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Won't see him for over a week, hope the feelings don't change

Q.   it is now the christmas holidays and i wont see my boyfriend for over a week,, we can keep in contact by texting but i hope things wont have changed after not seeing eachother for this lentgh of time. what can i do to stop this from happening? ...

A.   19 December 2009: It's a week. If feelings are going to change after just a week then you have bigger things to worry about, for example your own emotional issues.if his feelings change, then you probably don't need a guy who is so inclined to possibly cheat. ... (read in full...)

Everybody hates me and nobody likes me

Q.   i am 17 years old. My 32yo sister won't have anything to do with me because i am "f***cked in the head, a s**t, a wh*re, embarrassing, stupid.. the list goes on. She has never met my 3 month old daughter as she told me to abort it or she would ne...

A.   2 December 2009: I understand what you're going through but I also know that you can get past this because I did not a long while ago. My personal suggestion is to move out or if you need to, get emancipated. You are not living in a healthy environment and your ... (read in full...)

Sweet Sixteen and Never Been Kissed

Q.   16 year old girl and has never been kissed?! Why do I feel as if no guy does not like me in a way to want to get to know me? I can grind with a guy and he can get a boner, but no guy wants to get to know me? Why is it that I feel that no guy want...

A.   2 December 2009: Maybe you should try less grinding, more talking. If you want a guy to want to get to know you then try to make it seem like you aren't just a piece of ass. If you grind with a guy then try to get know him then he won't think if you the way you ... (read in full...)

Does he sound like he wants a relationship?

Q.   I've been seeing someone for about 2 months. We talk daily and usually see each other 2 or 3 times a week. When we do get together it's for hours on end. I haven't slept with him and have told him that I'm not ready and he's said he's ok with ...

A.   20 October 2009: The best way to know is just to ask him. Honesty goes a long way, but don't make it too serious. Just be like, "if I referred to you as my boyfriend, would I be wrong?". From his reaction, you'll know for sure. ... (read in full...)

Should I take a chance or ignore my instincts?

Q.   Hey there, ok so here's my problem. I have the strongest feelings ever for my best friend. (he's a guy). I know it's not love but it sure feels like it whenever i see him or talk to him. He just came out of a 1 year relationship so i know he's ...

A.   20 October 2009: Be a supportive friend, and when you feel it's appropriate, tell him your feelings. You'll never know unless you try. I plan on doing just that with my best guy friend. I gave myself a deadline and hopefully everything will turn out okay, but if it ... (read in full...)

What do girls look for in a boyfriend?

Q.   Simple questions to the girls. Pls, consider you re lookin for a bf. And what are the features you ll be lookin for. Everything as a whole,what you girls look for when looking for a boyfriend.put everything you feel like you need in a boy friend. ...

A.   20 October 2009: I'd say the most important thing for me is a guy who genuinely shows that he cares. Because then you know that he's worth the time. Notice the little things, take an interest in what they like. But more importantly, just be yourself. ... (read in full...)

Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?

Q.   Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me ...

A.   20 October 2009: It's pretty simple. Don't grind, or come to the realization that we are all human and at a certain age, we all develop strong hormones. You seem a little young to be having sex, so the best solution is to just chill and really think about your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend carries around naked pictures of his exes!

Q.   My bf of 10 months, but we worked together for a year n a half prior ... Has a lunchbox full of nude pics of himself w/ him, exes end , exwife. They are all very tiny and apparently very comfortable w/ themselves. I believe that he loves me and may ...

A.   19 October 2009: You need to be firm and not back down on this. If he loves you, he'll respect your feelings and if not then maybe you should rethink your relationship. If he's still thinking about other women and making you feel insecure, then there's something ... (read in full...)

My cousin wants to have sex again! What should I do?

Q.   I whent to see my cousain yesterday me and her realy like each other and we've had sex before safe sex ofcouse but she won'ts us to have it again and I don't no what to say should I or should I not plzz help me ...

A.   19 October 2009: It sounds like you're being used, and at a young age, you're vulnerable. You clearly don't want what she wants, so I would recommend telling her no straight up. If she persists, you need to tell an adult about the situation, especially if you're ... (read in full...)

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