed you around and lied to you.
Do you really want to be with a man like that? I think you would be better off with someone else.
Tell him you do not want to be his girlfriend and find a boy who loves and respects you.
Good Luc... (read in full...)
I was drunk and had unprotected sex, did he ejaculate....?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend went out to a night club and got hammered on saturday, thing is, he told me he wanted to go home and have sex and that's perfectly fine, it's a "normal" occurance. So we went back to mine very drunk and then we went to have ...
A. 8 April 2008: It doesn't matter if he did or not, bits of sperm come out anyway.
Get to a doctor and get the morning after pill today - you may just be in time to take it.
Then book yourself in to get an std test.
Do you and him really enjoy getting tha... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for how I can keep myself occupied while my bf is away??
Q. Okay, I have this problem.....my bf is a doctor....therefore he is gone alot..........and I am an attention whore basically......what could i do to occupy my time while he is gone?...
A. 8 April 2008: I'm an army wife. You have nothing to worry about.
Get out, get some friends, get a new hobby. Put things you are interested in into the internet. There will be drama groups, and writing groups and painting groups and all kinds of things to do if... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a girl, but not sure how to tell her what I feel, please help.
Q. Hi there, i don't know, where should i start, this is the first, severe, and disturbing confusion in my life. The thing is there is this girl whom i started spending sometime with, i used to know her in a supermarket where she works, and rece...
A. 8 April 2008: So far you have told her that you are nervous about going to clubs, you aren't experienced with girls and you don't know what you are doing.
You need to be more positive!! If you are worried about being silent then take her to see a film. Then you... (read in full...)
It's been a year and I can't get over the fact that my boyfriend was so hung up about his ex
Q. My boyfriend broke up with his ex only a few days before he confessed to me and we got together. His ex got really depressed about it, and as a result, he treated her very well... A little too well in fact. Since both he and his ex belong to the...
A. 8 April 2008: If you got together 3 days after he broke up with her, then it was no wonder he wasn't over her.
BUT... he stuck with you, he got over her and he's now with you.
You could have told him you didn't want to be with him till he was over her, bu... (read in full...)
I'm hurt thinking my ex preferred my best mate...
Q. i'm a bit confused, i split with my ex 3 months ago now and found out recently she likes 1 of my best mates. Before we started dating she had been dating a different best mate for a week or two but changed her mind and asked me out. I found out whil...
A. 7 April 2008: Tell your mate she wasn't worth it anyway and go out on the pull together.
Cut contact with this girl as even though she might still feel like a mate, all she does is cause you trouble.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He felt like a father to me, but now he's left. What can I do?
Q. can someone please help me?? x okay im 12 yrs old nd i go to a school in milton keynes... i have a great relationship with my tutor...i tell him everything..nd i feel like i can really trust him..then i had a tutorial with him nd he told me ...
A. 7 April 2008: Oh sweetie I'm so sorry that you lost this person. It's so great to have someone to rely on.
This is exactly like if someone in your family died. You are going to feel very sad for a long time but you will get over it.
Why not ask your real da... (read in full...)
How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you?
Q. How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you? During intercourse I have had a strong urge to tell him, but should I wait to hear it from him first?...
A. 7 April 2008: I told my husband I loved him first. It was by accident when we were having a cuddle. It was horrifying as there was (what seemed like) a huge silence and then he said it back and everything was wonderful.
Don't say it during sex, there are whol... (read in full...)
How can I make my breasts bigger without surgery?
Q. Is there anyway to make your breasts bigger? Without surgery? x...
A. 7 April 2008: Get fat. Of course then you will be fat and less attractive so it won't have worked anyway.
You are still growing. I was a B cup till I was 16 then BAM they went huge over the next couple of years. I now wish they were small again as they get in t... (read in full...)
Do girls care about the size of a penis?
Q. I'm just at the average size for the male penis. I was wondering, do girls care about size..i mean, they have to a little right? I'm 17 and only 5.5-6 I'm thinking that's small for my age.. is it? ...
A. 7 April 2008: 5 - 6 inches is normal for any man.
And let me tell you that it really really is not about size when it comes to being good in bed.
I went out with this one guy who was HUGE, and was absolutely rubbish at sex. He wasn't into foreplay, or whe... (read in full...)
Will only one emergency contraceptive pill have the right effect, as I've lost the second one?!
Q. I am 15 I have a urgent question about the emergency contraceptive pill. 3 nights ago I had unprotected sex and I don't think the guy came/ ejaculated. Just to be safe the next morning approx. 8 hours later I bought an emergency contraceptive ...
A. 7 April 2008: You should have gone straight back to the doctor and got another pill.
I am not a doctor so I can't say one way or the other if you are safe or not. You sound like you have a good chance of not being pregnant... but then life sucks so who know... (read in full...)
I'm hurt thinking my ex preferred my best mate...
Q. i'm a bit confused, i split with my ex 3 months ago now and found out recently she likes 1 of my best mates. Before we started dating she had been dating a different best mate for a week or two but changed her mind and asked me out. I found out whil...
A. 2 April 2008: You've answered your own question.
Forget about her and move on. She obviously gets off on playing games. Some girls love the feeling of having blokes fighting over them. They love the attention and the jealousy and drama. She sounds a bit mess... (read in full...)
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